Mental breakthroughs

[Big Al]

This can be a thread where you can discuss experiences or observations which have caused you to think in or see things in a new, more enlightened manner.

 

[BlueMorpho]

Surprised to see this section so barren... in comparison to the heavily trodden Enlargement section (aka the 'Meat & Deli' department), followed closely by the countless 'progress' threads and the ego-bolstering pat-in-the-back 'success' stories.

I wouldn't say I had any breakthroughs yet, but I believe asking questions and doing so as often as possible can pave the way to further enlightenment. Here are a few:

Why do I feel the need to be larger?
Might I have penile size dysmorphia or did porn influence a desire for more?
Why do I think enhancing might be a good option for me?
Is it really JUST for me - or am I secretly hoping to impress a partner with some awesome sex?
Or could it be a way to find acceptance within an intimate relationship?

How does the rest of my life square with wanting to be larger?
What are activities I love pursuing now that I want to continue further?
What are personal traits that will be with me forever and what are some habits that can change over time?
What are some negative emotions that pull me back?
Does my holistic view of the self see myself engaging in PE stuff?

But above all what struck me like lightening this morning was this simple realization:

I may think my life may span 40 more years or so, but what if I actually only had 5 remaining on the clock?

If I had only 5 years to live, how would I want to spend my time? To make the most out of some productive contribution, to righting every important relationship be it friend or family that has waned, or simply to take time to enjoy the simple things, nature, the odd trip abroad. It'll be gone in a flash... but if I could live, really live every single day, then I believe I'll be ready to accept death a little more, even if it were to come this early.

At this point I would have to ask: would it even make sense for me to crave for a bigger peen? I'll leave this unanswered for now.

Great thread, Big Al. Too bad it isn't very popular.

 

[Big Al]

These are all great introspective questions! It's hoped this subforum gains in popularity.

Only YOU can know the truth, and you have to be brutally honest with yourself when answering.

If you're training because you relist the challenge and because of an innate sense of pushing your limits, then this can be a positive endeavor. If you're training because you feel pressure from another or because you suffer from self-loathing, then this can lead to disaster.

Male enhancement can be a great stepping stone towards higher development, but it has to be done from a proper perspective for maximum benefit.

To add to something else you said- Whether it's later today or 60+ years from now, physical death comes to us all. Fearing this is futile, but accepting you have limited time here- and that this world as well as the human experience offers you the maximum potential for development- can make your time have productive and satisfying.