I get no erection when required / desired /needed

[asifnaz]

I am 28 and of average weight . I am suffering from strange kind of ED . I don't get erection when I need it . This may seem a normal issue but its very annoying
I get very hard erection at morning(with exception of some days) and get random erections at day but bring sexiest woman in the world to me and I don't get any erection at all .

This problem is always with me ( even in my teens) . Even physical stimulation don't get me any erection with a partner or when I desire to get an erection .

My friend told me that I might be a gay but I tried with a man (and was comfortable with him) no erection at all!!! . I think I am bisexual BTW .

I used to think I was impotent but a doctor told me I am fine if I can get erection any time, specially morning erection .

I get random erection but they are of no use as I don't get any erection when I need/require/desire it .

I need your help .

(any advice or opinion will be appreciated )

thank you

 

[Appleman]

Everything to me as you described here is purely psychological and emotional. When you have to get sexually exited when needed is only when you are well relaxed and at ease with your body and that of your partner.
Based on the little experience I have with PE (one month now), the exercises improve so much on getting erection when needed since at their best they also increase your confidence in the security that, "I have been PEing, so I should have a stronger, healthier penis" type of psychological milestone that am sure everyone who is doing the PE correctly achieves before any other thing.
Try not to focus so much on your penis when you have a woman and focus more on the woman, imagine yourself in her and driving her crazy and that will surely work the magic more than focusing on the sexual organ entirely.
Good luck.

 

[NOWHARD]

Hi As, If you can get morning woods and random erections, then as they say you don't have ED, your problem is you, once you get this into your head, then it will not work, when it comes to the time you need it most, at some time have you masturbated a lot and was this with porn, masturbating is done with your hand, and what is done by the hand is remembered by the brain, and masturbating to porn can switch off your sexual receptors, I think the best thing you can do is get naked with a women, and just play around a lot, masturbating her, playing with her breasts, oral sex, get her to play with you, finger your anus, massaging each other with lots of oils these could trigger things for you, enjoy her and let her enjoy you. Good Luck

 

[asifnaz]

Hi As, If you can get morning woods and random erections, then as they say you don't have ED, your problem is you, once you get this into your head, then it will not work, when it comes to the time you need it most, at some time have you masturbated a lot and was this with porn, masturbating is done with your hand, and what is done by the hand is remembered by the brain, and masturbating to porn can switch off your sexual receptors, I think the best thing you can do is get naked with a women, and just play around a lot, masturbating her, playing with her breasts, oral sex, get her to play with you, finger your anus, massaging each other with lots of oils these could trigger things for you, enjoy her and let her enjoy you. Good Luck

I am afraid to start something which I can not finish . I mean what if I really turn her on my doing things you mentioned but end up having no erection at all . I have tried it few time but mu penis shows no sign of erection rather it even shrinks more than normal .

 

[asifnaz]

I have some more to tell you about my sexulity
I deliberately want to be attracted to women . The society I come from has absolutely no place for homosexuals . I like men's body more then women body and you are right lesbian porn does not turn me on . In straight porn I like the pose when a muscle man is dominating the woman in a position where man's butt , legs penis is very visible .

Having said that I never wanted a romantic relationship with another man . And I like men sexually but only bottoming them .

All sexual dreams I have ever seen , I was bottoming to other men . However , even my bottom gay friends get erection when they need it (IMO)

 

[NOWHARD]

I am afraid to start something which I can not finish . I mean what if I really turn her on my doing things you mentioned but end up having no erection at all . I have tried it few time but mu penis shows no sign of erection rather it even shrinks more than normal .

But this were you need to be straight with the women you take to bed, just tell her it may not happen, but if its does, it would be a bonus for both of you, and tell her why your doing it, then ifs she's happy too, the have a few more goes with her, you need to get this guy thing out of your brain if you want to be straight, the being naked with a good women would be the only way forward for you. Good Luck