Edging problem

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Every time I try to edge, I always get cum stuck in my cock and it a little bit drips out...I do not orgasm however....is my pc muscle not strong enough or am i doing the exercise wrong?
 

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Every time I try to edge, I always get cum stuck in my cock and it a little bit drips out...I do not orgasm however....is my pc muscle not strong enough or am i doing the exercise wrong?

Keep practicing that sounds like a retrograde ejacualtion. Best to get a boner again and ejaculate. One of the rules to edging is you need to relax your body. In otherwords uncurl your toes, relax your facial muscles, your thighs and abdomen. The only thing that should be moving and moving slw is your hand ever so gently going up and down your dick.
 

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This is common when you start egdging, usually with a mild orgasm. It may be a retro orgasm or a partial ejaculation.
I can normaly edge during sex for a long time. However one day I had a partial ejaculation, but could keep going, a lot later I came properly and the girl was very impressed with me coming "twice ". She was so impressed that I practised and managed to do it deliberately. This was so difficult however, that I rarely attempt it.
Anyway moral is, don't worry about the odd accident, just keep practicing.
 

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Yea, i had something similar. Kinda bothered me a bit. It did so much I've stopped using my kegel muscle during edging on purpose. What happened was I would get to the PONR (well, right before it) and kegel nice and good. A LOT of what seemed just clear pre-cum came out, and I still had my erection. Then later on, I felt the full ejaculation, but NOTHING came out. I purposely masturbated for the purpose of ejaculating again, but very little. I've now started to just edge until the PONR and then stop, instead of kegeling to stop the ejaculation. Is what I'm doing no longer edging now?
 

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Doodles what you are doing is edging.
Sometimes you can cum into your bladder instead of external. This is called a retrograde ejaculation. Means something like backwards ejaculation. This is nothing to worry about; unless you want to make your girl pregnant.
Doodles my advice is the same, keep practising ,don't let the odd accident put you off.
In my mind, the idea, is to reach the point where you are multi orgasmic without ejaculation.