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darmo

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Hi, so basically my gf is really amazing and I'm very happy with her, she cooks well, beautiful, sexy, funny, smart, etc, we have similar hobbies and in general is really a dream relationship. The problem is that when we started she was 21 and me a year older and she had already slept with like 15 guys which is a lot more than girls I slept with. But the worst is that they were not all guys from around her age or country, she slept with guys of different countries, many just one night or short time, and some ever closer or over 30 years. This pissed me off a lot from the beginning, was a key reason to drive me to PE and years later still bothers me. Also, it surprised when she very relax slept on the same bed of some friends, or guys who kissed then and she rejected then she called then as if nothing happened, and it seems that actually she is not really bother about all those hookups but rather even proud I would say, her excuse is that she actually wanted a serious relationship, sure you meet a guy and next day you have sex I totally understand you are looking for a serious bf lol

The thing is I'm very happy with her so I dont want to break up, even I almost did before. Trying to forget etc doesnt work, it keeps bothering me few years later even I've gained with pe and I'm sure none of the previous 15 guys were even close, sometimes I joke that soon with PE even 6 of those 15 guys together wouldnt match me lol So after reflecting a lot, since I dont want to break up and also I cant really forget, I wonder if by having some fun it would help me to forget. Not affairs or parallel relationship just one time thing with escorts. I know usually this is seen as very bad, but sometimes she joked when I said I preferred her than like millions of money and she was like, really, but how many girls could you get with that money? Yes it is maybe jokes, but sometimes the jokes she makes are not that funny.

I dont know, I just feel sometimes if I enjoy with many escorts she wouldnt care, of course I wont tell her but I feel she wouldnt be as bother by far as I am now and I have been with her past. And she was concious from the beginning she slept with too many for her age. Besides, I've been giving her all she wanted, clothes, restaurants all you can imagine so she is living really well with zero stress while Im still being pissed with her past. Why should I also be so loyal when she was a total bitch before meeting me? Because some bf in high school ok, some bf in college ok, maybe a hookup or two with guys or her age ok, but sleeping with guys from other countries when she travelled, guys of 26, 27 and over 30 when she was 20 or below is like in my limit. Im almost sure the oldest she slept with was around 30 sth, if I knew any above 40 or even late 30 I think I would leave her immediately without hesitation. And the problem is that as I get older, this doesnt get better but worse, imagine when Im 30 and I remember that some 30 year old dudes were fucking my gf when she was 20 or below, really pisses me off

Thanks for your thoughts on this
 
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All that matters now is that your girlfriend only wants to have sex with you. If you want it to stay that way you'll let her body count before you go.
 

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My opinion, she's not worth it. Hard to be a nice guy that's all I can say. Dark past lol
 

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One of the points of being a decent human being (or Catholic in my case) is to be able to forgive someone for there past misgivings. If you can't do that, then move on, you will never have a deep meaningful relationship. Your mind is so warped and can't get out of this loop that you will do nothing but bring both of you grief for years to come.

The fact that you want to cheat on her to try to "even the score" is absurd. People don't do that and then waltz happily into the sunset together. You are building inner feelings which I think are at the point that they are going to crescendo and burst out (probably not in a good way).

Cut this one loose and go find yourself a virgin - seem that is the only thing that will settle your mind.
 

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Thanks for the opinions. I was reflecting and I realized that actually the amount of sex, the quality and quantity of sex in every place you can imagine like beach, steam room, swimming pool, forest, and now also with the gains and more Im planning to get from LG, this just makes really all my past and her past sexual experience look like a joke lol Even it makes porn or escorts look like a joke, and honestly it would be almost impossible to find escort to match my gf.

Besides, these 15 guys or so were really lucky, maybe the best thing that would ever happen in their miserable lifes lol They are no match for me in dick size, career, money, looks or whatever even put together still farawary even in maturity and sex skills they were no match when I was much younger lol

So I decided I should stop worrying about this sh*t, should stop worrying about guys bragging about all their girls they fucked and these 15 idiots because honestly if these guys knew i use now the xxxl world largest condom which will soon start getting tight and maybe will need female condoms and if they knew the crazy sex I had with my gf and the even crazier sex when i reach my goal of 8.5x7 (started around 7x6 now around 8x6.5) these guys would need serious psychological therapy and not me lol

So only thing I should think about is train like crazy with LG to achieve my goal and have crazy sex with her better than a pornstar lol She is skinny so the perfect match for a big and fat dick, cant wait to see how much she can handle, already complains a bit for length and recently girth also saying i should get "thinner condom" hahaha

Also, it's good she had some guys before actually so she can appreciate how much better I am and how much bigger my dick is, otherwise she may think everyone has a dick like me lol Those guys even 27 or 30 or whatever were not more mature than me with 22 age is something subjective within 10-15 years, and maybe its better just one night things (one hour) or short relationship with small dick guys than one longer relationship with a huge black guy lol Maybe she was frustrated and kept searching for a larger dick ahahahahah

One day walking back home at night I say look at that office building so huge, she touch my dick and says here is huge too, i said, thats why you love me? she says no and touches my heart, then she says: actually… its important also and had a little bitchy laugh

Time to get LG and train like crazy just for her lol
 
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I see a lot of confusion and misdirected rage, or better resentment. Those 15 priors have no responsibility in how you feel about them having sex with your gf BEFORE your time with her.
Frankly speaking, all this talk of you being way bigger than all of them (how do you know? She told you? Was she sincere? You'll never know) is quite senseless and, when you say that, once you reach your PE objectives, they'll need a shrink and so on, I really suspect that you are the one in need of it. Sorry pal, I try to tell you what I see.
One last thing: I believe that doing PE for anyone other than yourself is a mistake.
Just my opinion... Don't take it badly.
 

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Hi astrovale, they are responsible for lying to her or pretended they loved her when they actually just wanted sex, so yeah, better they never cross my path lol haha

Yes, she told me she didnt feel much with them (asian guys mostly) and even is she lied partially, last time I measured few days ago I was 8 inches length which is not amazing but on the larger size already and girth close to 6.5 inches man, normal XL condoms are too tight and regular ones I cant even put them in. I got one of 69mm width the largest on market and it held perfectly and confortable, this doesnt lie. When I started PE I was already large for her at around 7 inch length and 6 inch girth. Besides, I started and am doing PE for MYSELF, but actually it helps me a lot mentally and gives me motivation and self-discipline and patience and looking forward to enjoying better sex thanks to PE.

Im an advanced hanger in the 17-22 lbs, been in PE for years, did extenders, phallosan, pumpers, manuals, supplements, went to frenulum surgery due to extenders and now I found what works and will reach my dream goal of 8.5 inches length and 7 inches girth, I dont want more because more length or girth than that would make sex actually difficult
 
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I give up. Good luck to you and your goals
 

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Thanks mate, when I reach my goal I will sometime enjoy thinking how those 15 or any other who attempted to date my gf while she was with me would cry if seeing one scene and how they would even give me their current gf to try haha

But thats secondary really, better sex with my gf and really accomplishing the PE goals after years of crazy effort is my motivation
 

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It seems like dick size is everything to you. One thing il say is im with a women whos had bigger cocks than mine (they probs all did) and im the only person whos ever gave her multiple orgasms and had that special connection with her. Once u grow up u will realise your cock size means fuck all to 95% of women.
Try having loving passionate intense tantric sex with such an extreme connection delivering multiple intense orgasms.
Im stoked to know my girl had bigger cocks but i have gave her the fastest most intense orgasms of her life. How do i know ? Because before we had sex or even kissed i would sext her and she’d say “that will never happen with me” and sure enough it didnt for a few months until i learned her body and blew her fucking mind biaaatch!

8 x 6.5 billy big bollocks 😂 You have a lot to learn my friend
 

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Hi man, thanks for your comment and totally agree with you. After my gf had abortion and was on the pills for almost a year her libido changed a lot and I hope it will start improving soon as before, she stopped like a year ago and I think it is already a lot better.

What I meant is that her sexual past bother me quite a lot especially since there is nothing I can do about it. So for me to relax, calm down and control the anger and forget all that sh*t I focus on just training PE because I dont want to leave her despite this. Of course I agree with you and totally admire you are pleasing your gf and feel happy for you, but in my case I just really cant stand about her past even maybe without doing any PE I was already her largest or even largest by a good amount. She told me few months after being together she had best and craziest sex with me, etc, but none of this helped me as PE training is helping

She also said what you say that one night thing are nothing really compared to once you really know her body etc
 

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Hi man, thanks for your comment and totally agree with you. After my gf had abortion and was on the pills for almost a year her libido changed a lot and I hope it will start improving soon as before, she stopped like a year ago and I think it is already a lot better.

What I meant is that her sexual past bother me quite a lot especially since there is nothing I can do about it. So for me to relax, calm down and control the anger and forget all that sh*t I focus on just training PE because I dont want to leave her despite this. Of course I agree with you and totally admire you are pleasing your gf and feel happy for you, but in my case I just really cant stand about her past even maybe without doing any PE I was already her largest or even largest by a good amount. She told me few months after being together she had best and craziest sex with me, etc, but none of this helped me as PE training is helping

She also said what you say that one night thing are nothing really compared to once you really know her body etc

Your gf knows the score and understands sex so, although difficult, try not to focus on her previous sexual experiences and believe what she says. Just focus on giving her the best sex you can
Everyone has a past and my ex’s past bothered me so i do understand ur position but if u want to be with her you just have to trust her. If it comes back to bite you theres BILLIONS of other women out there, shes just ONE
 

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Anyone can FUCK but SEX is something completely different
 

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To me the approach to all this past stuff is all wrong. What you should be thinking is this:

"This girl is super attractive and catches the attention of lots of other guys, but in the end, she chose ME, which makes me the lucky one".

Think of it in this positive way, and you will feel better about your relationship.
 

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To me the approach to all this past stuff is all wrong. What you should be thinking is this:

"This girl is super attractive and catches the attention of lots of other guys, but in the end, she chose ME, which makes me the lucky one".

Think of it in this positive way, and you will feel better about your relationship.

This day and age its all changed in my opinion. Totally different generation. Cheating is just the norm these days with all this social media, snapchat,facebook etc Its just soo easy. Totally different mindset these days. Cheating is almost normalized. Its tragic. No old fashioned dating etc. Its nude photos, everythings over text. Its very very sad.
Young women and men have a totally different mindset nowadays, was even different when i was young and im only 33
Trust is a thing of the past to a certain extent
 

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Call me insecure etc but i see this everyday. Everyones texting and shagging everyone these days. Give me a more mature bird anyday. Our younger generation is doomed