What has your wife/gf said, that motivate you to continue PE

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Nice feel good hump day story...Impressive that you been with her since college..Also, great thing that she's still intrigued sexually...I haven't done much PE aside from pumping with Bathmate but would like to get more into stretching...I will say that the added girth makes a big difference..I notice with my wife that she cums much quicker now..Hope to have something to add here tomorrow..tonight is out mid week oral sex night...
 

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After I gained only about 2cm (0,7-0,8") with better EQ, my sexlife with my wife (now ex-wife) changed completely. I mean my god what a difference it was. Sex life was awesome after my gains, even it was so minor. Apparently I was before just short that I could not hit some good spot in her. Then with so little gain and harder EQ (EQ is huge factor here) she started to get 1-3 orgasms in every session. Before that in 11 years she never got deep spot orgasms, only with heavy clitoral stimulation. It required 100 % EQ to get her off. If I was 85 % the technique would not work. But only improving EQ without length gain would not do it either.

That made me little sad because so little gain would have been easy to get any time, like 10 years earlier. And sex life would have been much better for that 10 years. Then we divorced and my new woman thought that I have quite big and she also got orgasms with same techniques. It was great. Woman I have been with now does not get any orgasms. But this time I feel it is not size thing.
 

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I was sitting on the couch in fairly loose underwear Goldbergs style, and my wife walked by saying “holy crap hon’ you’ve got huge balls.” I said, “that’s my dick not my balls”. She reached down for a feel and just said “wow” and kept walking.
 

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My wife has actually said that i should not gain any length coz otherwise it goes too deep. Which is quite odd to say in my opinion. My erect dick is only 15cm long and BPEL is 17-18cm, girth being 12.5cm. It's pretty decent tool. Not the smallest one out there but heck it ain't too big!

She wants it thicker tho :D she likes when i use penis ring or if we use pump before sex.
Dilemma: i want it longer, straighter and thicker and she wants it only thicker.. :/

Anywho.. she knows what i'm doing and supports me despite the discord :)
 

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I’m spot on your length and maybe a half inch thicker and yes, girth matters, as long as it’s not crazy. vaginas come in different sizes like a penis so you may be bottoming out. I can with my wife, which she likes very much as long as I don’t get to rough.
 
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Nice feel good hump day story...Impressive that you been with her since college..Also, great thing that she's still intrigued sexually...I haven't done much PE aside from pumping with Bathmate but would like to get more into stretching...I will say that the added girth makes a big difference..I notice with my wife that she cums much quicker now..Hope to have something to add here tomorrow..tonight is out mid week oral sex night...
Midweek oral sex night? Oh. Please elaborate. We have all Bob days, no penis, just a varied amount of vibes, to many to list. Usually because I have a later engagement business wise and I need to be frosty, no viagra hangover. It’s fine with me, I do get a nice limp dick blowjob which actually feels great. Highly recommend it.
 

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Was my Birthday this past weekend and I was able to check off something on my Sex Bucket list!!

Spent the weekend with family but on Sunday it was just my girl and I. She booked us a couples massage and we got a hour of private sauna and jacuzzi with it. After relaxing massage, we headed to private area and I remarked how there was no security cameras!

In minutes we were in jacuzzi naked and after some champagne, we started making out. Soon I was getting head and I was rock hard, she gaged a few times before leading me, by my cock, to the hot sauna. We went at it for 30 minutes and only stopped to get water and cool off.

I’ve always wanted to have sex in sauna after seeing far too many porn set there. We both enjoyed ourselves and she said we have to book it again for her birthday!!
 

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Sure....Its exactly what it sounds like...We have a midweek (hump day) oral sex night...Normally, we have sex on Saturday and Sunday...we put this in place as a little midweek appetizer...Sometimes, it becomes a sex night but its usually exactly that...It totally benefits me as I can make her erupt after about 2 mins but she usually has to give me a good 15 to 20 mins. If I'm extra naughty I take an edible and really add to the experience...
 

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Sure....Its exactly what it sounds like...We have a midweek (hump day) oral sex night...Normally, we have sex on Saturday and Sunday...we put this in place as a little midweek appetizer...Sometimes, it becomes a sex night but its usually exactly that...It totally benefits me as I can make her erupt after about 2 mins but she usually has to give me a good 15 to 20 mins. If I'm extra naughty I take an edible and really add to the experience...
Nice. Sounds like a great hump day to me. Does she bring you to orgasm orally? Something on my bucket list but at 60 I’m ready to forget about it. Oh well, she doesn’t want my cum in her mouth, she’s squirted a few times all over my face going down on her but nothing for me. Now she’s into morning riding. My routine is to pump a half hour or so before getting ready for work. She’ll wake up, see my dick, very thick. She doesn’t leave. So finally I ask, “Would you like me to put a cock ring on and clamp him off for awhile?” “Ok”. She knows I can rarely cum from this as my dick turns blue after 20 minutes and I lose feeling in it, but WTF. On occasion I’ll get to 6.5 inches girth and when she mounts me it’ll a minute or two to take it. I got to admit it’s fun to watch her try in reverse cowgirl and she off to the races. She’ll get her usual 20 to 30 in that time and I’ll finally push her off. I really don’t mind all that much but I get tired of being such a good guy all the time, unselfish.
 
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She does bring me to orgasm...Sometimes, I think I enjoy the oral more than the actual sex...but not usually...With sex I feel like the burden of performance is on me...With oral I feel like its on her...Last night, she came really early on bit then when we switched positions she got really tight...I opted to pull it out and let her finish me off with oral..I get the advantage with oral as I can literally finish her off in 2 mins...Also, when she has her time of the month our sex nights become oral nights on my side...I have to say she swallows my load less nowadays then earlier in our relationship where she put it down everytime..But she really sucks me off better now then the early days...She really goes down there and works hard...
 
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So my wife and I hadn't had sex for about 5 months due to her going through chemo therapy for breast cancer. Thankfully that is all behind us now. She is doing great and we had sex for the first time about 2-1/2 weeks ago. So last night I was feeling a little optimistic about where the night might go, so I took my sildenafil about an hour before we went to bed to make sure it had plenty of time to get into my system. I got us some wine and we sat out on our deck and watched the sunset and then soaked in our bathtub together for a bit...I was trying to be as indirectly romantic as possible, lol.

Well, I guess it worked and after a little fooling around she wanted me inside of her. Since it had been so long I took it slow, knowing it was going to take her a little bit to get adjusted. I was a little surprised by just how uncomfortable it was for her those first few seconds. She asked me if I was still doing PE because I felt so much bigger. I told her it probably just seemed that way because it had been so long. ;)

I typically have an issue with losing my erection if I try to really pound her, but not last night, the sildenefil really did it job! She had two really great orgasms (she likes using a vibe during sex). Once she was done and the vibe was out of the way I started hitting it even harder until I busted my nut a few minutes later. After she catches her breath, she tells me that she thinks that's the best sex we've ever had. She loved me pounding her and said, "It felt like you were going to go right through me."

Best sex ever? Hell yeah! It doesn't get much better than that!!!
 

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So my wife and I hadn't had sex for about 5 months due to her going through chemo therapy for breast cancer. Thankfully that is all behind us now. She is doing great and we had sex for the first time about 2-1/2 weeks ago. So last night I was feeling a little optimistic about where the night might go, so I took my sildenafil about an hour before we went to bed to make sure it had plenty of time to get into my system. I got us some wine and we sat out on our deck and watched the sunset and then soaked in our bathtub together for a bit...I was trying to be as indirectly romantic as possible, lol.

Well, I guess it worked and after a little fooling around she wanted me inside of her. Since it had been so long I took it slow, knowing it was going to take her a little bit to get adjusted. I was a little surprised by just how uncomfortable it was for her those first few seconds. She asked me if I was still doing PE because I felt so much bigger. I told her it probably just seemed that way because it had been so long. ;)

I typically have an issue with losing my erection if I try to really pound her, but not last night, the sildenefil really did it job! She had two really great orgasms (she likes using a vibe during sex). Once she was done and the vibe was out of the way I started hitting it even harder until I busted my nut a few minutes later. After she catches her breath, she tells me that she thinks that's the best sex we've ever had. She loved me pounding her and said, "It felt like you were going to go right through me."

Best sex ever? Hell yeah! It doesn't get much better than that!!!
Very nice. I hope continues to go well and prayers for sure.
Since she enjoys vibe play with intercourse I recommend the Tyrst tri-motor cock ring on steroids. It got great reviews in Cosmopolitan magizine.
Also, a big surprise is the scrotum ball pouch cock ring vibe, very powerful, multiple setting and allows for deeper penetration. The entire length of my shaft can feel it and put your head on her deep spots, WOW.
wear the two together and your cock becomes a warm throbbing rabbit.
She went into the O zone yesterday for over a half hour, twitching, gut wrenching, the contractions on my dick are incredible, and I don’t even thrust.
Basically she as consecutive orgasms, one right after another with no break
in between. She said yes. Feels incredible for me, obviously for her, so much so when I try to pull out I have to ask her to let go. She’s so much fun
 

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Since she enjoys vibe play with intercourse I recommend the Tyrst tri-motor cock ring on steroids. It got great reviews in Cosmopolitan magizine.
Is this what you're talking about?
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Is this what you're talking about?
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That’s it. We both love it. A very good quality vibe as well, gets used three to four times a week and we’ve owned it for four years. Sometimes I’ll pair it up with the Evolved Tidal Wave and watch her have multiple orgasms, while she’ll trying to stroke my penis. But after awhile she’ll drift off to O Land and forget all about him. I love that.
 

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Cunny Linguist...glad your wife is doing better health wise...Maybe you and Party can help me..

So here is my issue, which isn't an issue so much as something I would like to improve...When my wife and I first met she would tend to have multiple orgasms in a session...Generally, she would get one from me going down then a few from the penetration...Then once we started having kids it seemed like she would get one from the oral and rarely from intercourse...A few years ago when I got my bathmate I made it my goal to get the penetration orgasms back on tap....And I did through gaining some thickness, erection quality and me straight up lasting through the beginning and temptation as she starts to make more noise and get into it...this was turning me on too much before and I would have to slow down, which was causing her to loose momentum....When Party explained the above it sounded like my bedroom...Now she regularly cums on my dick but then she's like a zombie...I wanted to get her to have multiples and not just "give up" after she cums....Im just stuck on how....In the rare multiple orgasm session its usually due to me eating her first for one and then her getting off on my dick....We do have a 3 and 5 year old so we are often tired by the time we have sex...but still any advice would be great...
 

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Cunny Linguist...glad your wife is doing better health wise...Maybe you and Party can help me..

So here is my issue, which isn't an issue so much as something I would like to improve...When my wife and I first met she would tend to have multiple orgasms in a session...Generally, she would get one from me going down then a few from the penetration...Then once we started having kids it seemed like she would get one from the oral and rarely from intercourse...A few years ago when I got my bathmate I made it my goal to get the penetration orgasms back on tap....And I did through gaining some thickness, erection quality and me straight up lasting through the beginning and temptation as she starts to make more noise and get into it...this was turning me on too much before and I would have to slow down, which was causing her to loose momentum....When Party explained the above it sounded like my bedroom...Now she regularly cums on my dick but then she's like a zombie...I wanted to get her to have multiples and not just "give up" after she cums....Im just stuck on how....In the rare multiple orgasm session its usually due to me eating her first for one and then her getting off on my dick....We do have a 3 and 5 year old so we are often tired by the time we have sex...but still any advice would be great...
Well first off, my wife was not multiorgasmic most our marriage, she “learned “ how. I credit my PE gains, my staying power And frankly all the vibraters I introduced to the bedroom before I started on Viagra. The key was she grew very comfortable with me, she knew I enjoyed giving her orgasms, either with my dick, my tongue or vibes, and it didn’t matter if I came or not. I still had a good time. It released her from feeling responsible for my orgasm and just enjoying herself, because I was. Also stress, is an orgasm killer, remove it, get way by yourselves. That’s what grandparents are for. And for Gods sake don’t mention how much more orgasms you’d like her to have with you. It puts stress on her and is just a vanity thing for you. Give it time and she may never get there. And that’s ok. Most women can’t orgasm from PIV alone. My sister never has and she’s had multiple partners, small to huge, huge, but nothing. So be happy what ya got cause it could be a lot worse. Believe me I know.
 

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Good points...And yes, I know some women don't even cum from intercourse....I did feel pretty low on myself and manged to turn a once and awhile sex orgasm into basically every session orgasm...and orally I get her off much fast than she gets me off...
True, its vanity for sure but I guess we all want to feel like we were her best..I want to blow her mind and have her tell me I'm the best....AND KNOW ITS TRUE..
 
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My wife sets the bar…very…very high. Hyper multi orgasmic women don’t cum by your way very often. I’m, she, are both very lucky. I was just holding her pre sex, no foreplay yet and she had a full body orgasm. I said, “Did you just?…”. Yes, shhhh. I’ve watched her orgasm in her sleep many times, she orgasms when I give her a anal rim job, she has breast orgasms, on, and on.
Google BBC 4 Superorgasm. Very rare flower but she’s one in a million.
I feel blessed to be with her but at the same time guilty because I let her down so many times in our youth. Sometimes so much so I wouldn’t mind sharing her with other men. I’ve told her this and she gets angry. I say, your loss.
 

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So, my wife was in the mood big time last night - as we almost never have sex on a Monday night! She gets on top and sit in my lap in our movie room in the basement and says -

"Did you pump today?"
I said "yeah why?"
She said, "because it feels so big!"
Of course I then followed with "Yeah, you like this big cock!" and pounded her, turned her around for Doggy style and ended after she had 6 orgasms almost back-to back.

It's amazing how easily she orgasms with my longer, thicker cock. She might love me just the same with my old cock - but her vag loves the new cock best!!
 
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Wife was going down on me and fairly quickly, and for the first time, I felt her teeth a lot more. She said, you’re almost too big for my mouth, but kept going. Long session and she seemed to get more into it as she continued. Looking down he “appeared” a lot longer and beefier…she was using two hands to stroke. I haven’t measured but perhaps I should soon.