How I Stopped My Masturbation and Porn Addiction - My Story

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Hey guys, it's been more than 1 year since I got time to get back to this awesome forum.

However this is a special occasion for me to get on board again. I can say: I Stopped My porn Addiction for Good!

It's been a bumpy road sometimes, but it was well worthed.

I remember all the threads talking about how masturbation while watching porn, can hinder gains and erection. Boy they where right!

I am so excited about getting over the addiction, that I felt like sharing my story with others. So 2 days ago I took 3 hours of my time to write my story and to publish it on a website. The result is Porn Addiction End | liberate your life

I feel like I should inspire others who want to overcome their addiction.

I will try my best to answer any questions you have.
 
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great man this is amazing !
how often you have been masturbating ?
 

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Congratulations ad thanks for sharing your story.
 

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Hey guys, it's been more than 1 year since I got time to get back to this awesome forum.

However this is a special occasion for me to get on board again. I can say: I Stopped My porn Addiction for Good!

It's been a bumpy road sometimes, but it was well worthed.

I remember all the threads talking about how masturbation while watching porn, can hinder gains and erection. Boy they where right!

I am so excited about getting over the addiction, that I felt like sharing my story with others. So 2 days ago I took 3 hours of my time to write my story and to publish it on a website. The result is Porn Addiction End | liberate your life

I feel like I should inspire others who want to overcome their addiction.

I will try my best to answer any questions you have.
Thanks for sharing. I too have recently gone through this transition. Only problem was the guilt I had for doing this to my wife (porn/masturbation) for many, many years but she's a totally freaking awesome woman and rewarded me with a far more passionate relationship than we have ever had. now the thought of relapse churns my stomach
 

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GOOD JOB BRO,
did you workout your penis, edge or have sex during this year?
 

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great man this is amazing !
how often you have been masturbating ?
I had been doing it even daily. However the last few years, before I stopped, I was doing it a few times per week. And each time I would go for hours. I just couldn't stop after 'only' 1 hour. I would go for 5-7 hours. Talking breaks only if the phone would rang or I would go to drink water or eat. The thing is I was after the intense feelings (similar to ballooning/edging) that would go on and on, and for the intense orgasms. However the sensitivity decreased over the years, and I couldn't get the same intensity out of it, but I would keep doing it.. like a robot.. hoping that the intensity would increase somehow..

Congratulations ad thanks for sharing your story.
Thanks
 

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Thanks for sharing. I too have recently gone through this transition. Only problem was the guilt I had for doing this to my wife (porn/masturbation) for many, many years but she's a totally freaking awesome woman and rewarded me with a far more passionate relationship than we have ever had. now the thought of relapse churns my stomach
Congrats on stopping, but more important Congrats that you got a freaking awesome women. ;)

GOOD JOB BRO,
did you workout your penis, edge or have sex during this year?
I've done PE few years ago.
Since I stopped the addiction (one year ago) I had (and will continue to have) sex.
 

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I had been doing it even daily. However the last few years, before I stopped, I was doing it a few times per week. And each time I would go for hours. I just couldn't stop after 'only' 1 hour. I would go for 5-7 hours. Talking breaks only if the phone would rang or I would go to drink water or eat. The thing is I was after the intense feelings (similar to ballooning/edging) that would go on and on, and for the intense orgasms. However the sensitivity decreased over the years, and I couldn't get the same intensity out of it, but I would keep doing it.. like a robot.. hoping that the intensity would increase somehow..

Has your sensitivity returned since you started abstaining? Similar thing happened to me, I would masturbate for at least an hour a time and then I noticed that my penis didn't feel as good as it used to. I can still ejaculate after 5 minutes if I wanted to, but the sensation just isn't as great any more.
 

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I have a question.. What consequences did you see from that much porn? In terms of possible ED, Prem Ej, etc.
 

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Has your sensitivity returned since you started abstaining? Similar thing happened to me, I would masturbate for at least an hour a time and then I noticed that my penis didn't feel as good as it used to. I can still ejaculate after 5 minutes if I wanted to, but the sensation just isn't as great any more.
Yes. Slowly the sensitivity got back.
Every time I would feel my sensitivity got better, I enjoy my decision to stop masturbation with porn even more.

I have a question.. What consequences did you see from that much porn? In terms of possible ED, Prem Ej, etc.
After the sensitivity started to decrease there were signs of ED. I used to be able to get a new erection in a few minutes after ejaculation. Slowly this wasn't possible anymore. When it got worse was when I had to wait for days, to have a 'limp' erection. And even then I could feel a discomfort while trying to masturbate.
The premature ejaculation became a problem while having sex. Even though my erection was at 50-70% I would ejaculate in a few minutes during sex. But when I would masturbate it became harder to ejaculate.
 

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Great post! Thank you for the inspiration!
 

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Hey guys, it's been more than 1 year since I got time to get back to this awesome forum.

However this is a special occasion for me to get on board again. I can say: I Stopped My porn Addiction for Good!

It's been a bumpy road sometimes, but it was well worthed.

I remember all the threads talking about how masturbation while watching porn, can hinder gains and erection. Boy they where right!

I am so excited about getting over the addiction, that I felt like sharing my story with others. So 2 days ago I took 3 hours of my time to write my story and to publish it on a website. The result is Porn Addiction End | liberate your life

I feel like I should inspire others who want to overcome their addiction.

I will try my best to answer any questions you have.

Thank you for this. I am inspired by what you have gone thru and your decision to turn your life around. I once smoked, and tried time after time to quit,,,,almost always unsuccessful. Of course the final time I was successful, but I had help from the Flu.

As not to hijack your post,,,,I just wanna say again that your words are inspiring even for those not following the path that you did. Thank you and a good life to you!!
 

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Great post! Thank you for the inspiration!
Thanks for your words.

Thanks for the inspiration! I'm hoping to get back here after a month and say the same thing.
Kicking it one day at a time :training1:
Looking forward for your success story.

Thank you for this. I am inspired by what you have gone thru and your decision to turn your life around. I once smoked, and tried time after time to quit,,,,almost always unsuccessful. Of course the final time I was successful, but I had help from the Flu.

As not to hijack your post,,,,I just wanna say again that your words are inspiring even for those not following the path that you did. Thank you and a good life to you!!
Great to hear that is inspiring others with other paths.
Thanks and you have a good life as well.
 

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so did u stop it step by step by reducing the number of times you masturbated in a day/week? or did u simply go cold turkey?
The process of stopping the addiction won't work that way. Look at people trying to quit cigars by reducing the number of packs/cigars per day. It's just not effective.
I had a few times that I got back to it, until one time I simply new it's the end of it. For the entire story of how I stopped the porn addiction you can visit this page: pornaddictionend.com You will find exactly what it helped me to let it go for good.
 

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Ya, i actually got to your site right after asking that question...

One more question, during this process of killing your addiction, we're you in a relationship? or how soon after you decided to stop did you have sex and did it affect your quitting, negatively or positively?
 

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Ya, i actually got to your site right after asking that question...

One more question, during this process of killing your addiction, we're you in a relationship? or how soon after you decided to stop did you have sex and did it affect your quitting, negatively or positively?

Yes I was in a relationship.
I had sex before, during and after. Regaining the wonderful pleasure that sex can give, was a bit of a challenge. But this was the easiest part and the enjoyment of having sex is still increases beyond anything that was before.
I think that having a partner, a sex life and having people around you, are a big help no matter where you at. I think we as humans need to interact with other people (in our family, in couple, at work, with friends, etc). This is something that will help us gain stability much easier.