Went for 3 hours!!!

[nibbles]

Okay so this has happened once before.

Me and my girlfriend started touching and foreplay began. She started to go down on me and I blew my load almost straight away. I then started on her and whilst doing so got another erection which i then literally used to have sex for over 3 hours!!!

It was crazy. This has happened once before, I've gone really fast but got another erection whilst i was teasing her. I think I get over aroused at first which is why i blow my load to fast the first time and the second time i get an erection it is due to no touching just from generally being turned on.

I'm not sure if i could make it so that the first time i get an erection i can go for ages but it seems that over arousal at the start seems to be the case. I'm not saying this always happens but it's happened before so i think it must be linked.

At the moment I'm literally doing front reverse and back reverse kegels and also started to listen to hypnosis designed to fix sexual anxiety.

Anyways hopefully this will happen again and if so i will report back, seems i just got to work on arousal the first time round

 

[TheSperminator]

Perhaps masturbate if you know you're getting some later on?

 

[battram]

Tactical wanks could leave you a little limp and she'll be gutted when she sees you aren't hard.

Maybe you should just repeat the process you've just described every time you have sex. The fact you came twice for her can only be a good thing anyway.

 

[JamesMonroe]

I've posted about this before. Sex right away after ejaculation is what has made me last more than 1 hour. I usually use the same erection right away though before it gets limp from lack of stimulation. I seriously doubt u had sex for 3 hours though. Most people don't have the physical health and lungs to do that.

 

[nibbles]

James: I went for over an hour but had to stop for about 10 minutes because she actually started bleeding. It was that intense it was crazy, as soon as she was ready I went for another hour and a bit.

I don't really want to have to do a tactical wank every time because i can't always plan when i'm going to have sex, plus i don't think it would work. It's the arousal at the start that gets me it seems. I don't think a tactical wank would help that much.

 

[bautista19]

Hmm. The first time you came immediately, the second time she bled and and it took you three hours to cum.

Are either of those time frames desirable?

 

[nibbles]

First one obviously i want to last longer but the second time if i really tried i could have probably pushed myself to cum. I was just loving the moment so much that i didn't want to just think "screw it that's enough" because i believe subconsciously that's what i always do.

My reverse kegels have definitely got a lot stronger, i noticed when i go for a wee and without even trying my urine is coming out at some speed. I think this has definitely got something to do with it but only time will tell

 

[bautista19]

RKs have helped me pee too.

Are you on any anti-depressants?

 

[JamesMonroe]

Nibbles.... How do you incorporate rev kegels during sex?

 

[no minute man]

Sounds like the beginning of my current relationship... beware!

This is the way my sex life with my current girlfriend began... she's gorgeous and the sex was so hot, i always busted pretty much immediately. But i never had a problem keeping the erection and then being able to carry on and come again basically whenever i wanted, be it five minutes or an hour later.

However, as our relationship carried on, this became less and less desirable. I still always busted immediately, but as the novelty of having sex with her wore off, it became harder and harder to have that second orgasm, meaning instead of five minutes it HAD to be an hour if i were to have another orgasm (probably an exaggeration, but my point is that it was too long to be the norm)

She's all about ME getting off, so as that second orgasm became harder and harder to come by, she began losing interest/desire after my first orgasm. So then we were left with like less than a minute of sex that we were both actually enjoying.

Having little to no refractory period is nice for someone with pre-e when you're sleeping around or just hooking up or whatever, because its like "oh that? i wouldnt worry about that. i'll can still go for hours." but for a long term relationship, this type of sex is not sustainable.

i want to be able to have total control of my ejaculations, be it a quickie or an hour.

I agree with you about it being linked to over-arousal.