Does Size Matter?

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I have spent the majority of my day doing some research for my book. Particularly, the focus of my topic today was "Does Size Matter?"

I now have over 4000 words of research, which I will have to condense down to a meager 1000. It appears people like this subject :)

Although the reason for my research was to acquire some good quotes and examples, I must say I was intrigued with some of the responses on multiple forums.

On one forum, I recall a man with a three inch penis with the confidence of a Bull. He knew he was small, but proclaimed he couldn't do anything about it (little did he know about PE :) ), so instead he focused his goals on other things. Very interesting.

But more interesting were some of the female posts. I admit that since PE is obviously a big focus of my life, I spent a lot of time talking to female friends and strangers about penis size. So none of this was new to me, but rather more interesting because online the truth is even more prevailing. As the old saying goes, you get to know the true person when they hide behind a mask -- in this case, the internet.

Anyways, on to the females' responses. Women, like men, naturally like different things. Penis size is often compared to breast size -- for good reason. Many men like bigger breasts, but some men don't. More importantly, if I were courting a female that I found attractive in every other way, I surely wouldn't kick her to the curb because she didn't have the right breasts... Perhaps if she didn't have the right butt size... but not breasts. Just kidding.

To the point - This is my opinion, and it has been for a long time. Bigger is better -- to a certain extent. There is such a thing as too big. I probably wouldn't desire a penis size in the double digits, regardless what my partner wanted. Similarly, breasts can be too big too. It kind of goes with the old goldilocks story. Not too big, not too small -- just right ;)

More importantly, is bigger better to you? Does a bigger penis make you feel better? Does it please your partner more? These are the important questions. Does size matter is a very rhetorical question. Of course it matters to some... but not so much to others.
 

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Remek,

I never thought that size mattered back years ago. Now that I gained in EL I would say that it does matter. When you find out that there is exercises that can help, GO FOR IT. When you have a penis that turtles when you are flaccid and looks small it doesn't help. Now after 10 months of being with the PE routine it has a different look, it hangs longer and doesn't turtle.

My wife look at my body alot different then she use to. So I think that size does matter to all women.
 

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Dust, you hit a very good point I forgot to mention...

Many women claim they would rather have a nice guy, that is good looking and has money, instead of a guy with a big penis. These statements always seem funny to me. It is a way to diverge the question. In an essence, it's like saying nice, good looking, rich guy can't have a bigger penis.

My question to people, when I discuss it with them, requires putting everything else aside and rewording the question to: does a bigger penis feel better than a smaller penis?
 

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But now the question becomes, "What is the size of a penis that is 'just right'"?

What's not too big and not too small? It varies for each individual.

IMO, I think size does matter. If you didn't, then you wouldn't be PEing right now or even be on this site.

And as far as women saying that the size of a guys penis doesn't matter, those type of responses usually come from women who have not experienced a big penis firsthand (no pun intended).

For some, the ideal might be 7 x 5 and others it might be 8 x 6. I think that if you have anything in between these two sizes, you should consider yourself lucky, stop focusing on PE and start focusing on banging as much poon as possible before you die.

Just my two cents.
 

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Quick,

You touched on some amazing points here. ;)

quik4life said:
But now the question becomes, "What is the size of a penis that is 'just right'"?

What's not too big and not too small? It varies for each individual.

Absoultely right. This is like the goldilocks scenario I was talking about earlier. Everyone is different. One guy might like "thicker" women, others like girls that weigh 100 lbs. However, there are some girls that are often in the middle. A thick, small women, might highly qualify for both guys, if all else is right.

This is a lot how I look at PE. When PEing, I think it is smart to ask yourself two questions:

First, and most important, what is the penis size that I want? How big do I want to be?

Second, what penis size would be most likely to accomadate all (the size queens and the girls that can't take a big penis). For example, when talking about breast sizes -- a high B cup, or a C cup is most likely the ideal size because the big breasted lovers get a fairly big breast and the small breasted lovers get a breast thats not too big. Similarly, this is the second attribute that should affect your size goal: what is ideal?

This last one can also be changed if your married: what size would my partner want?

Now, onto your last statement. . . .

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For some, the ideal might be 7 x 5 and others it might be 8 x 6. I think that if you have anything in between these two sizes, you should consider yourself lucky, stop focusing on PE and start focusing on banging as much poon as possible before you die.

I'd have to agree, something between those numbers is ideal. A few women might not be able to handle an 8X6, but that surely doesn't stop us from acquiring that goal. There is something about those 2 numbers that make us PE go goo-goo-gah-gah. It's like our own sacred mathematical forumal -- 8 times 6 = ideal post-PE penis size.
 

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Good points remek.

Even to guys themselves, the ideal penis size varies. You can have a person start at 7 x 5 and think 8 x 6 is ideal. Then you can have a guy who thinks 8 x 6 is just normal and that 9 x 7 is more ideal.

Same goes with the other end of the spectrum (like me). I started at 5.75 x 4.25. My ideal size post-PE would be 7 x 5. I'm 5'6" with a medium build - a 7 x 5 would look above average on my body. Put a 7 x 5 cock on a 6'4" bodybuilder and his size just looks average.

Appearances are deceiving.

I guess what I'm trying to say is "to each his own." Personally, I think a 6 x 6 cock would be perfect on my body (7 x 6 the most). Anything bigger would just look out of proportion - just like DD cup's on a 5'2" woman.
 

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Quick,

You are absolutely right. To each his own... or, different strokes for different folks.

What I do find interesting though, is that the majority of women prefer more girth. I have heard many times that length isn't as important as girth.

There was actually a study on this. 50 sexually active female undergraduate students were asked: “"In having sex, which feels better, length of penis or width of penis?" In half the cases, the word "width" was used before the word "length," but there were no order effects.

Of the 50 females surveyed, 45 reported that width felt better, with only 5 reporting length felt better (chi square = 32.00, df = 1, p < .001). No females reported that they could not tell any difference. Some did report that sex in a relationship was better than sex without commitment.


http://www.biomedcentral.com/1472-6874/1/1/#IDAAKZAD
 

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I've talked to many women out there and the overal consensus of their opinions is: hell yes, size matters. One woman went as far as saying, "it doesn't matter if he doesn't know what to do with it, I'll do all the work!" So, now you guys know why I'm here.
 

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I am not sure if size does matter for women, but I believe in Penis Enlargement, and my big ego to get big penis drives me nuts for now.
 
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I believe in some cases size DOES matter, and in others it doesn't.

I believe girls/women get turned on by a big dick, like most of us men get turn on by some nice tits or ass. Or even both.. :p

This is very different from girl to girl. I was with a girl, who told me, that she'd like my dick bigger, and she had just turned 13! And another girl woulndn't like my dick bigger, she had been with a huge one and that only hurted her, so she thought my was perfect. - This other one did I also give a lot of orgasms, so I belive her.. :p And she was tight!

Some girls are maybe just a bit loose and need something bigger than average, and then some er nice and tight and would love an average dick.

But in genereal I think bigger is better. - And sorry for my English.
 
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Toddi, great post. You hit the nail on the head.

I've done a few interviews with women; trying to get to know how they really feel about a big penis. A lot of them said a bigger penis doesn't necessarily feel any better -- yet it's a visual turn on... A lot like how, as you said, a nice set of breasts and a good butt can turn us men on.

Even still, this, at least to me, gives us all the more reason to PE. Because in many cases, "nice tits and ass" can make or break a woman in the visual department.
 

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Thank you Remek. :)

Necessarily I also don't think bigger equals better, but bigger COULD equal easier - meant by that, a woman MAY easier get an orgasm by a bigger one over a smaller. But then what is a bigger, and what is a smaller? And what is in the middle. I think most men is in the middle group, not too small jet not big enough.

I believe that a average or a middle penis easily could satisfy a woman's need, especially in a long-term relationship, and I believe sex has a lot with technique to do than just size.

But we men are not satisfied by just being average or just satisfying the woman, I think we all want to be the best ever, and hopefully also the biggest. That is why I PE, because I'd like a girl not just say it was good and I have a big member, I'd like her to think my sex was awesome and that I have a huge penis.

And we shall not forget, that some women just can't get a orgasm or just a clitoris orgasm, and then it doesn't matter how big dick you have. This is just something the woman has to learn for her self, and then there are some how almost get a orgasm just by thinking of sex. Women are very different. :p

- Toddi

BTW. Thanks for spelling-chek.. :p
 

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Remek and Toddi

Not a lot to disagree with in your surmises, but as you grow older (I'm 68), the old todger is treated more like an old friend and plaything by your partner. Surveys show that mutual masturbation increases with age - doesn't require as much energetic input - and that's when bigger is definitely better; doesn't matter if it's too big for coital sex anymore; just as long as it works!

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i believe that bigger is better and that women prefer it. I think often the answers that women give to negate that premise is done on the grounds of knowing that being so frank about the size issue would hurt a lot of mens feelings. Like my ex used to tell me that size did not matter at all, yet, sorry to get personal, when i used to ask her about sexual experiences she had in her past that turned her on, (yeah im a perv) she cited her experience with the guy who was 'by far the biggest' shes experienced. Now her ex husband was at least 8" NBP and he was nowhere near this dude that was 'by far the biggest'. so he must've been around the 10" mark. The fact she turned immediately to that experience when i asked her that question, when she had so many men to pick from just shows to me that size does matter.

When i was together with my wife, and i first started tackling the size issue head on, when i fingered her, i used to use just one or two. But i wanted to see if size did have an impact so i started using lots more, to make it seem like she was getting something really girthy, and i also started using implements that were much thicker/bigger than my dick. Now she was always saying the same size doesnt matter thing, but, do you know what, the experiment showed different results.

So in conclusion, id say, women are sensitive, size does matter to them, but they desist from being open about that, because penis size is a sensitive issue to us guys...
 

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So in conclusion, id say, women are sensitive, size does matter to them, but they desist from being open about that, because penis size is a sensitive issue to us guys...

Penis size is definitely a sensitive issue for us guys. I really think that's the meant-and-potatoes of PE. Regardless of how long it takes, with PE we know, we really know, that we have the we're no longer plauged with what we are born with; rather we are cured with the power to change. And this power to change makes all the difference in the world, IMO, to our confidence.

I think once PE becomes mainstream, a lot of guys will have an opportunity that they never had, and as a result their lives and their confidence will be altered for the good.
 

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Thank you Remek. :)


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But we men are not satisfied by just being average or just satisfying the woman, I think we all want to be the best ever, and hopefully also the biggest. That is why I PE, because I'd like a girl not just say it was good and I have a big member, I'd like her to think my sex was awesome and that I have a huge penis.

You're welcome :)

And Toddi, I think a lot of PEers are like you; they want to be the biggest, the best, the supreme. I'm the same way. It's natural male competive instinct.

I often wonder how this is going to turn out once everything goes public. The whole population of man competiting for a bigger penis.
 

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Oldhand,

Good to have an older gentleman on the forum. Dustpan, one of our moderators, is around your age. I don't know about you, but PE has changed his life.
 

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Well Remek, if we don't give away all our PE secrets- maybe just to length - then we could still be the best of the best. :p

But i'm not sure if it becomes common knowlege(?), everyone will use it. Look at cardio and budybuilding - it's far from common that people do this serious. :)- Eventhough it has many bennefits.
 

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i feel kinda somewhat relectant slightly at the whole idea of PE becomming mainstream. Just the whole idea of trying to compete with people already born with 8,9,10 inches doesnt seem very viable...