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So I am not a virgin anymore...

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Yeah, I had sex for the first time and boy... was it bad :D

I could have sex earlier with different girls but everytime I was nervous about dick size so I choked.

This time I had sex but man, I didn't feel anything, absolutely nothing, like my penis head was completely sensless.
So after like 30 strokes my penis went flat, it's crazy how sex was so hyped and this is it. Ofcourse the numb head was due to stress, but still...

I am actualy proud of myself for not giving a F about dick size, but next time definitely need some viagra or something, because sex is not producing any pleasure at all right now.

Poor girl, she was so into me, nice and wet...

Just sharing so you can have a chuckle about this one or maybe recall your first.

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My friend, I've been there and all I have to say is that what you experienced is pretty normal. Many men are stressed the first few times they have sex and have bad erections. Don't use viagra, I doubt you need them at your age (I assume you are young).

My advice is this: next time you are in bed with a woman and your dick is not there yet due to stress, take your time, caress her, play with her, lick her pussy, and sooner or later you will feel relaxed and have a good erection. Also, don't shy away from communicating to her about your situation. You are in this together. The more relaxed you are (both of you), the more you will enjoy sex. You don't have to impress the girl, you only have to treat her with respect and show her that you care for her pleasure as well. She will understand. It's much better to talk to her than to fuck her with a semi-hard without pleasing you and her.

Remember: there is no hurry.
 

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There's certainly a high expectation of what first time sex will actually be like. It's not ever going to feel like your hand and she won't look like your favorite porn star. I think if you take away the excess stimulus of porn and tight grip masturbation, you'll find sex to be far more pleasing.

Not to mention having a deep connection, like love, or spicing things up like having sex in front of the window for the neighbors to see can really enhance the experience.

I am in my 30's and have had some wonderful partners, but I still think the best sex of my life is yet to come
 

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Welcome to the forum!

Many men have the same experience you did. Often, masturbation can negatively condition the penis towards live sexual activity.

If you can engage in regular sexual activity (or train in a similar manner) and forgo frivolous masturbation, you should adapt quickly.
 

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And STOP watching porn. What had you planned on doing? Pulling out and cumming on her face? Ya? Try that, let us know how that goes.

Just relax. You’re fine. Hope you get a second chance with her. Did you tell her it was your first time? She might have guided you a bit, being a virgin isn’t a sin ya know, we all lose it to someone. And yes. It usually sucks.
put your toe in the water and dive back in.
 

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Excellent first post. :mosking:

Welcome to the jungle! :yo:
 

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Wow so many replies. thanks guys.

To be honest i dont really watch porn that often and masturbate alot. Because to me when I don't masturbate my penis is more refreshed and I can jelq and stretch better.

I know it was only mental thing, but it is not that easy to snap out of that... My friends have been actually talking about thit when they had similar problem and my buddy already hooked me up with one good pill. So I want to try it.
Because last time even when I got hard I didn't feel anythin so I just want to stay hard. I am more relaxed now though.
 

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Just gotta relax and enjoy the ride, because if you don't, you will depend on tension and not feel a thing.