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Caught in the PE challange My First contr. Thoughts. Sexual experience. Stats

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My First Contribution.

I recommend you go through the headlines at least before skipping it all (1 month research 10 hours typing 15 min’s reading) For PE experience, stats and sexual experience check last section.



So finally, I have decided to break the silence ... after spending hours on the web checking size matters related articles and comparing penis sizes in home-made porn to mine.


BIO:
I am in my mid 20's with relatively rich sexual experience throughout college, uni and work, perfectionist and ambitious SOB who kinda satisfied with logic and facts only.


Intro:
In the health club I rarely talk to anyone because am there just to grow my muscles not to socialize at all :D

Here however, since its virtual and since there are no personal trainers or a structured guide to growth (except for P90) and stamina it's crucial that we share our experiences and work somewhat collectively and I beseech you all in this journey to reflect on your past sexual experience 'with your female partners,, preferably' and your PE experience.


Fellas with small ones, support your fellas with similar sizes.

Fellas who gained, share your knowledge.

Fellas who are big, get a life and save us from your comments. Penis is one aspect of manhood. You may be beaten in other aspects of your manhood.





Thoughts:




1. penis size as an insecurity

let’s find a common ground that males' ambitions in salary, hot partners, fitness, social-life, skills, fancy rides can vary. Their insecurities vary as well (Baldness, not knowing directions and small packages)
However, evidently majority of males are/were/vulnerable to be insecure about penis size and sexual health at some stage at least some were insecure before checking out the study on human penis average size or before having sex. 45% of men are not satisfied about their shaft size and they go under the knife risking complications and paying 50,000 USD <link removed>




2. not yet 21? or still a virgin? switch to facebook

Your opinions don’t count
, cause you have year(s) to grow if you are less than 21 and if you had not have a sexual experience don’t get yourself in the argument of ‘females feeling full’ or ‘can I please a woman with my size?’, instead go find yourself a female and have an actual experience to grow.
You in fact should not be visiting this site at all, no offense.
As for PE stats, ages below 21 should not be taken into consideration as it is regarded as natural growth. Don’t waste your and our time, with all due respect breh.




3. dealing with that insecurity

Since this is an insecurity, it can cause depression and stress and impact social life and quality of life or even worst, prevents/slows shaft growth if you committed to PE, like any other organ stress does to.
Remember, this part of you is there for your pleasure and joy and is not meant for you to be stressed and anxious about. Whether you will go with PE or not, your package it’s the one and the only one you will have in this life, so you have to love it and take care of it whether it’s modest average or big. You are not your dick nor your dick is you, it’s an organ of yours.




4. the assumed role of the shaft in human physiology

Your penis is part of two systems intersecting in this piece of meat, view your dick as part of the digestive system ‘when flaccid’ and the reproductive system ‘when erect’. There is no need to beat the pity out of yourself every time you look at it when you pee or shower. Perception. When you go to the GYM there is a higher chance you see muscular fellas and when you go to burger king there is a high chance you see obese fellas, this is the reason they are there in the first place. So is the case when you watch porn or check out stats in the PE forums, this the reason why the models are in porn industry (being the top profile in penis world population) and other perquisites of the industry. So stop comparing yourself to porn, if you have been doing so.

Whichever super-natural power you believe in (God, mother nature or ZZ Top), you need to understand something: we human beings are made by that power in a such a way that the majority of males should be able to minimally satisfy and impregnate the majority of females, for our species to not go extinct– exceptions ruled out: size queens ‘population unknown’ and micro-penis (2.3⁄4 in) in length, affects 0.6% of population, <link removed>



5. ahh … females and sizes and their perception, heard an arse comment?

Females, they have no rigid sense of size
. I genuinely had only good and no negative comments from any of my 30+ sexual partners ‘maybe due to my height? 166 cm’, hence I have no motive to refute their adequacy of sense, however, females are just bad with estimation of sizes and their memories are easily impacted by emotions. The 3D test was soo useless because the females had to actually sit on the thing and then rate it, rather than look at it and make a statement https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4558040/. True, they could -as claimed in the study- remember smaller/bigger. But the main question in the world of penis size … how much bigger or smaller?


There is also the human relativity bias and god females are full of them, in short: Check Picture

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If you are somewhat tall and in the low spectrum average range you might hear an arse of a comment. With the same package on a shorter guy it might seem OKAY to the same exact girl and might even feel just about right!
Sex for females is highly an emotional act.
Don’t allow a woman or any creature for that matter to make you less of a man because of their twisted judgment abilities. Before you panic make sure you have the accurate facts, act like a male.
Please also bear in mind that whatever had been reported about length or girth satisfaction, girls rarely take the next step to measure their partners’ package or guys don’t necessarily measure and share. Mostly these reports are based on estimations, unless stated of course I take it as accurate, mostly.




6. Bad comment? be a man and walk away, let her find someone else

I came across lads here who keep saying ‘she says it’s small’ or ‘she asks is it in?’ and they turn their good normal penis sized life to a living hell. In my point of view under the ‘what would Robert Redford do?’, kick her out .. or leave if it wasn’t your apartment, for that matter. This is a toxic relation that could damage you, find someone your size. Penis discussion can bust males ego and deface body-image and ruin relations as it is one of the most primitive insecurities of the 20[SUP]th[/SUP] century in males.
The reason am stating this is because 85% of women reported satisfaction with their partner penis size in the biggest study ever made as of 2017

<link removed?>

So if your partner is in the 15% size queen monarch or big girls or with a loose vagina; suggest the non-penile orgasm techniques and if they still bitched about it, leave them.
However, if you are married or deeply in love consult an expert & explore your options and I really wish you a good luck.




7. Female orgasm: Vaginal, Clitoral and G-spot and penis size


a. Vaginal:

25-30% of females only, can experience a vaginal orgasm through penetrative sex only

I won’t stress long here despite that the NHS released this <link removed>
This takes me to the conclusion that size would matter as a contributor to a vaginal orgasm within the 30% female of the population, the ones capable of having that vaginal orgasm.


b. G-Spot

For guaranteed orgasm, the G-spot is your next destination and can be stimulated by certain sexual positions or fingering. And when it comes to penis size required to reach the G-spot, “It is typically reported to be located 5–8 cm (2–3 in) up the front (anterior) vaginal wall between the vaginal opening. <link removed>
It is actually the curve/sexual position that matters more in G-Spot stimulation, evidently by the curvature of the G-spot specialty toys, upward curve, all the way north. And a finger is much way more effective stimulating that point.


c. Clitoral (the only one proven to work with all females: require no dick ‘t all!)

As for the Prime Female Orgasm, the clitoris is the button for female clitoral orgasm, in the anthropological context it is the female counter part of the penis. Penis Envy, rings a bell? Penis size would indirectly stimulate it as reported, sorry no links. It is anyway outside the vaginal canal where the penis inserted.
In my POV, it seems that the super power (God, mother nature or ZZ top) made us in a such a way that the female should stimulate her own clitoris or actually direct your hand to it while you two having sex, at least 70-85% of the times (where she is not capable of vaginal orgasm without clitoral stimulation).


NOTICE*: The above section did not discuss climax, kissing, sweet/dirty talking for further female stimulation which are factors crucial to female orgasm(s). Google it.




8. What is average size and what is not? interpreting the 15,000+ men study and setting an average range SD

Ignore self reported studies they are bullshit. Medical staff measuring is the only ones I trust. The one between your hands from the British Urology Journal
Limitation of study that it did not incorporate those who refused to take the study,, thinking loud they were too small? Or suffering ED? Regardless.
The widely agreed on study of 15,000+ men sets the erect average Length @ 5.17” and Girth @ 4.59”.

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But hang on, this is the Mean (THE AVERAGE POINT).
So when can you consider yourself NORMAL? If you are within the average range of lowest and highest points where 67% of the population reside for G & L
Mean - SD =lowest average
Mean + SD = highest average.


(an average penis might indicate a larger brain btw.. anyway just kidding it certainly does. ok just kidding)

After doing the math:

Average rangeLow averageAverageHigh average
Length4.525.175.82
Girth4.164.595.02

Girth Stats (inch): If you measure up from 4.16 to 5.02 you are within the percentile of 15% to 82.5% of the population

Length Stat (inch): If you measure up from 4.52 to 5.82 you are within the percentile of 15% to 82% of population

Width average Stats ‘measuring penis from above’: 1.5” (unfortunately no access to data)




9. Penis Size Matters ……

After constructing that the g-spot is at 3.5” to 4” inches only and the vaginal orgasm merely exist (if it does to 30% of population only) and the clitoris is actually outside the vaginal canal where the penis penetrates, I am convinced that a 4X4 penis as an organ independent element in the sex scene can satisfy all girls sufficiently and provide a vaginal pleasure. (consider the population of China and India where seve)


And that all males big or small must do foreplay, back-hugging, oral, sweet/dirty talking, breast caressing, fingering, G-spot fingering, neck kissing and French kissing and stimulate the clitoris for a complete sexual experience and female satisfaction (not necessarily to an orgasm, preferably though).
However, a negative correlation exists between good penis size and effort required by male to achieve higher female satisfaction and G-spot stimulation in the context of sole intercourse act (and for ego matters as well) in the sex scene.


a. Girth: It is widely reported that as the girth increase, vaginal walls will be engaged and that create a ‘fullness’ sensation to the female.


However, given that according to the graph (in the 15000 men study) a rapid turn of increase is at (9.5 cm/3.7 inch) all the way to the rapid decline point of (14 cm/5.5 inch) encompass the majority of the population (disregard the average stated by the author for a minute) indicate that these sizes are made by nature to somewhat assure that the female will hold still for impregnation by feeling pleasure and a feeling of genuine interest in her by the male. Other-wise we would have not been here discussing penis sizes over the internet. So for the guys above 5.5” in G, get a life or give us your experiences. Please note that oral for your partner might not be enjoyable past 5.5”. Porn is not real life, those girls are paid and trained.




b. Length: Matters second in priority, but important. For most, it allows a longer sensation of the girth for both partners ‘per stroke: in and out’ across the canal and entrance and unlock several positions : )

Logically, you would want her to feel at least small/average girth in her upper side rather than delivering nothing at all up there.
Some females been reported to enjoy the cervix being engaged which required penises of 7”+ as per my readings.

Again, analyzing the chart, rapid increase turn point is at (9.75 cm/3.8 inch) and declining at (16.5 cm/6.5 inch). Which implies that in nature no cervix touching was kind of meant to be, at least not majorly.

So, for the guys at 6.5”+, get a life and give share your experience with us. Bear in mind that there are little nerve endings above 4 inches, hence why females struggle to achieve vaginal orgasm filing them beyond 4” is commendable however not the best contribution towards her satisfaction.



c. Width as reported from experiences, allows the female to feel somewhat ‘stretched’ and her muscles at the ring of the vagina and entrance being pushed against (apologies no links).



Final thoughts:

- Bear in mind the females are probably way more insecure about, skin, ass, breast size, vaginal odor, beauty and marks than you think. Some are also insecure about tightness and looseness. As there is little info on vaginal sizes and little research done on their variations.

- Most dildos are cylinder-shaped 1.5 inch width 4.5” girth, curved upwards (corroborates with avg size)

- A finger(s) can make a girl cum squirt when used properly LEARN HOW TO

- Ignore size queens and focus on a PE and a partner that will support you

- Open up with your partner about your insecurity before you get a comment, if she cares she will stop commenting and enjoy you in non-penile techniques as well as penile ones. If she doesn’t she is not worth. If you stress about her, you are acting like a child.

- Realize your potential if you are small, Do not brag if you are average, Be humble if you are big

- According to the stats here, you have a good chance of increasing your size substantially

- Men with Prostate Cancer, ED and Premature would trade their dicks with your average or small to just ENJOY sex normally. No one is round perfect at anything at all.

- Experience with protection, eat/sleep well, exercise safely focus on stamina and duration as well

- Don’t compare yourself with others, compare yourself within its context. Ask yourself, how much I have gained?







My stats:

My height 166.5 cm

Not bone stressed EL: 5.6”

EG: 4.62” (Gain 0.125 inch – 3 mm in 3 weeks – crossed the fucking average point !!)

Width: 1.5”

PE impact: Fuller head when erected (started to glow actually) and plenty of green big veins and small purple ones






Highlight of sexual experience at L:5.6” and G:4.5”


This is not to brag, this is only to share different aspects and package potential*
- Made 2 European prostitute cum (felt contraction and shake) without touching their clitorises, vaginal orgasm I assume

- Made my Asian GF cum twice in a row in a long session of two rounds, pussy was not Asian tight, was more like any other non-Asian. Totally she came thrice that day.

- Made my GF spill white female liquid half the way to her knees by penetration

- Heard ‘without asking’ about penis size: “he had a small one, you, however don’t have to worry about your dick” with a content-full smile

- Failed to enjoy a v tight Asian pussy once, borderline pain when pulling head.

- Heard girls commend my warmness in bed and gentleness in insertion ‘not causing your partner any pain and kissing a lot r good ideas’

- I am attracted to petite and short girls generally. With shoulder width smaller than mine and same height girls. Taller girls are a turn off for me (maybe something I can accommodate well with my package?)

- Capable of having 4+ session per day (I believe this is vital, girls can build up even with a small penis to an orgasm, with many rounds)

- GF opened eye wide when saw it for first time stating: ‘Kinda big for me’

- Once I asked a friend euro prostitute of mine (1.5 years of service), from her working and personal experience in the middle-east and Europe what does she think of my size honestly? She told me straight forward you don’t have a small dick (I believe my short height plays a good role on this)

- An Indian vagina once of a petite girl was slightly tight

- A euro vagina once of a short full girl was once a bit tight

- Girl rejected a backdoor (anal) suggestion on claims I was bigger, though before seeing it she agreed

- I only felt my penis lost in a girl when I did not have at least an 80%+ erection (If you check out the porn sites, you will see that some penises lacks firmness despite their dramatic sizes, and I can assure you, girls will sense firmness as it evolutionary implies health)




All the way north to the G-Spot !!
 
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Welcome girth size. Nice to have you here. I would suggest you check out the start here tab at the top of the page. There is a ton of info hidden in there. Also, I suggest you start your own progress log.

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Welcome girth size. Nice to have you here. I would suggest you check out the start here tab at the top of the page. There is a ton of info hidden in there. Also, I suggest you start your own progress log.

See you around.

Welcome, I agree, don't forget to check out the beginners section with it's choice of beginners routines.
 

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I know you spent a lot of time putting this post together. If you could change your links to directing members to other sites without giving direct links, there would be no issue. Here is one of the guidelines for posts.

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Intereating to read.
 

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Welcome to the forum- and thanks for the detailed intro!

RE: your comment about trainers: There is a coaching service available via our MeCoach site. There's also plenty of members here who'll be happy to assist you towards your goals :)
 

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Well, here I go again! Cyberstalking Big Al!

Welcome to the forum. Very interesting read and perspective. Love the honesty and the "balls to the wall" attitude. I agree with the "girth being most important" stat and that the actual width being the most important part of girth. It really does give a woman that "filled-up" feeling.

I might have missed it...what are your actual goals here in PE?
 

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This post was incredible.. I can only imagine how much this will help people when they're needing reassurance when they're feeling super insecure.

Thank you for posting all this!