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Hello guys, I started jelqing around July-August of this year. Of course the first two-three weeks were one of the best as I had better EQ and better penis which was great results until I started 'edging' for long periods to porn, two months in and I got my first injury. I passed thru all the symptoms that guys on here passed thru. cold glans, numb penis, soft glans, and hard flaccid. This is where the fun part comes, I stopped all activity of course thinking to myself ill take two weeks off and itll be alright, two weeks in and im really fine and there's nothing. Im sitting in class and at some point I get a random erection and I'm happy cause it had been a while. So I say to myself there's no way that I healed this fast or its this good. I leave class and go to pegym and read some of the threads about the possible injuries and you shouldve seen how everything changed from that point. I think to myself that if I hadnt done that and overthought it wouldve been done by now. Anyway straight to the point i started feeling hard flaccid symptoms, cold glans and everything u ever think of. Of course I did yoga and I did everything possible and now a month later I think im just fine I just need to abstrain from sexual activity for it to get better and to recreate cells of course with the help of hot wraps, yoga and meditation. I have also used olive oil which have mositurized my penis. But there is some discoloration which id like to remove which will also take some time I think. Im also masturbating normally but since this moment 20 october 2018 I will stop masturbating or any effort for 28 days-2 months. So I can give my cock the good rest time using hot wraps and yoga to help and also to give my mind nothing but peace

Now I wanna ask a few questions which why I did this account for honestly.
1) Can I in the future come back to jelqing of course with lighter than the begginer routines?
2) Can anyone send me porn-related videos of how much theyre unhealthy (because i really wanna stop completely) (not addicted)
3) If you have any positive advice that is 100% natural for me to heal, id be greatful.

Note: Please if you have nothing positive to say, do not reply cause I do overthink.
Note to others: Do not overthink, stress, or be anxious. Listen I learned this the hard way but if your mind is the problem then you will always find excuses to why your cock has to be injured. Cut off masturbation if it makes u overthink, focus that the body repairs itself, have some healthy diet, and do some meditation, and everything will be alright. I know it's easier said than done. trust me i know it more than anyone, but there is nothing at this point that you will use if u give your mind some peace.
Ik this website isnt for motivational quotes but think about it the things we think expect the least tend to happen, so stop thinking that your cock is superman and start thinking of him as a person who needs to simply rest a bit from everything.
 

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Does using a 'penis friendly' lube, maybe something with vitamin E, aloe (Aloe creams have a calming effect on the skin and have been shown to help reduce itchiness and inflammation.) help ?
 

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See the thing is that theres some discoloration and also its over sensitive to the point where it hurts but also it comes n goes like when i stop masturbating 2 weeks the pain goes. I feel like its less moisturized. Im using olive oil it got better but I dont know whats the case..
 

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Seems that mastubation, the way you do that, aggravates that 'condition'.

You might try to develop a method of masturbation, that is ' more gentle '.
 

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Thank you so much for replying, its true cause sometimes my girlfriend rubs my cock from under the boxer where my tip rubs on my boxer, so that would be the odd of it. I also sometimes get soft glans? Does that mean I didnt fully heal? Do I have to abstrain from masturbation? These questions I ask myself almost everyday and the most important q is could i ever jelq again?
 

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Time will tell, hopefully. ;)

I have a ' hunch ', that many newbies, use too much force/are too rough, injelqing, which if one's penis is not conditioned, leads to self inflicted injury.

I just think that penis's, in general, are best treated gently, until some conditioning is established over time.
 

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Experiment, be patient, relax with eyes closed, fantasize, take your time.
 

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Hey Big Al im sorry if I posted in a different forum, this is my first time on this website ill get used to it.

Not a problem :)
 

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Okay guys since I dont wanna mess up any more threads, ill type it in here.
So update: ive been putting olive oil and it has been very effective “the itchiness when my penis rubs the boxer is on its way to end”. So hopefully im going to be fine, still tho if i hold so much pee, it gets very sensitive, idk if thats almost everyone and i also don’t remember if that used to happen, all i know is that im having morning boners and random erections. So any advice to the “peeing thing”
 

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injury almost healed

injury almost healed

the past has had its ups and downs. Anyway im back to the injury that needs to heal.
1) im refraining from masturbation for the next three weeks
2) I tried edging on Sunday and I had really bad symptoms of hard flaccid so ill get back to Yoga as of today!
Anyway im gonna log out of this place for a month and not think about any dick experiments

Please your replied and your advice is much needed
 

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Hey Big Al. Well i injured myself around August, i tried masturbatinf like in thr next two days and I felt numb, cold glans, all the hard flaccid symptopms. Anyway i refreined from masturbation and in a matter of 5 days i felt really good and my penis was back to normal kind of so i masturbated and I felt like I had premature ejaculation which i faced before but got better with edging, anyway i continued to rest and added yoga and started gettinf morning boners with random erections and all of that. Anw now I have only hard flaccid cause I stress myself and think thru my cock and all along the way i felt that the tip of my penis is hurting until like a week ago i stopped feeling cause i put in my mine that it has nothing to do with it. Last thing that id like to add is that idk but i see like a bit of white spots on the tip but on the place where I urinate, other than that I have good erections with my girl and not to porn anymore, i face some premature ejaculation a bit, but honestly just a bit worried about the lowkey white spots on my tip oh and I had thrombossed veins and its much better... so id like ur opinion on the matter since ur one of the oldest members and since I really wanna get back to jelqing...
 

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Hey Big Al. Well i injured myself around August, i tried masturbatinf like in thr next two days and I felt numb, cold glans, all the hard flaccid symptopms. Anyway i refreined from masturbation and in a matter of 5 days i felt really good and my penis was back to normal kind of so i masturbated and I felt like I had premature ejaculation which i faced before but got better with edging, anyway i continued to rest and added yoga and started gettinf morning boners with random erections and all of that. Anw now I have only hard flaccid cause I stress myself and think thru my cock and all along the way i felt that the tip of my penis is hurting until like a week ago i stopped feeling cause i put in my mine that it has nothing to do with it. Last thing that id like to add is that idk but i see like a bit of white spots on the tip but on the place where I urinate, other than that I have good erections with my girl and not to porn anymore, i face some premature ejaculation a bit, but honestly just a bit worried about the lowkey white spots on my tip oh and I had thrombossed veins and its much better... so id like ur opinion on the matter since ur one of the oldest members and since I really wanna get back to jelqing...

White spots could be almost anything- from recovering bruising to fungal infection.

As far as the mental aspect, nothing affects the penis of more men in a negative fashion than emotional stress- and this includes stressors outside of the sexual arena as well as direct issues like performance anxiety.

The following may be of interest: More On The Mental Side Of Male Enhancement
 

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Hello big Al, well as of emotional stress, I think im fucking up in my university, ever since I started studying more and working more in my college I have been getting these random erections or morning boners. yes I wont lie emotional stress is the worst and affects my sexual life very much. I dont wanna lie to u aswell i just dont like my size. I feel like I can talk freely over here but I always felt insecure about my size and i have experienced an encounTer or two where girls thought I was Johnny sins but turned out not to be.
1) I really wanna get the stress out of my sexual system
2) I wanna get a better sexual stamina and eq without any kind of training
You think you have anything that would help me?
Cause I do emphasize that I wanna get back to jelqing.
 

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Hello big Al, well as of emotional stress, I think im fucking up in my university, ever since I started studying more and working more in my college I have been getting these random erections or morning boners. yes I wont lie emotional stress is the worst and affects my sexual life very much. I dont wanna lie to u aswell i just dont like my size. I feel like I can talk freely over here but I always felt insecure about my size and i have experienced an encounTer or two where girls thought I was Johnny sins but turned out not to be.
1) I really wanna get the stress out of my sexual system
2) I wanna get a better sexual stamina and eq without any kind of training
You think you have anything that would help me?
Cause I do emphasize that I wanna get back to jelqing.

IMO- you should start on focusing on the most important basics- EQ improvement and the mental aspect of your training. Without wither of these things, you're going to have issues making progress (not just in size, but in your mindset).

Including the link Mental Side link, please review the following to help you get started:

The “Stamina Only” Routine for Reversing the Effects of Detraining

Advantages of Stop and Starts & More: Ask the Experts

Mental Exercises & Confidence: Ask the Experts