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Have problems with conceiving

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Hello, I'm Will from Philadelphia. Me and my wife have been having trouble conceiving. I want to go to a doctor who specializes in this area. There are so many on the internet and it's hard to pick. I don't really have any recommendations. Let me know if you've been to someone really good. I am willing to travel. Thanks.
 

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Sorry have not been to any but know a few things that you can try first. Do you wear tight underware? Do you hot tub? These things can cause sperm breakdown. Also do you smoke pot? Are you eating organic foods? High estrogen levels affect male sperm count and smoking pot, eating soy products, drinking regular rather than organic milk products can cause problems with sperm.

Is your wife very heavy or very thin? These can both affect conception. A normal BMI is the target for best luck in conception, Is she taking folic acid? This is very important to do before becoming pregnant. Actually a prenatal vitamin is important as well.

Are you both feeling pressure to concieve? Try to relax and just have fun practicing. Many times when you just relax you will concieve. Best of luck to you, here is some fertility dust for you from me.I get pregnant by my husband breathing the same air as me.
I really do wish you both the best.
 

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Sorry to hear that you guys are having this problem. It can be very frustrating. The above advice was great! Just to add to it a little....
Have you guys tried using an ovulation test? It will tell you when it the best time to have sex.
I would also recommend researching the best positions, time of day, foods to eat, etc.
After you guys have tried everything you can, then go see someone. Please don't be shocked when you find out the prices you are charged. It will be very expensive to go to a specialist.
Don't stress out as that will not help things and have fun.
Good luck to you and your lady.
 

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Like the advice above I recommend you looking into the natural ways in improve your odds. If neither of you have had fertility tests they I recommend the following:

Check-out a pregnancy calendar online, most will ask when the woman's last cycle started (you usually have to enter a date more than 1 month ago). Most calendars will show the day she was ovulating. Count the number of days between that day and the end of her previous period and BAM! you know how many days you have to prepare for the "big time". There are two lines of thought on the subject, 1. reserve your intimacy for the apex of ovulation and give it the biggest shot you have; 2. take the Lion's approach and do it as often as physically possible during ovulation. One-shot, one kill, or spray and pray. I'm a guy, I recommend spray and pray.

Not to add another goal to your goal-oriented sex, but simultaneous orgasms increase the probability of conception. The pulsation of the cervix during orgasm literally "sucks" semen into the uterus (saw it on Discovery Channel). So the best way to increase the likelihood of the little guys crossing the finish line is to get her to the point of orgasm before you take it home. The best way to get her to the point of orgasm is to help her relax, help her focus on her pleasure, and focus your attention on pleasing her.

Lastly, some will recommend a position that employs gravity to help improve the odds; help keep the semen in her longer. Something like a bundled towel under her bottom to tilt the bottom of her hips up. I really think this provides a marginal benefit but you should try all the free/fun stuff before you start shelling out the big bucks for fertility tests and medical assistance to get pregnant. It is very costly.
 

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And according to the movie The Big Lebowski if she holds her knees up to her chest while lying on her back it improves conception chances. Also you should look into zinc and other supplements that help with semen health. Temperature of semen is extremely important. Enjoy
 

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BETWEEN THE BUNS!
Several things you can try: (For the male)
1) GO "commando" 24/7 absolutely no underwear, let your boys hang.
2) Wear a 1/2" or larger steel cockring. Sized correctly, it won't come off even if you're a "grower" & lt will keep your boys from sticking to your leg, holding them sligthly away from your body helping them get air, remain cooler, thereby increasing sperm vitality and viability. Also feels great, keeps your unit blood engorged increasing blood circulation which also enhances healthy sperm production.
3) Take a good male multivitamin rich in zink.

For both of you:
1)Calculate her ovulation cycle and have sex as often as possible during those days of the month.
2)Best position is "doggy stlye" which allows maximum penetration, and greatest ejaculate delivery directly into the cervix. After ejaculation, it is important for the female to remain in the doggie (head down), posterior elevated position; allowing the sperm to stay in her cervix tilted downward enhancing conception opportunity.
3)Eat a healthy balanced diet, rich in anti-oxidants and good fats like salmon (raw oysters for Him as well). dark green leafy vegetables, avacados, dark cheeries, plums and strawberrys. Stay away from anything containing soy.
4) She needs prenatel vitamins rich in folic acid as well, before conception.

Good luck conceiving your shild in an all natural way that's healthier for all of you.
 

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Was your wife recently on contraceptive medication? It sometimes takes up to a year to clear the system.

A basil thermometer will tell you when your wife becomes a prime candidate for conceiving.

Been there done that.
 

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Ah all this good advice. I think some practice implementation may nbe called for;).
 

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Hi Will! There are so many options. Just saw an ad for Philadelphia Center for Sexual Medicine. I'll try working with them. Here's their site where you could get more info:

<do a google search for philadelphiasexualmedicine >

Let me know if you want me to tell you about my experience.
 
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Hello Freaky, you may want to remove the link. Good information I am sure, but commercial links are not allowed.
 

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When we had our first it took happened first shot. Our second was about a month of trying and the last one too close to a year to the point where my wife had pretty much given up on it. Sometimes these things take time. I wouldn't suggest fertility treatments yet. I would suggest maybe at least having your sperm checked out and maybe her have a checkup as well to make sure its not a bad environment for your sperm and there aren't possibly any other health issues at play. I will say though. Spray and pray worked for me the third time after doing the 1 shot one baby method. Was alot more fun too.
 

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I am an advocate of practice, practice, practice. No stress and so much fun. Keep dropping seeds what the hell all it takes is one.
 

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just dont think about it and have fun doing it. When we had our son it took about a month before she got pregnant. Sometimes it just takes time