Today, a really hot girl spoke to me at school...we ended up having an amazing conversation for a good 20 minutes. She was really excited to finally speak to me (we have been making eye contact for weeks now but we havent spoken to each other until today)...After biology class, she said: "Did you already have this class last semester? I said: No, why?.. She said: Well everytime the teacher asks the class a question, you always answer the questions correctly. How come? Me: Well...I just love science"...
Okay so the game is on. I am suddenly pretty nervous but I got a grip on my emotions quickly. I think I became slightly red in color, but I was able to contain myself by taking control of the conversation immediately. I started by eliciting her values (NLP term..used in pick up artistry), here's how it works: we spoke about our science classes and how we both wanted to study medicine (points in common and things that she LOVES to talk about)...she said that she wanted to become a pediatrician...I told her about my volunteering at the pediatric hospital and how I loved kids. This type of conversation elicits happy emotions within her. (I'm not a professional yet..but I was supposed to ''anchor'' these feelings by giving her a little object [such as a hair clip] that would remind her of me and it would bring up those good emotions everytime she has the object in her hands...but that comes later on in life ). So basically I was making her feel great by talking about the things she likes and proving to her that I love the same things.
Pretty quickly, she became very ''kino'' with me, which means that she got physical (touching my elbow every now and then, poking me while she laughs, etc). She couldnt keep her eyes off me..she had a huge smile on her face throughout the conversation. I then proceeded to ''negging'' her..which is to give her a negative compliment to lower her self confidence and to make her more ''shy'' so that I can further have control over her (sounds mean, I know). I said: Do you bite your nails, because they are chipped?..She got slightly red in the face and said: I didnt have time to do my nails today...then I said: haha it's okay, your hair compensates for it...She replied with a shy: ''thanks'' and a very sincere giggle...
I then proceeded to asking her if she liked my shirt (I was wearing a black long sleeve undershirt with a pink tee-shirt over it, looks great)..She said that she loved it and that pink suits me very well. She then adjusted my shirt (which did not need adjusting, lol). Then I asked her if she wanted to hang out this weekend...she said yes, but that she couldnt hang out this weekend because she was going to ottawa to see her grandma...so I asked for her phone number and she gave it to me really quickly (like she was expecting it).
She has a FANTASTIC personality and she's smoking hot (she is all natural golden blond with bright blue eyes and nice pink lips...she's really tall and has BIG boobs and a nice ass. She's a smoking 9/10..lots of the guys at school want her.). I see myself having some interesting future endeavors with her . Might I add that during the entire conversation, my heart rate was up (adrenaline rush) because I was ACTUALLY pulling off pick up artistry and NLP...it was going so perfect. Damn I feel good about myself.
I gotta admit though that this entire process is so much easier to pull off if the girl is actually interested by you, which is what happened in my case. Also, the fact that she loves science is the only thing that made it possible for me to elicit her values. A real pick up artist has to make the first move and find things out about her ON THE SPOT because pick up artists approach in bars/clubs and on the street. They are the real pros!
And here's another observation:
I came home from school, watched some olympics (GO CANADA GO! lol) and then I proceeded to jerking off. 20 minutes after I came, I suddenly became..uncertain of my situation with this girl. Feels like the confidence I had earlier is much weaker now. I jerked off, so I am not horny anymore...this slight hornyness is what kept me going with the girl. Testosterone is REALLY good. The fact that I just released my T through an ejaculation made me suddenly less confident.
If you have low confidence, I urge you to STOP masturbating and stop watching porn. Porn sucks. Daily masturbation sucks too. Hold your load in, let the T build up and see if your confidence goes up!
Thanks for reading. I hope to pull off many more number closes!
Okay so the game is on. I am suddenly pretty nervous but I got a grip on my emotions quickly. I think I became slightly red in color, but I was able to contain myself by taking control of the conversation immediately. I started by eliciting her values (NLP term..used in pick up artistry), here's how it works: we spoke about our science classes and how we both wanted to study medicine (points in common and things that she LOVES to talk about)...she said that she wanted to become a pediatrician...I told her about my volunteering at the pediatric hospital and how I loved kids. This type of conversation elicits happy emotions within her. (I'm not a professional yet..but I was supposed to ''anchor'' these feelings by giving her a little object [such as a hair clip] that would remind her of me and it would bring up those good emotions everytime she has the object in her hands...but that comes later on in life ). So basically I was making her feel great by talking about the things she likes and proving to her that I love the same things.
Pretty quickly, she became very ''kino'' with me, which means that she got physical (touching my elbow every now and then, poking me while she laughs, etc). She couldnt keep her eyes off me..she had a huge smile on her face throughout the conversation. I then proceeded to ''negging'' her..which is to give her a negative compliment to lower her self confidence and to make her more ''shy'' so that I can further have control over her (sounds mean, I know). I said: Do you bite your nails, because they are chipped?..She got slightly red in the face and said: I didnt have time to do my nails today...then I said: haha it's okay, your hair compensates for it...She replied with a shy: ''thanks'' and a very sincere giggle...
I then proceeded to asking her if she liked my shirt (I was wearing a black long sleeve undershirt with a pink tee-shirt over it, looks great)..She said that she loved it and that pink suits me very well. She then adjusted my shirt (which did not need adjusting, lol). Then I asked her if she wanted to hang out this weekend...she said yes, but that she couldnt hang out this weekend because she was going to ottawa to see her grandma...so I asked for her phone number and she gave it to me really quickly (like she was expecting it).
She has a FANTASTIC personality and she's smoking hot (she is all natural golden blond with bright blue eyes and nice pink lips...she's really tall and has BIG boobs and a nice ass. She's a smoking 9/10..lots of the guys at school want her.). I see myself having some interesting future endeavors with her . Might I add that during the entire conversation, my heart rate was up (adrenaline rush) because I was ACTUALLY pulling off pick up artistry and NLP...it was going so perfect. Damn I feel good about myself.
I gotta admit though that this entire process is so much easier to pull off if the girl is actually interested by you, which is what happened in my case. Also, the fact that she loves science is the only thing that made it possible for me to elicit her values. A real pick up artist has to make the first move and find things out about her ON THE SPOT because pick up artists approach in bars/clubs and on the street. They are the real pros!
And here's another observation:
I came home from school, watched some olympics (GO CANADA GO! lol) and then I proceeded to jerking off. 20 minutes after I came, I suddenly became..uncertain of my situation with this girl. Feels like the confidence I had earlier is much weaker now. I jerked off, so I am not horny anymore...this slight hornyness is what kept me going with the girl. Testosterone is REALLY good. The fact that I just released my T through an ejaculation made me suddenly less confident.
If you have low confidence, I urge you to STOP masturbating and stop watching porn. Porn sucks. Daily masturbation sucks too. Hold your load in, let the T build up and see if your confidence goes up!
Thanks for reading. I hope to pull off many more number closes!