I dont know if anyone is really gonna be able to help me out with this too much, but basically ive been playing around and trying to pay attention to my body and here's what ive come up with:
The other day i decided to watch some porn without masturbating (at least right away). I watched it for a solid 20 minutes, trying not to to get hard, but that was inevitable. I tried hard not to involuntarily kegel, but i just kind of felt like waves of sensations move from the base to the head of my penis. My cock didnt move or anything, but i just kinda felt some very mild sensations. These are sensations i would like to avoid but i think its something thats more going to come from practice, but if anyone has any tips, im all ears.
Also, i bought a cheap fake vagina a few months ago and ive been practicing edging with that. What i have come to find is that i dont feel the orgasmic sensations nearly as much when i am thrusting in, i mainly feel them when i am coming out.
Are there any adjustments i can make when i am coming out? Like, should i exhale or inhale when i am coming out, should i reverse kegel when i get out? Any tips here would be appreciated.
Lastly, after a random hookup last weekend and some experimentation yesterday, i came to the conclusion that when i'm laying down and stroking i can go for a lot longer than when im, for example, on my knees actually humping and moving my body. When i thought about it, nearly all of the times ive had sex and lasted a decent amount of time was when the girl was riding me.
So the last question is a 2 parter: does anyone have any tips for keeping in control when humping in like missionary position, and 2- does anyone have any tips for getting the girl to be on top? It seems like with all of my sexual encounters ive always been the initiator of sex and i always start w/ missionary. I think i would be able to go longer w/more control if i were to start on the bottom, but i dont exactly know how to get a girl to start out like that.
Thanks folks.
The other day i decided to watch some porn without masturbating (at least right away). I watched it for a solid 20 minutes, trying not to to get hard, but that was inevitable. I tried hard not to involuntarily kegel, but i just kind of felt like waves of sensations move from the base to the head of my penis. My cock didnt move or anything, but i just kinda felt some very mild sensations. These are sensations i would like to avoid but i think its something thats more going to come from practice, but if anyone has any tips, im all ears.
Also, i bought a cheap fake vagina a few months ago and ive been practicing edging with that. What i have come to find is that i dont feel the orgasmic sensations nearly as much when i am thrusting in, i mainly feel them when i am coming out.
Are there any adjustments i can make when i am coming out? Like, should i exhale or inhale when i am coming out, should i reverse kegel when i get out? Any tips here would be appreciated.
Lastly, after a random hookup last weekend and some experimentation yesterday, i came to the conclusion that when i'm laying down and stroking i can go for a lot longer than when im, for example, on my knees actually humping and moving my body. When i thought about it, nearly all of the times ive had sex and lasted a decent amount of time was when the girl was riding me.
So the last question is a 2 parter: does anyone have any tips for keeping in control when humping in like missionary position, and 2- does anyone have any tips for getting the girl to be on top? It seems like with all of my sexual encounters ive always been the initiator of sex and i always start w/ missionary. I think i would be able to go longer w/more control if i were to start on the bottom, but i dont exactly know how to get a girl to start out like that.
Thanks folks.
