So I recently started using my flesh-light again and it just doesn't feel as good as I imagined it to be. I really believe circumcision has screwed up my penis, the penis head should be way more sensitive than this. When I ejaculate, I can feel semen shooting out but there's no real pleasure. If my foreskin was still intact, the rolling sensation over the glans during ejaculation would have provided me with more pleasure. Moreover, the fleshlight (or the vagina walls in sex) can't squeeze me as tightly because of my smaller girth. Therefore, a foreskin would have also helped in this regard seeing as it rolls over the glans. On top of that, the glans would be more sensitive as it wouldn't have been exposed to friction throughout the years.
As of right now, I'm trying to give up regular masturbation and I'm opting for the flesh-light only. I'm trying to adjust myself to lowering the vaccum (the flesh-light has a cork-screw which you can tighten if you wish to increase vaccum). Also, I'm currently using the phallosan extender so that might also have a negative impact on my sensitivty, specifically on the glans. But I still believe it's largely due to circumcision.
If I were to describe how it feels inside the flesh light, there's no real sense of escalation of pleasure. I just sort of use it until I ejaculate, and once I ejaculate I can barely move my penis. Because if I do move my penis, I experience a sort of numbing pain. Yes, "numbing pain" is the best way I could describe it. It's like I'm ejaculating but there's a numbness to it. So I just stay still and shoot, but it doesn't feel very good.
During a future sexual encounter, it might give me satisfaction to see a (future) partner enjoy herself during the act, which in turn would give me more pleasure. But I'm still afraid that when it comes to the penetrative act, it will not feel special. I might even ask myself, "Is this it? Am I really inside her?".
This is why I'm a big advocate against circumcision. Don't mess up with nature, the foreskin is there for a reason! Anyway, I hope my penis eventually adjust to the flesh-light and I begin to find it more pleasurable. Finally, I might be underestimating the effect that the Phallosan is having on my sensitivity.
As of right now, I'm trying to give up regular masturbation and I'm opting for the flesh-light only. I'm trying to adjust myself to lowering the vaccum (the flesh-light has a cork-screw which you can tighten if you wish to increase vaccum). Also, I'm currently using the phallosan extender so that might also have a negative impact on my sensitivty, specifically on the glans. But I still believe it's largely due to circumcision.
If I were to describe how it feels inside the flesh light, there's no real sense of escalation of pleasure. I just sort of use it until I ejaculate, and once I ejaculate I can barely move my penis. Because if I do move my penis, I experience a sort of numbing pain. Yes, "numbing pain" is the best way I could describe it. It's like I'm ejaculating but there's a numbness to it. So I just stay still and shoot, but it doesn't feel very good.
During a future sexual encounter, it might give me satisfaction to see a (future) partner enjoy herself during the act, which in turn would give me more pleasure. But I'm still afraid that when it comes to the penetrative act, it will not feel special. I might even ask myself, "Is this it? Am I really inside her?".
This is why I'm a big advocate against circumcision. Don't mess up with nature, the foreskin is there for a reason! Anyway, I hope my penis eventually adjust to the flesh-light and I begin to find it more pleasurable. Finally, I might be underestimating the effect that the Phallosan is having on my sensitivity.
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