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i started with the PE routine a couple of months ago & saw good progress. an then I got married & now I am fighting hard to keep up with my wife's needs. she's ready anytime of the day or night and doesn't seem to have enough of me. I'm literally drained & when I tried doing my PE routine recently my obedient dong just refused to cooperate... :( I saw some good results when I began but now I'm terribly depressed for not being able to maintain that progress. sounds really stupid but any advice to help me with this situation? thanks in advance
 

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Congrats on getting married and having a super ready and willing wife. Some of the Vets will have to help you on this one, i am lucky if i get sex once a month. Have a spanking good time.
 

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thanks nova! well thats why I was trying to figure out whether I was the lucky one or if too much lucky is a problem! an she's drppin' wet like it nobody's business. I have to redo my bed after every session & change all the linen. not complaining bout that though! thnx anyways
 

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thanks nova! well thats why I was trying to figure out whether I was the lucky one or if too much lucky is a problem! an she's drppin' wet like it nobody's business. I have to redo my bed after every session & change all the linen. not complaining bout that though! thnx anyways

If you can get her dripping wet and coming back for more x times per day, I think the last thing you need is MORE stress on your member. Clearly she's satisfied anyways. Just do some stretches and kegels during down time and wait for your relationship to develop a bit more. You guys will probably stop having sex THAT frequently, and thus grant you more time to work on your body. You know, body builders can't workout during a Mr. Universe contest either. Just sick back and enjoy the fruits of your labor for now.
 

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Wow, I'm jealous and confused how this is a problem :confused:. Yes I do get the point you are making but...seriously...no time to PE because your wife wants sex from you all the time? What a "problem" to have! Enjoy this now while you have it, PE can wait!
 

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i feel your pain bro lool got to be careful with pe-ing and sex though you do not want to be fatiqued and she wants sex and you cannot get an erection. Just PE in moderation, you will still gain just slower.
 

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WN you are freshly married! Congratulations and enjoy it! I really hope I'm wrong but in 10 years you will be remembering this as "good times"
As far as PE, just do a light stretching routine, something very light a cementing one.. I guess girth routines that require 80% Erection level are out of question..

Congrats!
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Screw the pe bro, pay attention to the needs of that lovely young lady. If it makes you feel better one of the very best ways to maintain gains is frequent sex!!! As metioned above it will slow down but for now she seems to like it so enjoy he honey moon phase.
 

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In my opinion.... I would spend A LOT of time doing oral upon her. Make it your business to give it to her all you can. If she gets off to it, Oral and some fingering can go along way. Even a vibrator used on her may tire her out,,,,and look at it this way: You should be turned on like a "mo-fo"!! (I would) :)
 

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Does she have a sister or any other female relatives that act that way? Well I had to ask!!!!!
 

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I have the same kind of problem but quite the opposite. I´m ready any time, and just see her naked or if she kiss me with her tung, or i touch her boobs my solider stands up hard and ready. I want to have sex everyday, and have been with this girl 10 years. But shes not like me, shes never horny but have give me sex almost everyday. So i start to have a extender and stretch my penis because do something else so i wont get to frustrated.

I love her and shes a real sexy girl and good in all ways, but if could change something on her it would be so she will be like your girlfriend.

She use P-ring so no baby will be, and the DR. says that some people can get no sex appetite side effect.
 

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Dude you're having a ton of sex I don't really know why you're complaining =P It will MOST LIKELY slow down, and once it slows down you will have more time to spend just you and your unit =] Good luck!
 

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I have the same kind of problem but quite the opposite. I´m ready any time, and just see her naked or if she kiss me with her tung, or i touch her boobs my solider stands up hard and ready. I want to have sex everyday, and have been with this girl 10 years. But shes not like me, shes never horny but have give me sex almost everyday. So i start to have a extender and stretch my penis because do something else so i wont get to frustrated.

I love her and shes a real sexy girl and good in all ways, but if could change something on her it would be so she will be like your girlfriend.

She use P-ring so no baby will be, and the DR. says that some people can get no sex appetite side effect.

Also with your problem, you are probably acting too "needy" and this is making her turned off and not sexually excited when she sees you. Is there ever a time when SHE is the one who wants to have sex? Probably not, you're always the one "begging" for it. If I was you I'd change your ways and be in control of the pants (and the zipper). It might be too late? I'm not sure. Good luck

edit: apologies for the double post (I could care less about my post count honestly)
 

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like everyone has said. Don't worry about PE right now since you are getting it anyways. Hell, it has been 5 years with the wife and I and I still don' need to do PE but I choose to when we happen to be away. Hell yea! But, all that shows that she is extremely happy with the member.

Focus on loving her in every other area as well.
 

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I know exactly where you are coming from brother. When we were first seeing each other and even after we were married and started having kids, we were doing it 2-3 times a day. Life eventually starts getting in the way and things taper off. Now since our kids are grown and are out of the house a lot, we are back to at least once a day and numerous times a day on the weekend. I wouldn't even bother with the PE for now if I were you. Save all your energy for her. When things slow down and if you want to start back then, then go for it. Right now, your time and efforts are better spent on her.
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If it starts cooling down too fast, just spank her. She'll bounce right back.
 

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I know exactly where you are coming from brother. When we were first seeing each other and even after we were married and started having kids, we were doing it 2-3 times a day. Life eventually starts getting in the way and things taper off. Now since our kids are grown and are out of the house a lot, we are back to at least once a day and numerous times a day on the weekend. I wouldn't even bother with the PE for now if I were you. Save all your energy for her. When things slow down and if you want to start back then, then go for it. Right now, your time and efforts are better spent on her.
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If it starts cooling down too fast, just spank her. She'll bounce right back.

2-3 times a day? Damn.. I've had sex a couple times in one day but it wasn't EVERY day. Must find a girl sexually active like this hahahah.
 

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thanks all of you guys - nova, aBone2pick, steno, jamai, s55, BigO, DickWhammy, CUSP88, snippan, Two, Black Amethyst, Looking4more! yes, I'm definitely lovin it! I mean there are times when I go for a second round within 10-15 mins & manage a good job but the PE routine is equally important for me. I take your advice to enjoy what I'm getting at the moment & PE can wait. I'm doing that anyway. @DickWhammy: I've already done oral on her & she loved it! @BigO: Yes, the frequent sex is not only keeping my li'l bro very contended but he seems to have become more masculine these days with stronger veins & an improved bulk! LOLZ! @aBone2pick: yes she's very satisfied of course! I mentioned PE to her to grow my boner & she said no need for it as she's happy with the way it is already! good for me but still, I will be on the PE routine as I want a bigger boner for myself as well as to stuff her even better. @CUSP88: unfortunately she's the only female sibling in her family! Keep lookin, you'll find yours soon! Thanks again for all your suggestions & advice!
 
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@snippan: I guess the advice given by Two is correct. You might be acting too 'needy' which kind of turns her off. Otherwise, some women do not get aroused so easily. My advice would be don't focus in the sex straight away. rather kiss her tenderly, touch her in every area gently, passionately & pour out a lot of emotions in touching, feeling & loving her. I'm sure this'll definitely arouse her interest & willingness to get more and more in to the real thing. Don't fret but relax & breathe easy & take things a little more tenderly. I'm sure it'll work out to your satisfaction. @Two: double posts or more are wonderful. keep them pouring in. @Looking4more: Her? Cooling down? I'd like a bit of that. She once jokingly called me the Milkman - the man who she milks! Spanking is definitely not required for her at the current scenario. Thanks all once again!
 

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@peagsus: mmo? could you explain a bit more?