If your man told you he was doing PE but you didn't see a difference..
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I am not a woman but I would hope she wouldnt. Then all the guys will be like see, now I dont believe her when she has already told me I am the best or the biggest. If they do lie to help the mans ego and then the guy finds out he will then wonder what else has she lied to me about to help my ego, or even worse she has lied to me because the last guy was bigger and he had to be better and I am now crushed and want rabid beevers to chew my log off at the nub, kill me now I am a total loserrrrrrrrrr.
Nope, a woman should not lie to you about it, you should know if its getting bigger anyhow, at least if ya got a tape.
Nope, a woman should not lie to you about it, you should know if its getting bigger anyhow, at least if ya got a tape.
IN MY OPINION a woman should say yeah she felt a difference (even if there wasn't one) BUTTTT a guy shouldn't go off and be like "how much difference", "am I the biggest now?", etc to the point that it forces the woman to admit that she lied in order to shut him up. Again, IN MY OPINION, if a woman says she did feel a difference, it would encourage the man to keep on going with PE right? And then hopefully later on in his PE journey there WILL be a difference.
I wouldn't tell my partner about PE until I knew my dick has grown quite a bit just so I could get the reaction like "no wonder it seems bigger" or "I thought I noticed a difference." Sorry if that wasn't quite what the topic of this thread was about.
I'm not a women so it's kind of hard to say.
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I'm not a women so it's kind of hard to say.
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Always a tough topic, I still believe whatI posted earlier but I also agree with what you say here in a sense. I believe if it was done carefull and still truthfully which could be done by woman saying wow its harder and it looks bigger than it did before if you were in the flaccid state that could be a truth and still she didnt say your bone was bigger, you walk away feeling better but should she lie to you, still a big no.
its a catch 22 for the woman and the only thing a man gets out of it is a false sense of gain. She should tell him she supports it and give him the time to do it but if you do it for 6 months and you know you havent gained as a few do not than eventually a guy gets mad at his gal and again will go back to thinking she has lied about other stuff.
Lying is still lying no matter what and as sensitive as a man is about his goo bazooka, trust me it would come back to be her problem later, damned if she does and damned if she dont.
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Exactly, she should support you but not lie to you if she doesn't yet feel the difference. You should feel comfortable with your woman already and she with you. Then it also depends on what you already have before PE'ing because there are dudes here already packing somethin'-somethin' down there so their woman already feels something during intercourse.
My wife knows (does agree with me PE'ing but does shun me for it).
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See, I told my ex girlfriend (who is like... my best friend and we stayed as friends somehow).
She told me not to make it too big while we were dating still... although this was like... two or three weeks before she broke up with me.
I told her how big I was before... she just said dayumn.
She was far more interested in me being able to last as long as I want (almost) and cum without cumming (not perfected).
She told me not to make it too big while we were dating still... although this was like... two or three weeks before she broke up with me.
I told her how big I was before... she just said dayumn.
She was far more interested in me being able to last as long as I want (almost) and cum without cumming (not perfected).
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Lying like that is no good -- I wouldn't do it. I think it's important to tell the truth, but to do it in a supportive manner. It's hard for me to believe that a lady would not see some obvious improvement in at least some areas in a man who was PEing. Maybe not changes in everything all at once (length, girth, EQ, angle of attack, control, lasting power, etc.) but in some of them, absolutely. But if even if she didn't see major or many changes, she could still compliment him on his efforts and get excited about it -- that costs nothing and does not involve any lying.
Interestingly, I've been PEing for a little over two months, and while I have gone from 6.5 to 6.75 bpel, and around 5.25 to 5.5 eg, I think the only thing that my girl has noticed is that my sex game has worsened, and a result, my girl has been orgasming less frequently. I used to be able to make her orgasm consistently, as I have always been able to move well and last a long time, but I think my increased size has made me more of a selfish lover. I am now thrusting instead of grinding a lot more to see if she can feel my increased size, and I am hitting the cervix almost as if it were a matter of pride. Now I think I can see why so many guys with big dicks are lousy lovers: they are more interested in their dick size than in pleasing their women. I want to keep adding to my length and girth, while focusing the way I used to on pleasing her. Maybe that's the question we should be focusing on -- not whether we are gaining so much as whether we are still pleasing them.
I think you nailed it pretty good Batwoman! I guess I automatically assumed that girls would give either a "yeah i TOTALLY feel a difference" or a "wtf you're still small blah blah blah" type of comments
But not what is in between which is SUPPORTIVE truth
I would tell him the truth and I guaranty you I'd be supporting him. Better food, private PE time, cardio time etc.
Just as a good person would no matter the goal her partner sets. Dick, six pack, weight, whatever.
Lasted longer: how can she lie about that?
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No! Of course not, I really value honesty in relationships and I really want to tell him the truth without hurting his feelings.
My guy is suffering from this depression he feels for his penis length (4 inches erect, which really isnt bad). Yet he somehow has been obsessed with penis enlargment. He's bought a penis pump and several pills already but none of them really seemed to work. He seems to think so too, which is so frustrating for him. He's just about ready to go for a phalloplasty... I dont want him to do that though.
