when i am about to ejaculate my muscle contracts really hard and i cant stop it will this be what is making me ooze?
what prostate issue is that? i am 24 and never had a prostate examination. :S[/QUOTE
Like swollen up, pain, penis and ball shrinkage, hard to piss standing up most the time and hard to ejaculate as well, with some burning left behind most the time.... Seen my dr and he can't do much more because he isn't licensed to do the test I need, can't afford a urologist ither... Don't know what to do...
Yeah waiting a bit beween ejac defo helps. The other day after going near a week with ejac I freaking shot about 2 feet in the air lolDo you tense up before you ejaculate, in anticipation of making a mess? Just my experience: If you're in a place where you might make a mess (near a keyboard, for example) you may inhibit yourself.
My advice is to find a place to totally let go with no worry of where it lands. Wait a bit in between ejaculations to increase your libido a bit first.
You can try 'edging'. If you spend a good hour or so edging to the point before ejaculation (try to not reach the 'pre-cum' stage until the last ascent to orgasm) you may find that you can shoot.
When you are going to orgasm after 5-6 edgings, let the pre-cum make it's way out a little...hold back a bit then really let yourself go. The pre-cum acts as a natural lubricant for the sperm to exit the penis in the greatest volume. I have dribbled sometimes but other times my junk goes flying everywhere lol. One partner from many years ago wanted me to ejaculate on her face which was kind of exciting (had never had anyone want that before). However, it was so exciting that it jetted out like a salvo of cannon fire, over her head and went onto the crocheted cushion covers her mum had made on the couch behind her rofl. Took ages to find and wash out all of the jizz.
Good luck in your quest. I believe that through pelvic floor training and edging, you should be able to do it.