Do women usually comment on dick size or is that a misconception I've developed through porn?
Women very rarely comment on dick size on their own. If we do it's because of one of the following situations:
1) We're genuinely surprised at the size
2) We're trying to stroke his ego or make him feel better/more comfortable
3) Some do it when they're pissed off or snarky because they want to make him feel bad
4) We're specifically asked about it.
We will very rarely just spontaneously comment on it. I have been known to with some partners because I know they're either insecure about it and need that reassurance in order to really get into it, or because they really get off on being told how great it is. But we tend not to focus on size. Every guy is different, we expect that every dick is going to be as well.
I'd recommend that you never get into that subject with a partner.
Hey for what reasons should you never bring that subject up with a partner? is it because a partner could likely have been with bigger and so theyre not impressed or what? genuinely curious.
Several reasons why you don't want to start asking about it:
1) You can come across as insecure. I have one ex who would ask "How was that for you? Was that good?" every time after we had sex. Every single time. It felt really needy and insecure, and got to the point where I really didn't want to have sex with him because I knew it was going to end with that question.
2) Depending on how secure you are you may not like the answer. Are you okay with her maybe having had larger guys?
3) You may or may not get a straight answer, depending on how well you know each other and how comfortable you are with each other. If she feels like you're asking because you're insecure she might skirt the issue or give you a non-answer, or conveniently forget about someone larger. Size also probably really doesn't matter to her in terms of her enjoyment, so she may worry that if she says something you're not happy with then it will negatively affect your relationship or sexual interactions with her.
You would think if they had something positive to say they would but it doesn't seem to work that way.
On the other hand nasty women know a negative comment about penis size or make up a larger dick ex or the like is effective even on well endowed men .
Both very true. We won't tend to mention it because it doesn't really matter much to us. Again, we know some guys really get off on hearing compliments about it during sex, and porn has told us that yeah we're supposed to commenting on it, but most of us don't unless we feel like the guy really really wants to hear it.
Do you comment on the size of their breasts, or ass?
A lot of guys do actually. Some don't, but many do. But again men are more visually stimulated than women are so they're bound to notice and put more importance on things like that than women are.
A better comparison might actually be hair. Women will do things with their hair, try different products and colours and styles etc but guys rarely will comment about how shiny or soft her hair is. They'll make comments about changes in colour or style, but generally just once. They're not going to say "oh I love stroking your long, soft hair" even if it's true. It's something that women pay a lot of attention to, but men - not so much. Same with dick size - it's important to men but women... not so much.