In the grand scheme of things, ...

[GTO]

... how has PE affected your life? I'm not talking about the positives in bed (but then again, if there have been negatives, that would be interesting...), but those things outside of the bedroom. More confidnce? Realizing a more healthy lifestyle? Share.

 

[UYN]

After starting PE, I started eating more healthy, and exercising more in order to promote and help my potential gains. I have always been normal/slim for 5'11". I weighed 174 pounds before PE, now I weigh 147; crazy I know. You can almost see my abs now Yay! Also I have cut down on alcohol to a VERY strict minimum. I even completely cut it out for a couple of month, and wow the results

-UYN-

 

[NP97]

I have lost about 20lbs since I started PE. Improved my ability to talk to the opposite sex (not so much having a big dick, but confidence in myself). I have just been less stressed and having more fun as well.

 

[boxer]

I have to say the same as the first two post's. Ive lost nearly 35 pound's since I begain PE, I feel more confident in talking to women, ive changed my lifstyle completly and now my mind feel's healthier, I feel I can think better. I barly ever stress out anymore and im usually in a really calm happy state of mind, PE has changed my life for the better.

 

[redbear52]

PE has made it somewhat more difficult for me to not show in pants. I am married so attracting women or having more confidence with women was not an issue.

 

[GTO]

PE has made it somewhat more difficult for me to not show in pants. I am married so attracting women or having more confidence with women was not an issue.

So you're saying that's a bad thing (difficulty in not showing)?

 

[redbear52]

It's not always a good thing.

First of all, I am 59 years old, and I don't particularly want to look like I have a hard-on when I am walking my dogs in front of the grade school down the street because I don't particularly want people to think I am a sex maniac.

Second, there are occasions at which having a visible penis outline is not particularly appropriate, such as when attending your best friend's mother's funeral.

Third, I am straight and I don't particularly enjoy having other guys staring at my crotch.

And lastly, I have been employed in a profession in which visible genitalia contours are definitely frowned upon.

A lot of slacks just don't have enough room and increasingly less expensive clothing is purchased in places that don't have changing rooms (like Walmart or Sam's) or over the internet.

 

[millia]

Overall PE hasn't really changed me as a person. I've been confident in myself plenty before PE, probably in an arrogant and condescending way. I was never scared of talking to girls, or not confident while talking to them. Same thing about fitness, I was a semi-professional football player when I started PE and so fitness wise PE hasn't helped me with that.
What it has helped me with is my focus, and is proof that I can commit to something other then video games. It's taught me a lot about myself (not everything though!) and has helped me understand that consistency in lots of things. It's also helped me to establish a personal routine (even though I don't follow it) but it has helped me in those aspects.

Also, guys have tried to make eye contact with my one eye down there while I'm traction wrapping, while I don't particularly like it, I do find it flattering

 

[boxer]

Also, guys have tried to make eye contact with my one eye down there while I'm traction wrapping, while I don't particularly like it, I do find it flattering

What do you mean by this? you tracktion wrap in front of people? are you taling about locker room shower's or somthing? lol sorry im just not understanding.

 

[NP97]

I think he means being out while traction wrapped.
I know what you mean by the bulge thing. I was wearing my gym shorts to a meeting at work yesterday. Huge bulge in my pants and obvious cock outline. Caught a bunch of people looking. I laughed a bit.

 

[blackirish]

Overall, PE has been an encouragement for me to get in better shape, eat healthier, and best of all cut out caffeine.

I know what you mean about hating a bulge at certain times. My flaccid is pretty much always full anymore. I was at a water park for the first time since I was 9 haha...and I was bulging real bad. I actually got kind of embarrassed when I would catch people looking at it.

But most times I like the bulge haha.

 

[boxer]

I think he means being out while traction wrapped.
I know what you mean by the bulge thing. I was wearing my gym shorts to a meeting at work yesterday. Huge bulge in my pants and obvious cock outline. Caught a bunch of people looking. I laughed a bit.

Alright now I got it.

 

[GTO]

It's not always a good thing.

First of all, I am 59 years old, and I don't particularly want to look like I have a hard-on when I am walking my dogs in front of the grade school down the street because I don't particularly want people to think I am a sex maniac.

Second, there are occasions at which having a visible penis outline is not particularly appropriate, such as when attending your best friend's mother's funeral.

Third, I am straight and I don't particularly enjoy having other guys staring at my crotch.

And lastly, I have been employed in a profession in which visible genitalia contours are definitely frowned upon.

A lot of slacks just don't have enough room and increasingly less expensive clothing is purchased in places that don't have changing rooms (like Walmart or Sam's) or over the internet.

Ok - I can certainly understand that - esp. the kid and funeral thing.


I recall an episode one evening at the hotel I was in last week and it was a few hours after a session. I was hanging very good amd was pretty fat. I had on some poly sweatpants and no underwear - was just going to the store for some Gatorade. As it happened, I passed two groups of women coming out of a conference in one of the ballrooms - (I had no idea they were there that day). The stares I got were classic! Made me feel very self-conscience and very confident at the same time. A couple of them even did a lottle school-girl whispering to each other as I passed. Pretty funny but it did make more aware of going out in public like that.

 

[NP97]

My family said I'm not allowed to wear gym shorts with no underwear anymore. They "don't want to see that".

 

[redbear52]

My wife occasionally stops me at the door and says "You're not going out in public with those pants, you look way too graphic".

I'm curious, NP97. You are just about 1/8" bigger than me in length and girth. I assume you are more a shower than a grower as I am.
Allowing for the fact that flaccid size can often vary a good bit, how big would you guess you are soft and on those occasions when you don't want to "show" do you do or wear anything special to prevent it?

 

[NP97]

On average it's about 5"-5.5" flaccid depending on activity level and weather.
I wear loose fitting pants. Not baggy, but not tight either. So I'll be wearing cargo shorts with boxers on. No show with that. My work pants are a little tighter with everything I keep in my pockets. They tend to show the bulge.
Can't wear sweat pants while going commando.
I have yet to wear any overly nice clothes (no suits or even nice khakis) in a year... so I have no idea what's going on there.

I find the best thing to do is throw on a pair of boxers. They tend to spread most of the bulge across the front of my pants. Rather than there being a big dick outline there is just a bulge around where it is.