Help! Trouble Ejaculating

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I can't do it.
I've just had sex with the most beautiful girl I've ever been with. Every position, every speed, everything and I couldn't get my nut. We had sex 5 times in the last 24 hours, I even took the condom off and I still couldn't cum.

What do I do? It's not just with her, the last girl I had sex with I didn't cum either.

I used to masturbate a whole lot, and even though i've cut down recently (somewhat), I still can't nut.
 

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Can you bust by yourself?
 

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Can you cum by masterbating? Have you lost any normal sensation in your penis? It might be mental
 

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Wow, did you really almost gain 2 inches? What has been your routine?
 

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Look up Delayed Ejaculation, or DE. May fit your situation, read about it to find out.

I had it too, I could go for hours and nothing would happen. Basically the way to get it fixed is to quit porn, quit or heavily reduce jerking off, and use a much much lighter grip on your ding dong, in PE or jerking off or anything.

For me I literally took a while off porn and used a lighter grip on myself and I was going whenever I want, now I can finish within minutes if I want!


Alternatively, it may be something psychological, stress etc. For me, I found that once I'd lasted so long once, I would start to worry if I started taking over like 20 minutes. Even now I could do it- if I go past 20 or so minutes I start to worry aw man what if my DE has come back. Then that worrying causes problems of its own and causes more DE. And lasting that long anyway reduces your sensitivity.


Whatever the particular cause, don't worry, it's easy to treat, and you're on the easy side as I like to think of it. You can last as long as you want, which is great for the ladies. Once you get yourself sorted, you'll have great control over when you finish, or so I've found anyway.
 

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I only really feel sensation in the head. I'm done masturbating for a long time, and I'm not going to need to either since I'll be beating my gf up for awhile too lol.

But I credit some of my gains toward weight loss (- 85 lbs, I'm sure I've added at least .5 in error of measure bpel with all that fat pad), improved EQ, @going411x7 and MeCoach.
 

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Oh alright, great. Congrats on the gains.

But have you tried masturbating just to see if you are capable of ejaculating at all?
 

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Amen,fuck yo problem tell us how did u get those 2 inches :D :D


Are you kidding? Do you really think there is a "secret" routine to get those kinds of gains? There is no secret, it requires commitment and time, more than most guys are capable of. Look at his join date. He's probably been doing PE for 7 years.

Oops. I thought y'all were talking about miami-cock.

My other theory is that if you are young, and you get quick gains (over an inch), your gains are mostly due to your body's natural growth of your penis at the period in your life.
 
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I can't do it.
I've just had sex with the most beautiful girl I've ever been with. Every position, every speed, everything and I couldn't get my nut. We had sex 5 times in the last 24 hours, I even took the condom off and I still couldn't cum.

What do I do? It's not just with her, the last girl I had sex with I didn't cum either.

I used to masturbate a whole lot, and even though i've cut down recently (somewhat), I still can't nut.

You have delayed ejaculation. It really sucks. It's terrible for the girl too. I suffered with DE for years (from jerkin to porn) and it got so bad my hot wife didn't even want to have sex with me anymore. Plus it makes your girl feel inadequate. Take it serious, buddy, because it is. Quit all porn and jerkin off. Sensitivity will come back if you have discipline.