Grow your self esteem rather than your dick.

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I used to be a frequent poster on this forum and my log was one of the most read. I wanted to post this to everybody posting in my log and sending me PMs but I think that everybody should take this in consideration.

Work on your self esteem rather than your dick. I can't believe that I was that shallow that I wanted a even bigger dick, beyond average.
If a woman dumps you because of your average dick, what kind of women is that?

I think that a majority of the average-sized PEers are really insecure, I don't blame you since I was (maybe still am?) one of you.
Your self esteem can't rely on your dick. Rely it on your personality.
I'm relaying my self esteem on my personality, intelligence, education and humor. Not my dick, anymore.

It took me years to understand this.
But I'm pretty sure that some of you in the future will understand what I mean, even if you think that this post is stupid when you read it now.

PS. I think it's perfectly normal to get a more "healthy" dick.
 
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So what was your starting/ending/current size stats?
 

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So what was your starting/ending/current size stats?
I see where you are heading at..
I started at 6.5"x6 and gained 0.5" in length (that I've probably lost).
Still, I do not, ever, think about my dick as a strength (or weakness). I rarely think about my dick anymore.
 

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There is quite a bit of truth behind what you say, as I see this quite often here. Often times fellas come on here with average to WELL above average stats, and they seem to be VERY low on the self-esteem aspect of life, and their self image. Their penis is more or less an extension of a much larger and more serious issue. A low self image, and lack of confidence, overall.

I do think that in many cases this can be remedied just by really focusing on doing what makes us happy more often, and working on overall feeling and looking better. Exercise and diet play a key role in not only making us look better physically, but improving our well being and sense of self. The PE at that point is merely an additional self-improvement tool and sort of just a fun hobby, rather than an 'end-all' hope of bringing up low self-esteem.
 

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true words said.
but in the end, a great personality, along with a huge cock, shits on a great personality with a little dick.
my self esteem would be through the roof if my dick was 12 inches.
knowing that you're almost twice the size of every guy in the room is priceless.
i'd never stop smiling, even after getting rejected while picking up girls.
they could never use the "thats why you have a small dick" line against you.
 

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Might want to get control of that ego, or it can keep popping out where you least expect it.
 

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true words said.
but in the end, a great personality, along with a huge cock, shits on a great personality with a little dick.
my self esteem would be through the roof if my dick was 12 inches.
knowing that you're almost twice the size of every guy in the room is priceless.
i'd never stop smiling, even after getting rejected while picking up girls.
they could never use the "thats why you have a small dick" line against you.

In my opinion, a good, confident, loving and caring man wins regardless of his penis's size.

Confidence matters, not size, technique matter not size, in fact, a huge penis is very uncomfortable and requires special care an knowledge to use it.

The mind is our biggest sex organ, stimulate her mind.

A huge ego could be a downfall, you may want to enlarge your penis, and that is good, but don't take it as a competition.
 
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true words said.
but in the end, a great personality, along with a huge cock, shits on a great personality with a little dick.
my self esteem would be through the roof if my dick was 12 inches.
knowing that you're almost twice the size of every guy in the room is priceless.
i'd never stop smiling, even after getting rejected while picking up girls.
they could never use the "thats why you have a small dick" line against you.

Are you joking or are you just a very sad person?
Your self esteem seems to be none, women are generally less attracted to guys with no self esteem.

And no, a big dick makes you a dick. Not a person with self esteem.
 

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Wow G great to see you back, especially with such words of wisdom. Try sticking around bit longer. Oh and don't worry about that 12 inch guy;he's young, what can you expect!
 

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Are you joking or are you just a very sad person?
Your self esteem seems to be none, women are generally less attracted to guys with no self esteem.

And no, a big dick makes you a dick. Not a person with self esteem.

no jokes here bro. im serious.
i actually am a sad person, but in public i act as though im a boss and have high self esteem.
girls are attracted to me frequently, but im not happy with myself just yet.

quick question though, would you rather have a 6 inch penis, or 12 inch dick??
 

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no jokes here bro. im serious.
i actually am a sad person, but in public i act as though im a boss and have high self esteem.
girls are attracted to me frequently, but im not happy with myself just yet.

quick question though, would you rather have a 6 inch penis, or 12 inch dick??

It is a state of mind, be positive, accept yourself the way you are, there is nothing worng about having an average or below average penis, many men are in that category and are very happy, have great and loving partners and have high confidence and self esteem. And there are others, who feel bad about themselves, even though they have huge penises, I am not saying don't PE, just do it for the right reason, but most importantly, don't base your confidence on the size of your penis.

Your penis is a part of you, not the other way around.

A bigger penis will not make you happy, only you can.
 

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I'll take the 12 inch dick; seems that there are a lot of farm animals looking for sex! As for women, nah they'll take 6 with a nice guy!
 

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I'll take the 12 inch dick; seems that there are a lot of farm animals looking for sex! As for women, nah they'll take 6 with a nice guy!

being introduced into porn at an early age, at some point in time i came across beastiality porn.
women love the horse dicks, so the farm animals aint the only ones that like big dicks.

Where exactly do you plan on placing a "12 inch dick"? :bad:

if anything, women can do more sucking and hand movements on the dick during oral sex, and most get excited by the sheer size.
i dont mind not being able to fully penetrate, i just want to be "the guy with the huge dick" that she tells here friends about.
lets be honest guys, when women talk about dicks with their female friends, they're not bragging about the nice guy.
 

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Oh it is just deceptive gains, it will go back down to its regular size in a while. Too much pumping and edema :D

Woah, Mebs. Your avatar has grown! What's your av's routine, if you don't mind my asking.
 

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1) women would rather talk about shopping, curtains, and Gucci bags then your dick. Dick talk is way down the list and only when they're drunk.

2) Porn movies are just that, movies. I watched Bruce Willis the other night kill 57 people in Moscow with a gun that only had 10 shots. Is it real? Well if you believe that The Wizard of Oz is a documentary of someone's life than I guess it is. Just be a nice guy who's kind and caring and they could care less.
 

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Basing your views on what you watched in porn (especially this particular genre) is not healthy.

I suggest using a better language/reference for discussion in the future, if you may, we show proper respect to the ladies here.

Please check out the links about porn that I posted on your thread, and it is my recommendation that you quit watching it, and broaden your perspective beyond what you watched in porn before.

Real life is so different in so many ways.


being introduced into porn at an early age, at some point in time i came across beastiality porn.
women love the horse dicks, so the farm animals aint the only ones that like big dicks.



if anything, women can do more sucking and hand movements on the dick during oral sex, and most get excited by the sheer size.
i dont mind not being able to fully penetrate, i just want to be "the guy with the huge dick" that she tells here friends about.
lets be honest guys, when women talk about dicks with their female friends, they're not bragging about the nice guy.
 

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If you literally don't even care if you can penetrate, you have a serious problem. You zre very confusee about why women even value a penis of any dimension.
 
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