Oral Sex - STD's

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I read alot online about how any type of sexual activity has the potential for dangers. What caught my attention was "mutual masturbation / oral sex".

I know that obviously if an infected person performs oral on another person, the chance of spreading infection is there. But my question is this:

Ive never had actual intercourse with any woman, and i havent performed oral on any lady either. Can i still give any STD to my girl right now?

Same situation with my girl. She hasnt had oral performed on her and hasnt had intercourse. Can i get an STD?

If yes to either question, are there ways i can prevent it? I read about placing "seram wrap, food service film", but that seems a little wierd.

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Also what dangers are associated with mutual masturbation? I ask this because i rub my girl's genital area through her pants until she orgasms w/o touching her pubic region directly. Ive done this to her at least 3 times.

She hasnt done the same to me (not complaining, as i feel im getting more satisfaction from seeing her orgasm atm)

Thanks guys.
 

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you can only get it from blood or sperm or urine and 1 out of a thousand with spit
but the only way to prevent it is with a condom or dont do it
but just cause you are both virgins dont mean your not gonna get it but hopfully you live a healthy life and dont have to worry about it
 

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UMM this is basic sex ed, they teach this in school don't they?

It is extreamly rare to get a sexualy transmited disease without having sex.
Ditch the wrap get condoms ; now.
 

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I never went through sex ed. I dont know about other places, but down here we didnt have any courses that even came close to that subject with the exception of Biology and Anatomy/Physiology.
 

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basically if you want to make sure just go to the doctor and get tested if neither of you have an std and you stay monogomus ( dont fuck anyone else or get sucked etc..) then there is no possible way you could get an std unless someone like bled all over you or something of that nature
 

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Where are you from trex?
Perhaps someone knows a link to a sex ed site?
 

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I don't I guess this site might be a little explicit but its not porn. It will give you everything you need to know about sex, from health, positions, use of toys and dating advice.
http://www.sexinfo101.com/
 

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Great stuff happy.
I thought all developed western countries had sex ed? Are you from a developing country trex?
 

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Im from Texas.

I guess we are excluded in the western hemisphere. Lol
 

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This chick gave me oral sex...shes sucked off approx 10 guys before me, but I'm not too worried. It was the best blowjob ever.

Your chances of getting an STD from a decent girl that has had multiple partners still remains relatively low. If a real slutty ass bitch gives you a blowjob, then beware!!!!!
 

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I guess my question would be why do you think you have an STD when you haven't had sex before? Or did I read all this wrong?

Oh,,,don't forget the condoms.
 

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Herpes can be spread through any infected area. If she has a cold sore or cut anywhere inside or around her mouth, then there's a good chance you're gonna get it if she gives you head.

Rule of thumb. Don't kiss or get head from any strange girl with a cold sore. Don't be giving head if you have a cold sore or a cut in your mouth.
 

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not sure how much truth there is to this, but i wouldn't let any girl with a cold sore go down on me, its essentially a mouth herpe correct?
does anyone know for sure? where the docs at?
 

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Wait.. are cold sores 100% positive cases of herpes/STD's?

Because i mean ive had them before due to the cold (obviously). And i'm pretty sure i wasnt in any sexual activity.. unless one day i was sleeping an a woman decided to rub her genitalia on my face.

What about oral thrush? I had that about 1.5 years ago due to "an unknown cause". My pediatrician said it can be just unlucky. She tested me for HIV, i came out negative. The clinic was rather confused. Bottom line was that they said its 99% that i was just unlucky to randomly get the disease. To this day i still dont know how i got it. However the docs said that once i get it once, i dont get it again.

Im afraid of passing it on though. Ive read that babies can get it from their moms and can pass it back to their mom's breasts when they breastfeed. But, i dont think i run any risk of passing it on to my girl, because ive sucked on her nipples numerous times and have kissed her alot. Right?

Lol someone please ease my fears.
 

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okay when it comes to things such as cold sores if i remeber correctly they dont spread unless there is an open one in your mouth or on your lip so im pretty sure you dont have much to worry about in that case