By now, it seems there's a consensus going on: my mistake was getting carried away and hitting on her and i was a bad friend; but i do disagree because she did want me, flirted and actually made out with me - so in this case i dont think she was just playing games. I believe that i actually fucked it up in the end (drunk) by insisting she stayed with me in the end, because if I had played it cool and set it up for a hook up at a later date she wouldnt have backtracked. Again, and i will say it again and again and it doesnt justify my mistake: my friend at some point was actually "handing" her to me, and not only before but also after the following day he kept saying he doesnt care about her, she's a toy, shes a pain in his ass. I did wrong influenced by alcohol, but it was supposed to be a fun, loose night. To people saying i lost a friend, then you are totally jumping the gun and just making hasty assumptions, as nothing has changed. guess this thread is pretty much done with, and for sure i'll take from it some of the constructed critiscism i got, specially not getting drunk and losing focus. thanks