Ted Talk- The reality of the Sexual Pleasure Disparity

[rudebwoy]

- Woman argues that men are 3x more likely to orgasm than women & there needs to be more of an equal outcome.
- She argues that Sex, in the world as we know it, is centered around the pleasure of the penis.
- Argues that 3/4 of women don't reach regular vaginal orgasm through penetration.
- Claims that clitoral stimulation should have more of an importance during sexual intercourse & is how most women will achieve more regular orgasm.

The whole Ted-Talk, in summary, is about how important clitoral stimulation is when it comes to women achieving orgasm. She argues in this video that it's even more important than penetration & if more men engaged in more oral sex then the equality of male & female orgams will be achieved, discuss.

 

[CUSP82]

Well we all know I'm one for equality!

 

[KMWylie]

- Argues that 3/4 of women don't reach regular vaginal orgasm through penetration.

Agree

- Claims that clitoral stimulation should have more of an importance during sexual intercourse & is how most women will achieve more regular orgasm.

Agree

I think if men, as a whole (I know PEGym guys are more well-educated in this arena than most ), truly embraced these two things, we'd see a lot more happy women.

 

[CUSP82]

And I might add that an American Express Gold Card works well.

 

[not2big]

I always bring my wife to orgasm using oral before penetrating for my own pleasure,which also brings on another orgasm for her.

 

[Cavalier]

I wish I could orgasm as many times as my wife does during intercourse. In some cases the tables are turned the other way.

 

[closed177]

My wife needs penetration and a vibrator to reach orgasm but with them both she comes 3-6 times per session. I have only been with two women out of 10 who came from penetration alone. I don't even come every time in the last few years.

The other observation about sex that has helped our marriage is that it is important to her but it never occurs to her. If we wait for her to be in the mood it just won't happen. So she basically agrees that we will get her into the mood nearly every time I ask unless she is really not feeling well. She has learned through patience and positive reinforcement that if she's just feeling a little down it will lift her spirits even if it doesn't seem like she's interested at all. I think a lot of men and women get hung up on waiting until the woman is horny like a teenager to start and after the honeymoon wears off I just don't think this is a common experience.

 

[Pegasus]

My experience is it is rare for a woman not to cum from piv .

I know a lot of men have spoken about pleasure disparity in that women can get multi orgasms and so have more fun. My reply is so can men if they put some work into it and not to complain if they don't want to do the work .

By all means if a woman wants clitoral stimulation she should ask for it or do it herself . I know some women do clit stimulation during piv . Sometimes they seem shy to do it and need encouragement . Mind you i have had them say what they hell would i want to do that for during the real thing.

This is very worth a read.

https://www.pegym.com/forums/gym/99949-sister-speaks-vaginal-orgasm.html?highlight=