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Lots of guys ask how has PE changed your sex life. First off I am married and faithful to my wife, so I have never experienced the "Wow, Gee, OMG" reaction. While I have gotten substantially thicker, it was gradual and my wife has seen me naked so often that the gradual growth never jumped out at her. However, it has changed how we make love. I haven't gain much/if any length over the years, so that hasn't changed. I have added probably a full inch to my erect girth, and I was pretty lucky there even before PE.
So intercourse has never been a "slam her up against the wall and fuck her eyes out" kind of thing. We always had to take things a little slow because of my girth. That has become more of an issue for me than my wife, in that I have never had a lot of staying power to begin with. My wife, God bless her, never complained and treasured the intimacy more then her own physical pleasure. My added girth complicated things because in order to enter her it was starting to take longer and longer, and my staying ability wasn't getting any better.
I introduced the infamous Hitachi vibrator and several dildos in order to spice up our sex and to allow her to enjoy as many orgasms as she wanted. It got so good for us that we began drifting away from actual intercourse and instead using her toys on her and then ending our sessions with her going down on me. Giving me head was always a favorite activity for my wife, along with swallowing. So I am indeed lucky.
While I was always thick, my wife could easily take some of me into her mouth without a problem. A funny story is that one of her dildos was almost my exact size before I got really thick, and I tried putting it in my mouth. I'm 6'5", 200 lbs, so I'm not little. I could barely get the head of the damn thing in my mouth. Gave it to my wife and - bam - she had it easily inside her mouth without trying, and she's a foot shorter then myself.
I continued to get thicker, and when I started wearing a cock ring to bed, my thickness became a real issue. My erections have been ok the past few years, but it was getting more difficult to get it fully erect and keep it like that. The cock ring changed all of that!!! I am harder now then when I was a youth full of vim and vinegar. That made my wife getting me into her mouth more complicated. It started with her taking in less and less over time. Finally she had to change how she went down on me. She used to straddle me between my legs, but she started to take me in her mouth from the side. I never asked her, it felt good and always got the desired result. The reason is however, that in order to get me in, by going sideways she used the width of her mouth as opposed to widening her mouth top/bottom. To explain why she did that is because a bunch of my thickness has come from the fact I have enlarged my CS an incredible amount (the muscle that runs along the bottom of your shaft, as opposed to the CC's that run along the side). Additionally, it is not only massively thicker, it is almost as firm as my CCs are. There is very little give to it. That made it easier to get my glans in, but she still can no longer go down onto my shaft because of all the changes.
So the short answer to a long winded response is that yes it did change and affect our sex life. We simply made some adjustments and everything is just fine - if not better.
So intercourse has never been a "slam her up against the wall and fuck her eyes out" kind of thing. We always had to take things a little slow because of my girth. That has become more of an issue for me than my wife, in that I have never had a lot of staying power to begin with. My wife, God bless her, never complained and treasured the intimacy more then her own physical pleasure. My added girth complicated things because in order to enter her it was starting to take longer and longer, and my staying ability wasn't getting any better.
I introduced the infamous Hitachi vibrator and several dildos in order to spice up our sex and to allow her to enjoy as many orgasms as she wanted. It got so good for us that we began drifting away from actual intercourse and instead using her toys on her and then ending our sessions with her going down on me. Giving me head was always a favorite activity for my wife, along with swallowing. So I am indeed lucky.
While I was always thick, my wife could easily take some of me into her mouth without a problem. A funny story is that one of her dildos was almost my exact size before I got really thick, and I tried putting it in my mouth. I'm 6'5", 200 lbs, so I'm not little. I could barely get the head of the damn thing in my mouth. Gave it to my wife and - bam - she had it easily inside her mouth without trying, and she's a foot shorter then myself.
I continued to get thicker, and when I started wearing a cock ring to bed, my thickness became a real issue. My erections have been ok the past few years, but it was getting more difficult to get it fully erect and keep it like that. The cock ring changed all of that!!! I am harder now then when I was a youth full of vim and vinegar. That made my wife getting me into her mouth more complicated. It started with her taking in less and less over time. Finally she had to change how she went down on me. She used to straddle me between my legs, but she started to take me in her mouth from the side. I never asked her, it felt good and always got the desired result. The reason is however, that in order to get me in, by going sideways she used the width of her mouth as opposed to widening her mouth top/bottom. To explain why she did that is because a bunch of my thickness has come from the fact I have enlarged my CS an incredible amount (the muscle that runs along the bottom of your shaft, as opposed to the CC's that run along the side). Additionally, it is not only massively thicker, it is almost as firm as my CCs are. There is very little give to it. That made it easier to get my glans in, but she still can no longer go down onto my shaft because of all the changes.
So the short answer to a long winded response is that yes it did change and affect our sex life. We simply made some adjustments and everything is just fine - if not better.
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