I've been with my girlfriend for almost four years now. Everything is going great. We are on the verge of buying a house this spring. The only place we really aren't on the same page is the marriage issue. She is four years older than me and wants to get married and start popping out kids like her friends.
Anyhow, our sex life is ok. She would say, "There's nothing wrong with it.". We both work all the time and lately it seems like she doesn't have a freaky bone in her body. We still bone every night but its more for the purpose of getting eachother off. I know I should do the candles, bath tub and massage thing. I do this every once in a while but it just leads to the same sex.
Lately I've been bringing up the idea of watching porn together. I've watched porn since I was a freshman in college; I had an awful dry spell of getting laid that year. Anyway I like it. She's never tried watching it and isn't very inclined to the idea. The conversation always boils down to, "I'm just not into sex as much as you are." This is really beginning to wear on me because it just reflects how stubborn she is. She hasn't even tried it and is already shutting the idea down. I know freakiness isn't what defines a relationship but God Damn, I'm feeling like a missionary lately.
I'm not asking for any help on this. I'm just writing down my gripes. I'd be interested to hear any feedback.
Anyhow, our sex life is ok. She would say, "There's nothing wrong with it.". We both work all the time and lately it seems like she doesn't have a freaky bone in her body. We still bone every night but its more for the purpose of getting eachother off. I know I should do the candles, bath tub and massage thing. I do this every once in a while but it just leads to the same sex.
Lately I've been bringing up the idea of watching porn together. I've watched porn since I was a freshman in college; I had an awful dry spell of getting laid that year. Anyway I like it. She's never tried watching it and isn't very inclined to the idea. The conversation always boils down to, "I'm just not into sex as much as you are." This is really beginning to wear on me because it just reflects how stubborn she is. She hasn't even tried it and is already shutting the idea down. I know freakiness isn't what defines a relationship but God Damn, I'm feeling like a missionary lately.
I'm not asking for any help on this. I'm just writing down my gripes. I'd be interested to hear any feedback.