What has your wife/gf said, that motivate you to continue PE

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Wifey and I are watching the new season of "White Lotus" where the main character is promised a well-hun Italian stud. A scene comes up where said stud walks in bare naked - full frontal. My wife says "you know, you have a really big dick!"

Ahh... like a symphony to the ears! And NEVER prior to the gains. Once she said above average length but that was it - EVER...
 
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Wife and I are vacationing in Key West with her friend and boyfriend. After a few drinks her friend makes a comment about "sneaking in the back door" for anal sex... My wife looks at me and points at my dick saying - "THAT thing can't sneak ANYWHERE!"

Deep down I think my wife has always been a closet size queen and I think she enjoyed having a sly way to brag about her man's junk. I have to admit it's a dream come true to me. I used to read these forums and hear people comment on things like that but it never applied to me. My how this site has helped me change that.

So, any newbies reading here and looking to grow - it CAN be done!
 

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Posts on this thread tend to come in waves! Last night after 2 weeks of no sex with my wife being ill and me getting my first colonoscopy - no polyps I might add!

"It has been quite a while so go slowly with that big dick!" My wife really seems to appreciate my new dick and - especially after I shared the exact size difference between now and then. She is all onboard the big dick I will tell you. And prior to PE - not a peep about my junk...
 

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My wife and I were at a white elephant party and one of the women got a penis pump that only went to 8 inches. She jokingly said to no one in particular, “well if you’re over 8 inches this isn’t going to work for you”. My wife looked at me from across the room with a sh*t eating grin. The discussion in the car on the way home was hilarious.
 
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Yet to experience anything. 5 inch flaccid hang easily and no bulge.

She did say last time we hadsex it's bigger. But that's not kept me motivated. What has is porn. Seeing massive cocks and the girls acting. Which is probably all fake. But makes me wanna keep going.
 

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Kinda an odd motivator but I got some new grey sweatpants/workout pants for Xmas. I am shorter (5"8") with a muscular build (190 lbs) so I rolled up the waistband to shorten the legs before heading to the gym. My wife said, "You need to change into some other pants before you go. Let me show you."

She then proceeded to take pics of me straight on in front and with a slight angle to the side.
"Here, see your phone in this pocket and your junk on the other side?"

It's awesome to get compliments when you're not even fishing!! Gotta admit the bulge looked very sizeable...

Also , just in the last week, after years now of PE, I finally had an epiphany when I was at a 10/10 EQ the other day holding it - just before inserting it into my wife. Even though the measurements say I'm quite large now - and my wife now comments all the time - I looked at it and thought - "Damn, that is a big dick."

2023 will make my 8th year of PE. It's gonna be a great year and I'm definitely not done yet!

Happy New Year PE Community!!
 
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Haven’t posted much in past few months but been having a good time with my girl. Yesterday was her birthday, after dinner and a few drinks we went home to fool around.
Idk why, but my stamina was out of this world, I felt I didn’t need to cum at all and after 30 minutes she came 4 times. We even ended up having to wash the sheets because she soaked through the towel!
After she said it was incredible and she ended up passing out for the night.
Made me feel like a king to perform so well and after this weekend we’ve had sex 4 out of last 5 days. Just been doing basic PE with some pumping, but I’ve kept all my gains and my EQ is through the roof!
 

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Her: "How did your penis get bigger???"
Me: "He's been going to the gym."
She laughs... "But seriously...?"
Me: "Seriously." *Wink

True story. Lol
 
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Hello guys!

I'm very glad to finally be able to post here :)

I've been stealth-PEing on and off for maybe 6 years, with some more serious periods than others. Haven't seen significant growth but I haven't been consistent enough I guess.

My fiance and I have had some problems, mainly due to my porn problem and my premature ejac problem. We've been having a rough patch with a 1-year absence of bed activities. I've been PEing during this time.

Anyways, 1 week ago, she suddenly initiates and we have sex for more than 2 hours, three days in a row, without me coming once and her coming multiple times, which seldom happens! Also, she said "why do I feel like a virgin?" :D

We chalked it up to be a result of the long time of abstinence, but she said it the second and third day as well. The third day she said "maybe I've shrunk? You haven't grown have you?" which made me VERY motivated to start PEing again seriously.
 
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Hello guys!

I'm very glad to finally be able to post here :)

I've been stealth-PEing on and off for maybe 6 years, with some more serious periods than others. Haven't seen significant growth but I haven't been consistent enough I guess.

My fiance and I have had some problems, mainly due to my porn problem and my premature ejac problem. We've been having a rough patch with a 1-year absence of bed activities. I've been PEing during this time.

Anyways, 1 week ago, she suddenly initiates and we have sex for more than 2 hours, three days in a row, without me coming once and her coming multiple times, which seldom happens! Also, she said "why do I feel like a virgin?" :D

We chalked it up to be a result of the long time of abstinence, but she said it the second and third day as well. The third day she said "maybe I've shrunk? You haven't grown have you?" which made me VERY motivated to start PEing again seriously.
Welcome to the forum. That's great to hear! Congratulations!

Many guys would love to learn from your 1 year of growth and improvement - whether PE or PreE. Hopefully you'd be willing to start a new thread outlining the work that you did.
 

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So, the wife is giving me a handy BJ last night and using her strong grip (she is a yoga teacher and is quite strong for a female) with one hand at the base like a cock ring and stroking the length of it with the other hand.

I noted "man, when you squeeze that hard it looks huge." To that she said "well, that's because you have a big dick."

This never gets old and definitely still motivates me! I know I have been growing, and been large for a while, but now when I look at it like that I'm still at awe at what I have created with the help of the PEGym - and now biohacker - community!

I have far surpassed my wildest girth goals but I'm still chasing another half inch or so in length for my goal - but I'll still take another .25 inches or so in mid-shaft girth!
 

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This is my first post.
I’ve been lurking around since 2013 and stealth PE’ing on and off around that time. I’ve made gains but nothing crazy.

I remember once during my most consistent time PE’ing, I had my girl in doggystyle, as I entered I could hear her whisper “oh fuck”. Within the first couple minutes as I was really getting a rhythm on my stroke she buried her face down in the bed and yelled out “fuck you’re so big”

Besides the measurable growth, it’s the vocal compliments our significant others give that can be the most motivating.
 

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Recently I took a 1 year break from PE, mainly due to life and not having/making enough time for it but in that time I still did kegels periodically. This was probably the worst thing I could’ve done as I was creating an imbalance on my pelvic floor. My EQ was terrible and my stamina was worse, i would constantly have to pause during intercourse to recollect myself. This was terrible for me as I have always been able to bring my girl to multiple orgasms but this new problem was getting in the way of giving the performance I wanted.

I searched around the internet and learned how to do reverse kegals to rebalance things. I also picked up a bathmate to get more serious and consistent with PE. I believe a combination of the reverse kegels and the bath mate have helped tremendously with my EQ and stamina.

After 3-4 weeks of my new workouts I was back to normal if not better. The last 3 times we’ve had sex I was able to give her 7 orgasms total. All with just PIV. I’m liking where things are going and really trying to stay consistent now.

The bath mate has been incredible for girth and flaccid hang not to mention a big increase in stamina. Looking forward to posting again here soon!
 
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Hi guys..
I haven't been posting much and only do the Bathmate for pe about 3-4x per week....Since this is the success forum I will first start with a minor success...Initially, when I was dating my now wife she would usually cum 1-2x...Mostly, once from oral foreplay them a time or two from penetration....Then we had a few kids, some of the initial excitement wore off..I found that she rarely would cum from sex anymore and only from oral sex, which she loved but I wasn't happy with that...Over the years I lost some control and some of the issue was me not being able to give it to her the right way and last myself...
Fast forward 3 years ago...Started working out more....cut down jerking off a lot..Bought a bathmate...Even added some supplements like arginine and sometimes use low dosages of tadalafil...Also, started making notes in a daily planner I use to track multiple goals, including her orgasms from our sessions which served as a motivator...Now she orgasms almost every encounter...Its actually quite rare that we have sex and she doesn't actually cum on my dick....Its also cool that I hold out for our encounters 2-3 times per week and have better dick control than when I jerked it a lot...The bathmate did give me better erections and a bit more thickness....She has multiples sometimes but that is my next goal.. giving her multiples regularly...I feel like she is usually one and done...I think this is partially that we have a 4 and 6 year old and just more responsibilities leading to less energy .....but still want to work on this..

My question to you all...what did you do to successfully gain length...I know there is info all over the site but I came to the success forum specifically to target the guys who got the best gains...I know what bathmate can do but I really would love to gain an inch of I could...Haven't really gotten into manual stretching which is my most realistic option...I think mostly because I deep down dont believe it will work...Anyway, I really would appreciate feedback from those who have successfully navigated this..
 
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Maybe a little off subject but hanging was the big one for me after I did about 6 months of manual stretching and got my newbie gains out of the way (mine were not that big). I started hanging with 5 lbs and increased 1/3 of a pound a week until I hit 17.5 lbs at one point. This is where I made the majority of my length growth. Bathmate has mostly helped girth for me... I now try a combo of 1-2 hanging sets then Bathmate to see if I can add length and girth... Good luck!
 

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Man - been on a roll lately!

My wife talks about how deep it is and how long it is now, but last night she was using her signature move of squeezing with one hand at the base and squeezing and stroking the rest up to the head with the other hand and says "Wow, look how huge your head is!" then she attacked it like a savage. Admittedly - we had been doing some drinking - but that's when the new truth of the large dick comes out! lol
 

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Appreciate the feedback and motivational story..So you have gained quite a bit based on your initial measurements...I started about 5.8 nbpl now probably just 6 nbpl...When I press in its at least 6.5 or a bit more but I never trust that measurement...Girth was about 4.5 now probably closer to 5...Its funny because I was thinking of hanging....Do you recommend a specific hanger...I like the stuff I see on the Total Man Shop...I can't see myself doing manual stretching that consistently...I think I would hang if I purchased one...I actually used to used to tie a know in this bungy chord that had a hook like a noose around my dick and hang small weights...I was very young and this is very archaic but it seemed to make my flaccid hang lower..I didn't do that for long and it used to slide off as it was a very poor way to do this....How much would you say you gained from just manual stretches?
 
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Please see answer below but I don't want to hijack this great thread, so feel free to PM me directly if you have an other questions.

But, I can tell you exactly - I started on Oct 25, 2015 at 6.5" BPEL and started hanging on July 1, 2016 when I was 7.28" BPEL. I had always kept good measurements and ONLY did manual exercises at that point. I never thought PE was something I would continue doing for so long but honestly I love it and couldn't be happier with the results - it's just been a LONG journey...
 
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She was looking at my erect member and remarked: "It's long"
She didn't say BIG... but "long".

Dysmorphic translation:
You need more girth!

Roger that, Dysmorphia. Roger that! 🫡
 
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EQ has been great lately. We had 3 sessions within 24 hours the other day, that hasn't happened in a long time. 2/3 of those times SHE initiated.

Honestly felt like it was some of our best sex in years...

I texted her today, and told her I needed a couple days to form new sperm lol

she texted back saying she needed a couple days to rebuild her vagina :ROFLMAO:

THANK YOU PE