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So for a few weeks now I have been researching issues I am having with ED and I came across several blogs that talk about how extenders have improved erection quality, so I started researching extenders and found this website.
A little background on me:
I'm 51, 6'-4" tall and bit overweight (working on losing weight, goal is to lose 60-70 lbs). My wife and I will soon be empty nesters and we have really started to 'reconnect' with each other over the last several months...including reconnecting intimately (you married guys with young kids know what I mean). Although my desire and drive are still like they were when I was young, my body isn't as cooperative. During intimacy I can achieve an erection but I lose it after only a few minutes. I still wake up with the morning wood almost every morning but I have noticed erection quality (EQ) is slightly diminished. I know age and weight are factors with my ED but the blow to my self confidence is HUGE and I think that is only compounding the issue. I have read that PE can significantly help with EQ so I want to incorporate that in with losing weight to help with my ED. I am highly motivated because I want this phase of our marriage to be the best it's ever been (including intimacy).
So I guess this is the part where I talk about my 'junk'. With a good erection I am 6" long with a 5.1" girth. I am what I think is referred to as a 'grower' and not a 'hanger', so with my 6'-4" frame I feel like I am disproportionately small when erect and I have the 'turtle' syndrome when flaccid...which I have always been very self conscious about but have learned to live with.
So here are my goals: Better EQ, increased duration, increased length (I'd love to get to 8") and (less importantly) some increased hang. I am happy with my girth, so I'm not looking for any significant gains there.
Because we have very busy lives, making the time for a manual PE routine would be impossible for me to commit to. I do, however, work from home at my computer, so an extender seems to be the logical choice for me as I can have it on while I am working and my goal is for length and not girth.
So after a couple of days research I have settled on the Quick Extender Pro Deluxe package with the 4000g springs, and with any luck it'll be here in a week.
After reading through a number of threads I have to say it seems to be a great bunch of guys on this site and many are supportive and willing to help out and encourage members. So with that in mind i'd like to ask a few question...I'm sure these have probably been answered elsewhere, but it's hard trying to sift through all of the information. So if it's ok, I would ask that you humor a newbie.
When using an extender, how permanent are the gains? I have read in numerous places about 'cementing' or 'locking in' the gains but I *think* that may be gains achieved from manual PE?
If/when I achieve my ultimate goal of 8", is regular maintenance required to keep my gains?
So that's it for now, I will post an update when my QEP arrives!
-cheers!
**EDIT**
I figure it's best to keep my weekly progress updated in this post
Week 1 (Jan 29, 2021)
A little background on me:
I'm 51, 6'-4" tall and bit overweight (working on losing weight, goal is to lose 60-70 lbs). My wife and I will soon be empty nesters and we have really started to 'reconnect' with each other over the last several months...including reconnecting intimately (you married guys with young kids know what I mean). Although my desire and drive are still like they were when I was young, my body isn't as cooperative. During intimacy I can achieve an erection but I lose it after only a few minutes. I still wake up with the morning wood almost every morning but I have noticed erection quality (EQ) is slightly diminished. I know age and weight are factors with my ED but the blow to my self confidence is HUGE and I think that is only compounding the issue. I have read that PE can significantly help with EQ so I want to incorporate that in with losing weight to help with my ED. I am highly motivated because I want this phase of our marriage to be the best it's ever been (including intimacy).
So I guess this is the part where I talk about my 'junk'. With a good erection I am 6" long with a 5.1" girth. I am what I think is referred to as a 'grower' and not a 'hanger', so with my 6'-4" frame I feel like I am disproportionately small when erect and I have the 'turtle' syndrome when flaccid...which I have always been very self conscious about but have learned to live with.
So here are my goals: Better EQ, increased duration, increased length (I'd love to get to 8") and (less importantly) some increased hang. I am happy with my girth, so I'm not looking for any significant gains there.
Because we have very busy lives, making the time for a manual PE routine would be impossible for me to commit to. I do, however, work from home at my computer, so an extender seems to be the logical choice for me as I can have it on while I am working and my goal is for length and not girth.
So after a couple of days research I have settled on the Quick Extender Pro Deluxe package with the 4000g springs, and with any luck it'll be here in a week.
After reading through a number of threads I have to say it seems to be a great bunch of guys on this site and many are supportive and willing to help out and encourage members. So with that in mind i'd like to ask a few question...I'm sure these have probably been answered elsewhere, but it's hard trying to sift through all of the information. So if it's ok, I would ask that you humor a newbie.
When using an extender, how permanent are the gains? I have read in numerous places about 'cementing' or 'locking in' the gains but I *think* that may be gains achieved from manual PE?
If/when I achieve my ultimate goal of 8", is regular maintenance required to keep my gains?
So that's it for now, I will post an update when my QEP arrives!
-cheers!
**EDIT**
I figure it's best to keep my weekly progress updated in this post
Week 1 (Jan 29, 2021)
- Friday: 3h
- Saturday: 3h
- Sunday: 3h
- Monday: 3h
- Tuesday: 3h
- Wednesday: 6hr - added .5cm rod
- Thursday: 0hr
- Friday: 3h
- Saturday: 0hr
- Sunday: 2.5h
- Monday: 6h
- Tuesday: 6h
- Wednesday: 5hr
- Thursday: 5.5hr
- Friday: 6h - added .5cm rod
- Saturday: 3.25hr
- Sunday: 4hr
- Monday: 8h
- Tuesday: 4.5h
- Wednesday: 8hr
- Thursday: 6hr
- Friday: 6h - added .5cm rod
- Saturday: 2.5hr
- Sunday: 3hr
- Monday: 8.5h
- Tuesday: 8h
- Wednesday: 4.5hr
- Thursday: 6.75hr
- Friday: 6h
- Saturday: 1hr
- Sunday: 2.5hr
- Monday: rest
- Tuesday: 6.5h
- Wednesday: 3hr
- Thursday: 1.5hr
- Friday: 5.5
- Saturday: 1.5hr
- Sunday: rest
- Monday: 6.5h
- Tuesday: 6.5h
- Wednesday: 3hr
- Thursday: 5hr
- Friday: out of town
- Saturday: out of town
- Sunday: out of town
- Monday: 5h
- Tuesday: 4h
- Wednesday: 2hr
- Thursday: 4hr
- Friday: 4hr
- Saturday: rest
- Sunday: 3hr - added .5cm rod
- Monday: 4h
- Tuesday: 5h
- Wednesday: rest
- Thursday: 3hr
- Friday: 3.75hr
- Saturday: 1.5hr
- Sunday: 1.5hr
- Monday: 1.5h
- Tuesday: 1.5h
- Wednesday: 2hr - strained fundiform ligament
- Thursday: rest
- Friday: rest
- Saturday: rest
- Sunday: rest
- Monday: rest
- Tuesday: rest
- Wednesday: rest
- Thursday: 1hr
- Friday: 1.75hr
- Saturday: 2hr
- Sunday: rest
- Monday: 1.75hr
- Tuesday: 2hr
- Wednesday: 2hr
- Thursday: rest
- Friday: rest
- Saturday: 2hr
- Sunday: 2hr
- Monday: 2hr
- Tuesday: 2hr
- Wednesday: 3hr
- Thursday: 4hr
- Friday: rest
- Saturday: rest
- Sunday: rest
- Monday: rest
- Tuesday: 1hr
- Wednesday: 1.5hr
- Thursday: 2hr
- Friday: 5.5hr
- Saturday: 1.5hr
- Sunday: rest
- Monday: 1hr
- Tuesday: 3.75hr
- Wednesday: 1.5hr
- Thursday: 1.5hr
- Friday: 1.5hr
- Saturday: 3hr
- Sunday: 1.75hr
- Monday: 3.5hr
- Tuesday: 1.5hr
- Wednesday: rest
- Thursday: 1.5hr
- Friday: 1.5hr
- Saturday: 1.5hr
- Sunday: 1.75hr
- Monday: 3hr
- Tuesday: 3.5hr
- Wednesday: 2.5hr
- Thursday: 3.5hr
- Friday: 1hr
- Saturday: rest
- Sunday: rest
- Monday: 4hr
- Tuesday: 3hr
- Wednesday: 1.5hr
- Thursday: 5hr
- Friday: 2.25hr added .5cm rod
- Saturday: 1.5hr
- Sunday: 1.5hr
- Monday: 1.5hr
- Tuesday: 3hr
- Wednesday: rest
- Thursday: 1.5hr
- Friday: 4hr
- Saturday: rest
- Sunday: rest
- Monday: rest
- Tuesday: 5hr
- Wednesday: 3hr
- Thursday: rest
- Friday: 4hr
- Saturday: rest
- Sunday: rest
- Monday: 2.75hr
- Tuesday: 1.5hr
- Wednesday: rest
- Thursday: 4hr
- Friday: 4.5hr
- Saturday: 1.75hr
- Sunday: 1.5hr
- Monday: 4hr
- Tuesday: 2.5hr
- Wednesday: 1hr
- Thursday: vacation
- Friday: vacation
- Saturday: vacation
- Sunday: vacation
- Monday: vacation
- Tuesday: vacation
- Wednesday: vacation
- Thursday: vacation
- Friday: vacation
- Saturday: vacation
- Sunday: vacation
- Monday: 2.5hrs
- Tuesday: 3.5hrs
- Wednesday: 4.75hrs
- Thursday: 4hrs
- Friday: 2.75hrs
- Saturday: rest
- Sunday: 1hr
- Monday: 4hrs
- Tuesday: 1.5hrs
- Wednesday: 4.5hrs
- Thursday: 4.5hrs
- Friday: rest
- Saturday: 3hrs
- Sunday: 1hr - added .5cm rod
- Monday: 3.5hrs
- Tuesday: 1.5hrs
- Wednesday: 5hrs
- Thursday: 3hrs
- Friday: rest
- Saturday: rest
- Sunday: rest
- Monday: 3hrs
- Tuesday: 1.5hrs
- Wednesday: 1.5hrs
- Thursday: 1.5hrs
- Friday: 1.5hrs
- Saturday: rest
- Sunday: rest
- Monday: 5hrs
- Tuesday: 4.5hrs
- Wednesday: 2.5hrs
- Thursday: 4hrs
- Friday: rest
- Saturday: rest
- Sunday: rest
- Monday: 5hrs
- Tuesday: travel
- Wednesday: travel
- Thursday: travel
- Friday: hospital
- Saturday: hospital
- Sunday: hospital
- Monday: hospital
- Tuesday: hospital
- Wednesday: hospital
- Thursday: recuperating
- Friday: recuperating
- Saturday: recuperating
- Sunday: recuperating
- Monday: rest
- Tuesday: 3hrs
- Wednesday: 1hr
- Thursday: 2hrs
- Friday: .75hrs
- Saturday: 2hrs
- Sunday: 1.5hrs
- Monday: 4.5hrs
- Tuesday: 3.75hrs
- Wednesday: 3hr
- Thursday: 3.5hrs
- Friday: 2.5hrs
- Saturday: rest
- Sunday: rest
- Monday: 3.5hrs
- Tuesday: 5.5hrs
- Wednesday: 4.5hr
- Thursday: 2.5hrs
- Friday: 3.5hrs
- Saturday: rest
- Sunday: rest
- Monday: 4.5hrs
- Tuesday: 1hr
- Wednesday: rest
- Thursday: rest
- Friday: rest
- Saturday: 1hr
- Sunday: 1hr
- Monday: 1hr
- Tuesday: 4.5hrs
- Wednesday: 3.5hrs
- Thursday: 3.5hrs
- Friday: rest
- Saturday: rest
- Sunday: 1hr
- Monday: 4.5hr
- Tuesday: 2hrs
- Wednesday: rest
- Thursday: 4.5hrs
- Friday: rest
- Saturday: rest
- Sunday: 1.5hr
- Monday: 2.5hr
- Tuesday: 2.5hrs
- Wednesday: 3hrs
- Thursday: rest
- Friday: rest
- Saturday: rest
- Sunday: rest
- Monday: 2hr
- Tuesday: rest
- Wednesday: 1.5hrs
- Thursday: rest
- Friday: rest
- Saturday: rest
- Sunday: rest
- Whole week off
- Whole week off
- Monday: 3hrs
- Tuesday: 3hrs
- Wednesday: 4.75hrs
- Thursday: 2hrs
- Friday: 2.5hrs
- Saturday: 2.75hrs
- Sunday: 1.5hrs
- Monday: 1.5hrs
- Tuesday: 4hrs
- Wednesday: 4hrs
- Thursday: 3.5hrs
- Friday: off
- Saturday: 1.5hrs
- Sunday: 2.5hrs
- Monday: 3hrs
- Tuesday: 4hrs
- Wednesday: 5hrs
- Thursday: 1hrs
- Friday: off
- Saturday: off
- Sunday: off
- Monday: 3hrs
- Tuesday: 3hrs
- Wednesday: 3.5hrs
- Thursday: 1.5hrs
- Friday: 1.5hrs
- Saturday: off
- Sunday: off
- Monday: off
- Tuesday: off
- Wednesday: off
- Thursday: off
- Friday: off
- Saturday: off
- Sunday: 1.5hrs
- Monday: 2.5hrs
- Tuesday: 4hrs
- Wednesday: 3.5hrs
- Thursday: 4hrs
- Friday: 1hr
- Saturday: off
- Sunday: 1.5hrs
- Monday: 3hrs
- Tuesday: 4.5hrs
- Wednesday: 1.5hrs
- Thursday: 1.5hrs
- Friday: 3hrs
- Saturday: 3hrs
- Sunday: off
- Monday: 2hrs
- Tuesday: off
- Wednesday: 4.5hrs
- Thursday: 4.5hrs
- Friday: 3hrs
- Saturday: 3.5hrs - Merry Christmas!
- Sunday: off
- Monday: off
- Tuesday: 2.5hrs
- Wednesday: 1.5hrs
- Thursday: 3hrs
- Friday: 1.5hrs
- Saturday: off
- Sunday: off
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