Hello Everyone,
This is my first post here. And I wanted some help/suggestions.
I've had so many problems in the past that I don't even know where to begin. Still
I've a hereditary medical condition wherein I've excess skin in the penis. The skin does not retract back automatically when fully erect. [Till 17, I didn't even know that it was supposed to retract back. ]
When I was 16, while bathing I touched the tip of the penis for 2-3 second and I ejaculated. Now, this was the first mistake I made. Not knowing the correct way to masturbate, I started rubbing the tip of penis (excess skin) in circular way to masturbate. Actually, this way I could masturbate 5-6 times in a row!
During my first year in college (18), my friend brought a porn movie and that's when I realized the usual way to masturbate. I tried that way a few times but it just wasn't good enough and I'd loose erection quickly. So, I resorted back to my old method. This continued for 3 years. BTW I masturbated at least 4-5 times daily since my first time.
In my final year (21) I had a gf and we started exploring things (she had previous experience) Now this was the first time I realized that I couldn't get an erection in front of her. We tried a few times but epic fail. So, we started masturbating each there. Actually, I could give her orgasms 4-5 times in just 2 hours and she was completely satisfied that way. One day, I had morning wood and immediately tried to have sex with her. The penetration was successful but the feeling was strange and my erection died down quickly. After that I never even tried penetration and remained to just masturbation.
After college we split, and I had another gf. Now I knew I couldn't have sex properly, so we remained to my usual way. During this time, I really tried hard to improve my masturbation method, and after few months of trying finally corrected it. Now I could masturbate the usual way. This continued for some years.
I'm 26 now. Recently, I got Fleshlight that approximately feels like a vagina. I started practicing on it and after a couple of days I could actually ejaculate using it. Once I got the hang of it, I started practicing it more natural ways i.e instead of moving my hand, I started moving hips keeping the fleshlight stationery. In few weeks, I mastered that too! I was also addicted to high speed hand movement, But was finally able to readjust to slower and more natural hips moment.
Also, My dick size always remained 5.5" erect through out all these years. But after I started cumming on Fleshlight, I found my dick to 6.5" erect! I assume it was solely because of my initial faulty masturbation practices.
Now, I've
1. Corrected Masturbation style
2. Adjusted from death grip to more natural vagina feel
3. Adjusted to more natural speed
4. Seen increase in dick size.
5. Reduced my frequency to once a day
But, I've yet to correct my erection problem.
I don't get an erection no matter what I do. Stimulation gets me an erection but it dies down quickly as soon as stimulation is stopped. I get morning wood everyday and that stays for at least 5 mins after I wake up.
I've tried to correct all my problems slowly and couldn't find any solution for this one. Any help is appreciated.
Thanks!
This is my first post here. And I wanted some help/suggestions.
I've had so many problems in the past that I don't even know where to begin. Still
I've a hereditary medical condition wherein I've excess skin in the penis. The skin does not retract back automatically when fully erect. [Till 17, I didn't even know that it was supposed to retract back. ]When I was 16, while bathing I touched the tip of the penis for 2-3 second and I ejaculated. Now, this was the first mistake I made. Not knowing the correct way to masturbate, I started rubbing the tip of penis (excess skin) in circular way to masturbate. Actually, this way I could masturbate 5-6 times in a row!
During my first year in college (18), my friend brought a porn movie and that's when I realized the usual way to masturbate. I tried that way a few times but it just wasn't good enough and I'd loose erection quickly. So, I resorted back to my old method. This continued for 3 years. BTW I masturbated at least 4-5 times daily since my first time.
In my final year (21) I had a gf and we started exploring things (she had previous experience)
Now this was the first time I realized that I couldn't get an erection in front of her. We tried a few times but epic fail. So, we started masturbating each there. Actually, I could give her orgasms 4-5 times in just 2 hours and she was completely satisfied that way. One day, I had morning wood and immediately tried to have sex with her. The penetration was successful but the feeling was strange and my erection died down quickly. After that I never even tried penetration and remained to just masturbation.After college we split, and I had another gf. Now I knew I couldn't have sex properly, so we remained to my usual way. During this time, I really tried hard to improve my masturbation method, and after few months of trying finally corrected it. Now I could masturbate the usual way. This continued for some years.
I'm 26 now. Recently, I got Fleshlight that approximately feels like a vagina. I started practicing on it and after a couple of days I could actually ejaculate using it. Once I got the hang of it, I started practicing it more natural ways i.e instead of moving my hand, I started moving hips keeping the fleshlight stationery. In few weeks, I mastered that too! I was also addicted to high speed hand movement, But was finally able to readjust to slower and more natural hips moment.
Also, My dick size always remained 5.5" erect through out all these years. But after I started cumming on Fleshlight, I found my dick to 6.5" erect! I assume it was solely because of my initial faulty masturbation practices.
Now, I've
1. Corrected Masturbation style
2. Adjusted from death grip to more natural vagina feel
3. Adjusted to more natural speed
4. Seen increase in dick size.
5. Reduced my frequency to once a day
But, I've yet to correct my erection problem.
I don't get an erection no matter what I do. Stimulation gets me an erection but it dies down quickly as soon as stimulation is stopped. I get morning wood everyday and that stays for at least 5 mins after I wake up.
I've tried to correct all my problems slowly and couldn't find any solution for this one. Any help is appreciated.
Thanks!
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