Hi all - been lurking for a bit more than a year now, finally decided to try and get serious!
Background: married for 10+ years, several kids. Wife is def a LL, has been for some years now, and I am most definitely an HL - even more so over the past 12 months (fixed some meds, started regular workouts). Hamster in my head started spinning and wondering if it was something about *me* that was causing her to be LL (maybe just with me..? *gasp*), internet research/panic commenced, and that's how I stumbled on this site. Anyway, past all of that now, but I'm still interested in better penis health overall and in whatever gains I can achieve.
So, about jwsouth jr: I'm 5.5" BPEL and 4.5" MEG. Length I can live with (but hey, any more would be awesome), but I would really love another 0.5" of girth. Pretty fit overall (155-ish, ~18% BF) and working on getting leaner.
Been a regular porn consumer for a long time, so I'm trying to cut that completely out for all the reasons that have been much discussed on these forums and elsewhere. Related: trying to better regulate my masturbation - and hopefully replace it with more frequent sex!
The biggest wrinkle: my wife isn't really on board with PE. She claims to be satisfied with my dimensions as they are - and while I believe that's mostly true, a few fun experiences with Viagra have demonstrated that she REALLY enjoyed even the *extremely slight* gains I got from the magic sex pills. So, I think this is a simple case of her being truthful in that she's not *dissatisfied* with my size, but then again a little bit bigger would be pretty awesome too Still, the bottom line is she's not really a fan or on board with PE, so that's an ongoing challenge.
Given that constraint, it's pretty tough to stick to any of the recommended beginner programs. Tried JP90 for a week, but given the hectic schedule and virtual impossibility of getting an uninterrupted hour with my penis in my hand and it not seeming weird, it was pretty hard to stay on schedule.
So, that's me. Still trying to figure out the best way to navigate the no-support issues with her, while trying to figure out a routine for either eventuality (either she's on board or not). Thoughts, feedback, suggestions are all welcome!
-JW
Background: married for 10+ years, several kids. Wife is def a LL, has been for some years now, and I am most definitely an HL - even more so over the past 12 months (fixed some meds, started regular workouts). Hamster in my head started spinning and wondering if it was something about *me* that was causing her to be LL (maybe just with me..? *gasp*), internet research/panic commenced, and that's how I stumbled on this site. Anyway, past all of that now, but I'm still interested in better penis health overall and in whatever gains I can achieve.
So, about jwsouth jr: I'm 5.5" BPEL and 4.5" MEG. Length I can live with (but hey, any more would be awesome), but I would really love another 0.5" of girth. Pretty fit overall (155-ish, ~18% BF) and working on getting leaner.
Been a regular porn consumer for a long time, so I'm trying to cut that completely out for all the reasons that have been much discussed on these forums and elsewhere. Related: trying to better regulate my masturbation - and hopefully replace it with more frequent sex!
The biggest wrinkle: my wife isn't really on board with PE. She claims to be satisfied with my dimensions as they are - and while I believe that's mostly true, a few fun experiences with Viagra have demonstrated that she REALLY enjoyed even the *extremely slight* gains I got from the magic sex pills. So, I think this is a simple case of her being truthful in that she's not *dissatisfied* with my size, but then again a little bit bigger would be pretty awesome too Still, the bottom line is she's not really a fan or on board with PE, so that's an ongoing challenge.
Given that constraint, it's pretty tough to stick to any of the recommended beginner programs. Tried JP90 for a week, but given the hectic schedule and virtual impossibility of getting an uninterrupted hour with my penis in my hand and it not seeming weird, it was pretty hard to stay on schedule.
So, that's me. Still trying to figure out the best way to navigate the no-support issues with her, while trying to figure out a routine for either eventuality (either she's on board or not). Thoughts, feedback, suggestions are all welcome!
-JW