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How to break the uncomfortable news about ed?

How to break the uncomfortable news about ed?

When you start dating a girl that you really like, how do you tell her you have to take medication for erectile dysfunction without it upsetting her or making her run away?
 

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Well, this is another thread about the same thing to your last. I don’t care but there will be. Mod along shortly I’m sure.

To answer the question. Why tell her at all until you’ve gotten serious. As long as you get hard and rock her world. What’s the difference how you got there. I mean, Viagra doesn’t work unless you are aroused, no different than any other guy. Just a little kick in the dick. No biggy.
 

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If you are new to a relationship, but have to take Viagra to achieve an erection, how do you break the news to a girl so she doesn't think you have to take it because your not attracted to her. Especially when you are a young man 37?

You establish a relationship first, build up confidence and trust in each other and you will know when the right time to discuss this is. Make sure you get past the "farting in front of each other" phase first. :rolleyes: You will eventually begin to discuss everyday life stuff and you comfort level with her will increase. It is then that you just let her know that you have ED and are taking something for it. Its that simple.

Now if you are taking Viagara and don't need to, then it is your conscience that has to deal with the lie. Just saying, if that is the fact. 37 is pretty young to be on ED medications.
 

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Have merged your duplicate question on the same topic to this thread- Biohacker. Please refrain from making duplicate posts on the same subject in different threads.
 

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If you are new to a relationship, but have to take Viagra to achieve an erection, how do you break the news to a girl so she doesn't think you have to take it because your not attracted to her. Especially when you are a young man 37?
I say go for broke and tell her everything that might potentially be a problem in the relationship by your third date. You can say "I want to be with you but I have this problem with ED I have been working on (make sure you frame it like something you are working to fix on your own) so I can't get an erection without Viagra. However, I am willing to lick you and do whatever it takes to keep you satisfied despite of this problem." I think you will find that most women will be willing to accept you as a sexual partner as long as you are upfront and honest, and once they know you're not going to take away from the relationship by sulking or making her feel guilty about your problem.

You can also tell the woman your interested in something along the lines of "this is what's wrong with me, if you're willing to work with me I'm willing to satisfy you in other ways. If not, then this is your chance to leave." This will give them an opportunity to leave if they are not that interested in a sexual relationship with you, and this kind of honesty will keep you from getting your car keyed later on, but most women will appreciate this kind of honesty and bravery. It takes a lot to tell any new partner "this is what is wrong with me" but it is important for your benefit as well as hers, and it prevents you both from wasting your time.
 

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Have merged your duplicate question on the same topic to this thread- Biohacker. Please refrain from making duplicate posts on the same subject in different threads.


See I told ya.
 

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Do lady manners get checked at the door when they go to the gym. Not that I am complaining, in some incidences. Just curious.
 

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I think the world is losing its manners as a whole.
 

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I think its bleeding out from Greece, here's a country where there are no manners most of the time, its me first and just barge in, cant wait or queue and there driving takes some getting used to, you need to be looking 360 deg, try that its fun.

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When you start dating a girl that you really like, how do you tell her you have to take medication for erectile dysfunction without it upsetting her or making her run away?

Never tell her. She's nobody, you barely know each other, might breakup anytime.

Unless you're gonna marry her soon then you must tell her. Or when you had been for some 2 years together and you can both somehow guarantee staying in long term relation to end in marriage or life long attachment, then you must tell her.
 

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I have got two questions.

1. What do women think about a penis of a guy they like and date. Do you have any thoughts, does he have a big dick or small or do you just count with average? I know when you date a man you like his other qualities but you also think about his dick, i am just curious about this.
2. Although women generaly like sex i have heard that some women dont care about sex at all and there are quite lot of them. Is this somewhat true?
Thanks :)