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Did she REALLY just do that to me?

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Guys, wow...

I have been seeing a girl off and on for the past few years. I've always wanted to take things further with her, but she always insisted on keeping it physical and not emotional. Lately, I had noticed that when we would get together, she started being more romantic about things, which I loved. She started telling me that she loved me. I thought she meant it. I bought her a nice piece of jewelry for christmas and some other gifts. I thought things were going in a very positive direction.

Thursday morning, she called me up. She told me that she finally wanted to express her love for me. She needed me and she wanted to be with me physically and emotionally. She said we needed to spend a romantic evening together to seal the deal. I made hotel reservations at the Swan and Dolphin Resort in Walt Disney World. She wanted to spend the night away from everyone else - just her and I. I agreed. So, I planed this great evening, despite being sick.

We went to a movie.

Then we had dinner.

We walked around Downtown Disney for awhile. I bought her a few trinkets.

At about 9:30pm, we decided to go check in to our room. The resort is so nice. So, we get to the room and we start making love. Oh wow it was so good. She stops in the middle of it and says to me "sh*t, I need to run out to your car for a minute. I left my prescription in there and I need to take that shortly" She's on meds for diabetes.

I tell her okay. She goes out the door to get her medication.

15 minutes passes. 30 minutes pass. After 30 minutes, I get scared, so I leave the room and go look for her. I go down to my car and she isn't there. She is nowhere to be seen. Naturally, I start panicing that someone took her. I get out my phone and instantly call her. She answers..."Hello?"

"Uh, honey, where did you go?"
---- "I left. Tina (her friend) just picked me up."
"Why did you leave?"
----"You didn't actually think I wanted to be with you, did you? Enjoy your night alone, like it should be."


Yeah guys, 100% God's honest truth.

I don't know what to think right now. In fact, I'm completely crushed. This is at a horrible time too because lately, my attitude has been on the climb. I've been so positive and so happy. And then this nonsense. My emotions are damaged, completely. Not to mention my wallet. Dinner was $54. The movie was $20. The hotel room was $250. They wouldn't refund me the money. I didn't want to explain to them what had happened. It was too embarassing.

So, I just sort of arrived back at home base. My stomach is knots. I feel so sick. And I really don't know what to think right now.
 

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First of all I am so sorry man. I have been played with before, not to that extent, but I know that sick, used feeling that comes with it. You're more than right to feel violated and upset. Just try to keep in the back of your mind that this experience will make you stronger. You're going to find someone who won't mess with you like that, I promise. Just hang in there buddy, we are all here for you.
 

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yeah dude, some women can be ruthless. She knew she had you on a string, you are the quintessential nice guy, buying her sh*t and treating her like a princess. Sounds like she has serious MALE issues, most likely she does not trust them. Which she freaked out about when she was with you, probably. The thing is, some women have serious issues, as I have experienced. They play fucked up games with your mind to get a reaction. Which is why the default is apathy. They will usually come back crying, but if they don't SO WHAT. Don't worry, man, I've been there and I've also caused the same pain to somebody else. One question: Was that the first time you had sex with her?
 

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No, we've had sex several times. We never actually got to the sex tonight.

And, this wasn't her freaking out. This was planned. She fucking PLANNED THIS. Her friend Tina lives 35 minutes from where we were, at least. This was pre-planned. The bag that she brought in with me was empty. She was going to skip on me from the get go.

The more and more I think about this...The upset feeling diminishes...and the vengeful feeling emerges. I know I should probably take the high road here and let it go...But I might not.

I just might paint a fucking masterpiece with this revenge plot.
 

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Exactly. You need to fuck her friend. Trust me it's possible
 

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I hate to be cruel Gator but that bitch deserves to die from diabetes. Man that is really an irksome thing. Move on son she would not make a good girlfriend. I have half a mind to levy a curse on her!!!
 

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Fuck Tina then ring her and say you did me a favour because Tina is much better in bed.
Nah bro take the high road the bitch is sick physically and mentaly.
What is Tina's excuse for being part of it?
 

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No, we've had sex several times. We never actually got to the sex tonight.

And, this wasn't her freaking out. This was planned. She fucking PLANNED THIS. Her friend Tina lives 35 minutes from where we were, at least. This was pre-planned. The bag that she brought in with me was empty. She was going to skip on me from the get go.

The more and more I think about this...The upset feeling diminishes...and the vengeful feeling emerges. I know I should probably take the high road here and let it go...But I might not.

I just might paint a fucking masterpiece with this revenge plot.

The best revenge is that she'll notice that you're happy with another girl.
 

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damn...she used tha art ov war.if U wanna get her back u gota pretend to let it go,get back in with her,and defeat her mentally,take all her fears and manifest them.MI advice would be not 2 let tha next gurl that ur with know how ur feeling in total,emotionally until U are totaly positive that she feels tha same.at tymes make her feel lyk nothin 2 keep her in her natural dependent mindstate,plus they want 2 give their power away,but without tha feeling ov obligation.make sure U know how 2 pull her strings so Ur able 2 build her back up so youll be in total control[NEVER USE THIS IN A NEGETIVE WAY].gurls now dayz think being independent iz okay through entertainment.but a lot ov tha blame iz on us becuz we dont play our position as being independent so they have know choice but to take over and raise her gurl independent so she wont have 2 go through tha same thing she did and raise the boy dependent most ov tha tym.[A SOLID FAMILY IZ VERY IMPORTANT] .[BELIVE ME THIS WILL WORK]
 

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Uh, gray that was hard to read. Is is prefered to iz, of to ov,the to tha, time to tym. Don't expect perfection ,but some improvement would help readers.
 

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Ouch dude, seriously. I've sorta been there. Been played around with psychologically. Did practically everything for a ''woman'', then been basically dragged through the mud and told I was a low life asshole, and cheated on. You gotta be the strong person, keep your head up and move forward. Drop that bitch like a used tampon. I'm not into the whole revenge thing. I think it just makes you a worse person in the end and usually doesn't solve anything. There's no fixing a situation like this. All you can do is tell yourself 'lesson learned, never again' and move forward.
 

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Damn. What a bitch.

Alright, this is clearly the kind of girl that gets a thrill from abusing guys. Sad thing is, there's a lot of those types out there and you can't tell until it's too late. Most of these girls get the most out of it during the post-act, when the guy they just "crushed" is mopping around all in sorrow. Don't give her that. Here's a few tips:

1) If you have a Facebook/Myspace/whatever and are friends with her, no matter what you do, do not put anything on there about the instance. Do not write a status that could even be connected to the situation lightly. If any of your friends post on your wall about the event, delete it. Also tell them not even to acknowledge her in real life.

2) Get a new girl. You don't even have to be looking for a serious relationship, just find a girl...preferrably one that is better looking than the bitch girl. Hell, you two could just be great friends. In a perfect world, you could fuck her friend. But this isn't a Hollywood movie; that kind of set-up will probably never happen. No offense to you, it's just not logical.

3) Do not talk to the bitch girl again. No texts, chats, or phone calls. Post-gratification is a big one for these girls, so don't give her any.

4) Try not to talk to any of your friends about what happened. If it gets around, she knows she got to you. Keep it closed in a tight circle of your closest friends. For instance, don't tell that one guy you hung out with twice through your roommate when you were all drunk.

It's all about post-gratification. Don't give her any, and it'll piss her the fuck off. When this happens, one of two things will probably occur: She'll try out the next guy (which is not likely), or she'll come back to you (very likely, since you denied her the post-gratification). This is the best part for you...seriously. Here's how one scenario of this will (probably) play out:

You'll be sitting around, and she'll text you. "Hey what's up?". Just give her a casual response, don't act mean or really pleased to hear from her (no smiley faces, lol's, haha's, or exclamation points). "Nothing, just doing HW". DO NOT ASK HER IN RETURN HOW SHE IS DOING. She may say "Oh cool...look I wanted to talk about what happened the other night." This is where you act like you can't remember what the fuck she is talking about. Just say something "Huh? What are you talking about?". She'll be forced to tell you what happened, and then she'll try and give some bullshit excuse about it. Just respond, "Oh, it's cool. Don't worry about it."

Show her that you just DON'T CARE. It'll piss her off to NO END. In a few days, she'll be trying to hang out again. Don't give in, and keep giving her casual responses (with a bit of bluntness to them).

I have done this many times to girls and it gets under their skin. I have not been treated as badly as you got treated, but I've had girls that like to mess with guys try and get to me. I started doing this, and it warped their minds. Seriously. A manipulator hates nothing more than having their own mind manipulated. Trust me on that.

(Notice how I referred to her as "girl" or "bitch girl" the whole time? That's because she is a little girl, not a woman. And we heterosexuals here at PE Gym want WOMEN!)
 
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OH MY GOD! What a fucking cunt! I'm sorry, I HATE using that word unless it's absolutely called for and what she did to you was above and beyond anything that just an ordinary bitch would do.

I guess my first question to you is how old is this girl? Second, did you at any point do ANYTHING you can think of that might've set her off? Third and most importantly, YOU need to find someway, somehow to properly pay her back. She caused you emotional pain, cost you money and all so she could get her sick, twisted kicks? No, fuck that. That's the kind of fucked up crap that gets people's cars keyed and their car windows bashed in..............and I've seen enough of Judge Judy to know that unless she can get actual PROOF that it was you, you'll get away with it.

I'm really sorry man, that's horrible and just sucks ass. I simply cannot believe that someone could do something so down right horrible to someone else. To play you like that? Think of it this way, she obviously has mental issues. Be grateful you didn't marry this woman.
 

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What a hoe, seriously. Thats just the height of fucking rudeness

But all this talk about revenge and that, whats the point. I've done the odd vengeful things in the past, and felt sh*t afterwards. But there isnt really any point. All your doing is risking getting a broken scull by the new guy she is fucking.

Best piece of advice I can give, let her life be her payback. It'll happen. And then when she fucks off the wrong irrational person, you can sit back and laugh, if you so desire.

No point breeding more hate in an already hate-filled world I say. Trust me if you do something bad to her, you will feel like sh*t after you do it. You will if your a good person anyway.
 
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Thanks for the responses guys. I'm actually feeling a lot better this morning, but still in a state of shock, depression, and moreso utter rage.

First of all, Tina, her friend - I wouldn't fuck her with a 15 ft. flag pole. She is gross and nothing I would even dream about spending time with.

Right now I'm really caught in between what RIB said and what MrBigDick said.

RIB, your advice is awesome. It sounds like you've had experience with girls fucking with you. I like your idea of playing it coy - being careless about it, the "whatever" attitude, because I know that would really get under her skin. Because I know that within days she is going to be contacting me.

But then again, I do want revenge. I'm not sure what I'll do, but I am trying to think of something. Even if ignoring the incident upsets her, I'd still like her to know that she cannot fuck with me without paying a huge price. Think Gator...THINK!

And KP - if I could somehow spike her sugar levels to cause emergency hospital admissions without getting in trouble for it - I FUCKING WOULD. I wouldn't want her to die, but I'd like to see her suffer for awhile.
 

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What a hoe, seriously. Thats just the height of fucking rudeness

But all this talk about revenge and that, whats the point. I've done the odd vengeful things in the past, and felt sh*t afterwards. But there isnt really any point. All your doing is risking getting a broken scull by the new guy she is fucking.

Best piece of advice I can give, let her life be her payback. It'll happen. And then when she fucks off the wrong irrational person, you can sit back and laugh, if you so desire.

No point breeding more hate in an already hate-filled world I say. Trust me if you do something bad to her, you will feel like sh*t after you do it. You will if your a good person anyway.

Yeah, I know. But it's SO hard rock. She deserves the worst right now. And I want to make sure she gets it. It's tough to think logically right now.
 

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.Right now I'm really caught in between what RIB said and what MrBigDick said.

RIB, your advice is awesome. It sounds like you've had experience with girls fucking with you. I like your idea of playing it coy - being careless about it, the "whatever" attitude, because I know that would really get under her skin. Because I know that within days she is going to be contacting me.

But then again, I do want revenge. I'm not sure what I'll do, but I am trying to think of something. Even if ignoring the incident upsets her, I'd still like her to know that she cannot fuck with me without paying a huge price. Think Gator...THINK!

Psychological warfare is sometimes much, much better than physical my friend :)

If you were, to say, break her car or something to that extent...oh man, whatever will she do? Call up daddy, get an insurance check, and within two weeks it's all fine. Maybe it stresses her for two, maybe three days tops.

But if you wait and mess with her mind, little by little...it eats away at her. It'll be gnawing at her through the back of her mind, and she'll begin to panic about it.

So what's better? The immediate stressor that burns out, or the one that progressively builds up until she snaps? I like the second one :D

Oh, and you can't get sued for messing with her mind hahaha
 

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Psychological warfare is sometimes much, much better than physical my friend :)

If you were, to say, break her car or something to that extent...oh man, whatever will she do? Call up daddy, get an insurance check, and within two weeks it's all fine. Maybe it stresses her for two, maybe three days tops.

But if you wait and mess with her mind, little by little...it eats away at her. It'll be gnawing at her through the back of her mind, and she'll begin to panic about it.

So what's better? The immediate stressor that burns out, or the one that progressively builds up until she snaps? I like the second one :D

Oh, and you can't get sued for messing with her mind hahaha

Good point. I just have so much hate in my heart right now from the pain. But I think I'm going to take your advice on this one. I want revenge so bad, but the more and more I think about it, the more pointless it becomes. Besides, given my luck, I'll do something, get caught, and get in trouble for it. Thanks RIB.
 

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Yeah, I know. But it's SO hard rock. She deserves the worst right now. And I want to make sure she gets it. It's tough to think logically right now.

Mate, I can absolutely guarantee I've been at the place you are now, many many times. Been dumped so many times, then married a wonderful chick.

Fuck this chick mate, revenge is very negative on your own mental health. Not good. You should be occupying your mind with thoughts of a not new chick that you can bang

If you are going to get revenge, DO NOT do something that is going to hurt her, we do not want to see you gone from this site where you are amongst pal's. RIB2211 gives good advice here

Do something subtle, I liked to think of non-life threatening paybacks, like ordering 2 tonnes of sand, and dumping 1 tonne at the back of her car and 1 tonne at the front. Sit back with a mate and a few beers and watch her shovel a tonne of sand so she can move her car!!!
or
-cigarette lighter in the muffler
-piss in her car air vent.
-piss in her rainwater tank
-piss on her cat
-piss on her dog
-banana in her tailpipe (whilst humming the theme of beverly hills cop)
-sign her mobile # up for every porn spam you can find

I have many more, but these are just the tip of the iceberg. Good harmless fun to be had. Especially if your drunk.
 

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Jesus Gator,that story is straight out of a movie. Karma will catch up to her .Until then be thankful youre through with her . The man who marry's this girl is sure to suffer much worse than you have.