Erectile Dysfunction and Premature Ejaculation problems

[Foxtrot]

First of all, I would like to say thanks to the founder and mods in this board in my first thread. May you have a lot of erections everyday

Alrighty, I do know that most of the problems in my head but I have a bit of erection malfunction and more of premature ejaculation problems. I get morning boners, boners when my bladder is full in 50% cases, erection when I watch p0rn (but I don't masturbate and I don't watch p0rn that often now), erection when I see a nice pair of boobs outside (boob guy). But somehow, I tend to lose erection during sex. Yes, I feel kinda bit not sure and whether I will try to have longer sessions. Now, if I try to force myself for erection then I ended up having premature ejaculation problem.

I am in a distance relation with a girl in Russia. I live in Finland. I met with her only once, and I took Ceilis. (20 mg tablet. I took 1/4 of it). Yes, I was ready for sex all the time. Now I don't have Ceilis anymore, and it is quite expensive in Finland. Not to mention you need doctor's paper to get it. I got my last tablet when I was in South Asia for work. (Boy, Ceilis was cheap there. 20€ for 20 mg (2 tablet tablet box)).

Anyway, I don't want to take Ceilis. For how long I will keep cheating? That ain't fair with her and with me.

So I was going trough forums, and I found out that:

I need zinc tablets
I need magnessuim tablets
I already have multi-vitamin tablets (A,B,C,D,E...all in one)
I have Fish liver oil
I have L-Arginine tabelts (1000mg/tablet). Recommended doze as written on box : 2 tablets/day.

Now I can't take this whole pharmacy everyday. It just sounds bizzare. I mean, if I am going to take these in the morning (or during the day) then I am afraid that there might be some reactions in my body. So could you help me with that? Can I keep taking these stuff everyday?

My girlfriend is coming tomorrow, and I found out this forum today. I am writing with a lot of hopes that someone will help me out. I have read about Giner/Green Tea/lemon/Cayeenen pepper combiation tea. I am going to give it a try. I already bought cock rings incase if things head to south.

Any recommendation(s) that can help me?

 

[Pegasus]

You can take these supplements everyday without problem.
Are you a nervy sort of guy?

 

[Foxtrot]

nervous in sexual matter? yes I am...

 

[Batwoman]

Foxtrot, don't overthink all this -- RELAX. It sounds like your problems as psychological, not physical, and that is in many ways easier to fix.

My advice is to focus on having a great, long bout of sex without penetration. Learn her body, pay attention to every part, kiss and lick her, bring her to orgasm with your lips and fingers.... don't make fucking your goal. If it is, and if you worry about it, you may have problems again. Your goal should be mutual pleasure, and there are so many ways to get there! Young guys often focus just on the fucking, and that is a mistake anyway (at least from the female perspective).

Since you are clearly physically capable of getting strong erections, my guess is that if you stop obsessing about getting hard for intercourse, and focus instead on other things, you'll suddenly find yourself hard as a rock and slipping inside her. If you take your time and focus on just enjoying yourself instead of performing, everything will be better.

The very best thing to do (although it may be tough since you are in a long distance relationship) is to talk to you girl about this. Girls love to help their men though problems, and I'll bet she would be really helpful in helping you relax and go slow. My favorite kind of sex is the kind that lasts several hours, only small part of which is actual fucking. I love long periods of stroking and touching whispering and oral and other activities that are not designed to lead directly to orgasm, but rather just to provide sensual delights and closeness. Make your sex like that, and good things will follow.

 

[myketasin]

I think Sex is great and you should be nervous about it. The pleasure of excitement is extremely awesome. i think you should be more relax and stay focused....Cheers!

 

[markwilson419]

Advice on Erectile Dysfunction.

Advice on Erectile Dysfunction.

Erectile Dysfunction is defined as the inability to achieve or maintain an erection sufficient for mutually satisfying intercourse. Erectile Dysfunction impacts more than a man's sexual activity. The emotions and uncertainties that coincide with this condition often have a significant effect on a man's self-esteem, as well as and his relationship with his partner. Although the incidence of Erectile Dysfunction increases with age, it is not an inevitable result of aging. Erectile Dysfunction is a secondary condition linked to many medical conditions.ED can be treated by the Viagra.

 

[james120685]

Both are different sexual problem of men which makes them embarrass during the love making time, ED means the inability to achieve the erection during the sexual acts and In premature condition males are ejaculates too soon without as compare to female orgasm.

 

[bautista19]

I wouldn't worry about the supplements because you can get boners, but not with your woman. Your problem is psychological. You are probably concerned about performance. If you can talk with her about it, do it. Most guys don't, but I did. That cured probably 75% of my anxiety.

Then my honest-to-goodness next step is probably a penis enlargement routine. This will take time obviously, but it's a huge confidence booster.

Also finally above all, you are doing this for yourself....not for your woman. She doesn't deserve the throbbing penetration...your dick does.

 

[NOWHARD]

First of all, I would like to say thanks to the founder and mods in this board in my first thread. May you have a lot of erections everyday

Alrighty, I do know that most of the problems in my head but I have a bit of erection malfunction and more of premature ejaculation problems. I get morning boners, boners when my bladder is full in 50% cases, erection when I watch p0rn (but I don't masturbate and I don't watch p0rn that often now), erection when I see a nice pair of boobs outside (boob guy). But somehow, I tend to lose erection during sex. Yes, I feel kinda bit not sure and whether I will try to have longer sessions. Now, if I try to force myself for erection then I ended up having premature ejaculation problem.

I am in a distance relation with a girl in Russia. I live in Finland. I met with her only once, and I took Ceilis. (20 mg tablet. I took 1/4 of it). Yes, I was ready for sex all the time. Now I don't have Ceilis anymore, and it is quite expensive in Finland. Not to mention you need doctor's paper to get it. I got my last tablet when I was in South Asia for work. (Boy, Ceilis was cheap there. 20€ for 20 mg (2 tablet tablet box)).

Anyway, I don't want to take Ceilis. For how long I will keep cheating? That ain't fair with her and with me.

So I was going trough forums, and I found out that:

I need zinc tablets
I need magnessuim tablets
I already have multi-vitamin tablets (A,B,C,D,E...all in one)
I have Fish liver oil
I have L-Arginine tabelts (1000mg/tablet). Recommended doze as written on box : 2 tablets/day.

Now I can't take this whole pharmacy everyday. It just sounds bizzare. I mean, if I am going to take these in the morning (or during the day) then I am afraid that there might be some reactions in my body. So could you help me with that? Can I keep taking these stuff everyday?

My girlfriend is coming tomorrow, and I found out this forum today. I am writing with a lot of hopes that someone will help me out. I have read about Giner/Green Tea/lemon/Cayeenen pepper combiation tea. I am going to give it a try. I already bought cock rings incase if things head to south.

Any recommendation(s) that can help me?

Hi, Just try cutting your supplements back to just 5 days out of 7, this way they will work stronger, the Green tea is good for you with the ginger lemon and honey, leave the Cayenne out, try this, mix cayenne with tomato paste and thin it down with oilve oil, but just mix it to a heat that suits you, and after time you can add more cayenne, take this 3 times a day, 3 small spoonfuls and wash each of the down withwater before a meal, you can add fine chopped garlic to it if you want, garlic is also a great helper, I keep a small pot in the fridge of fine chopped galic in olive oil with parsly in it.
Now the tea I make a 2 pint pot of green tea and into this a put ground down herbal Tribulus, I let this steep overnight, and drink through the next day, use leaf and not bags, and after taken to mugs out just retop up the pot with boiling water.
The ginger I keep in the freezer, and fine grate down, you need a pile the size of a large hens egg, add this and a slice of lemon and micro wave for 30 sec, then add the tea and honey, its realy good for your blood, and its good blood that gives good hard on's.
Hope this help as well.
Good Luck
NOHARD
PS Try and relax with your g/f when it comes to sex, just think of her and not you, some guys think me, me, me, and what I want, when it comes to sex, what and you are about to do is for both of you, thats the important thing, again, good luck.