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So, I get along very well with all of my girlfriend's friends. I am respectful and kind to all of them and vice versa. However, I get along better with one of her friends than any of the others, mostly due to a number of shared interests between me and my gfs friend. I am not attracted to her friend at all in a romantic sense (which is important, as you will see).
In the past, my gf has noticed how well I get along with her friend, and has said that she wonders if I had met her friend first if I would be dating her friend instead of her. Just some extra info: my gfs friend is in a relationship, we have never gotten the slightest bit inappropriate (no flirting, touching, anything like that, etc.), every time I have seen my gf's friend has been when I'm with my gf, I would never cheat in a relationship, and, once again I am not attracted to her friend at all.
But the other day, I was talking to my gf's friend and we made a bet on a sports game, with the loser having to buy the winner a drink the next time everyone was out. I mentioned this offhandedly to my gf, and she said "That sounds like a date. Are you sure I'm allowed to come with?" She wasn't angry or anything, and it seemed like she was joking, but it was just a really weird thing to say. I guess I am just trying to make sense of it because it really surprised me. What is your take on this?
In the past, my gf has noticed how well I get along with her friend, and has said that she wonders if I had met her friend first if I would be dating her friend instead of her. Just some extra info: my gfs friend is in a relationship, we have never gotten the slightest bit inappropriate (no flirting, touching, anything like that, etc.), every time I have seen my gf's friend has been when I'm with my gf, I would never cheat in a relationship, and, once again I am not attracted to her friend at all.
But the other day, I was talking to my gf's friend and we made a bet on a sports game, with the loser having to buy the winner a drink the next time everyone was out. I mentioned this offhandedly to my gf, and she said "That sounds like a date. Are you sure I'm allowed to come with?" She wasn't angry or anything, and it seemed like she was joking, but it was just a really weird thing to say. I guess I am just trying to make sense of it because it really surprised me. What is your take on this?