Can Porn help rather than hurt??

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I totally agree with this forum's perspective that porn creates false expectations and desensitizes the mind leading to less arousal and weaker erections etc. Before PE I used to think that I had never seen a guy smaller than me in porn. Was kind of a bummer. Since embarking on PE i have noticed many new things.
1. Before PE I never even considered the parameter of Girth. Now I noticed many guys in porn who are long are also thin.
2. Since taking pictures to document PE, ive noticed the camera adds to actual size. Also Ive noticed many tricks and perspectives used to enhance size on camera
3. Ive noticed many large porn stars are semi soft through out the whole shoot.

In general many of the myths and false persepctives of porn were revealed. By doing so, much of the lost confidence has been regained and sporadic porn viewing now serves me to realize that i should be really happy with what im working with. If fact, I asked my self how many porn stars i would trade my dick with and I could only think of (2)(peter north & johnny hung). Most others, while super huge or super thick, have some other deficiency (usually, weak erections) which make me think, I would rather stick with what Ive got.

Also, many times, I will see a guy who is just a little bigger than me. Then I think, with dedicated PE, I will be that big soon. This serves as a real inspiration to keep working hard. Seeing what others have and what they achieved can be a great motivator. Thats one reason i love this forum.

In conclusion, i want to add that I am not advocating to go overboard with porn viewing. Anything can go too far and be detrimental. But to those PE homeboys who cant stay away from porn, im suggesting you try to gain some motivation and perspective to help on your PE ambitions.
 

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Porn is good. Too much... is bad. Very bad. But that's my opinion. I still watch the sh*t, i won't lie, but not like i used to when i was 17-18. I was borderline addicted to the stuff.

If you use it correctly, it's actually good. It teaches you how to, where to touch a girl, how to talk dirty, and tease. I always used it to spice up the sex. I'm still young but I'm not dependent on it.

I used it as edging material now, and maybe once a week tops. You want to remain on a level where your hormones are not out of wack, and where the slightest thought of porn gets you going immediately. Not having to nearly stroke your dick off, and watching domination to get a hard on, big no no.

It's great and like anything in this world, too much is bad.

So in my book, yes! Porn can be good ;)
 

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When I started ro experience ED over ten years ago, porn proved to be very helpful. However, as time progressed the ED worsened and porn became less effective. I can't tell which was the cause and which was the effect.

Today, a little porn now again is a bit helpful, but I now require a VED and/or Trimix injection to achieve an erection.
 

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Interesting thread. Like a typical saying, too much of any thing can be bad for you. I still use porn once in a while, but more of a fact I am trying to find Asian Man White Female porn as a form of knowing that is Asian guys has a fair chance in scoring hot white gals
 

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I'm 38, I've never experienced any negative from porn. However, I have not watched in months. I used to watch more for edging. I think if it helps with edging, then it is good. But if not for edging and just quick masturbation, it can become a problem. I like big dick porn as much as anyone, but that is not reality. I have perfectly awesome normal sex.

So, porn is bad if you fantasize about it. But if used just for stimulation, it's not bad.
 

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I don't think it has had much effect on me, besides maybe warping my sense of average vs big. Also been single most my life, so imo you do need something when sex is not on the horizon.
 

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I flucking love porn, but in excessive amounts it's dangerous as it can fry your arousal receptors or whatever.

If used minimally within a controlled manner, it can be beneficial IMO, with edging/ballooning. Just don't edge/balloon for hours at a time.. and don't use it for a quick nut, because that's how premature ejaculation is developed. Cha-cha!
 

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As long as you control porn and not the other way around it's fine.
 

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I've seen it recommended as a potential alternative to contact therapies for those who have been sexually inactive for long periods and/or who have very low libido. The purpose is described as one way of stimulating the libido for individuals and couples.


This recommendation was made well before the internet was in wide use, though.
 

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I often see porn referenced as a healthy and valuable tool for exploring one's sexuality. Sounds right to me, although I'm unsure how many actually manage to stick to the exploration aspect instead of drifting into a routine of endless and mindless fapping...
 

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I often see porn referenced as a healthy and valuable tool for exploring one's sexuality. Sounds right to me, although I'm unsure how many actually manage to stick to the exploration aspect instead of drifting into a routine of endless and mindless fapping...

How one reacts to anything like this will depend on the mental strength of the individual in question.
 

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Has anyone else had the same shift in perspective as I have, after finding success in PE? Before, I was always intimidated and thought every guy was bigger than me. After PE the feeling was that I am as big or even bigger than a large number of guys in porn. Now, I havnt grown that much and porn stars havnt shrunk, so I think its just a change in the way I see myself and porn.
 

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Being an Asian guy growing up in Western world, it's always interesting to see that many large white cocks. The initinidation feeling that those big rods are what gal want did stop me making moves on good looking Caucasian gals in my younger days. So it probably wasn't a good idea watching porn during Uni days. Saying that when I was at that age, the average size was much exaggerated.
 

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I watch porn with my girlfriend when sexing on occasion. It gives my erection a boost sometimes.

I definitely would not want to watch it everytime with her.

Too much is too much. It can be addictive. Obviously.
 

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I totally agree with this forum's perspective that porn creates false expectations and desensitizes the mind leading to less arousal and weaker erections etc. Before PE I used to think that I had never seen a guy smaller than me in porn. Was kind of a bummer. Since embarking on PE i have noticed many new things.
1. Before PE I never even considered the parameter of Girth. Now I noticed many guys in porn who are long are also thin.
2. Since taking pictures to document PE, ive noticed the camera adds to actual size. Also Ive noticed many tricks and perspectives used to enhance size on camera
3. Ive noticed many large porn stars are semi soft through out the whole shoot.

In general many of the myths and false persepctives of porn were revealed. By doing so, much of the lost confidence has been regained and sporadic porn viewing now serves me to realize that i should be really happy with what im working with. If fact, I asked my self how many porn stars i would trade my dick with and I could only think of (2)(peter north & johnny hung). Most others, while super huge or super thick, have some other deficiency (usually, weak erections) which make me think, I would rather stick with what Ive got.

Also, many times, I will see a guy who is just a little bigger than me. Then I think, with dedicated PE, I will be that big soon. This serves as a real inspiration to keep working hard. Seeing what others have and what they achieved can be a great motivator. Thats one reason i love this forum.

In conclusion, i want to add that I am not advocating to go overboard with porn viewing. Anything can go too far and be detrimental. But to those PE homeboys who cant stay away from porn, im suggesting you try to gain some motivation and perspective to help on your PE ambitions.

You're right, but what happens to that guy that is 3 inches long and watch porn? it will only increase his insecurity.
Por is bad period. It might have a positive effect in very few circumstances like for example as an aid for a couple to spice things up or get ideas for their own relationships. Anything else you watch porn for, is replacing something missing from real life and thats not good.
 

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Has anyone else had the same shift in perspective as I have, after finding success in PE? Before, I was always intimidated and thought every guy was bigger than me. After PE the feeling was that I am as big or even bigger than a large number of guys in porn. Now, I havnt grown that much and porn stars havnt shrunk, so I think its just a change in the way I see myself and porn.

Some get to the point to where size and performance no longer becomes any type of worry. This state of mind may not even depend on the level of fitness of the individual, either- they transcend their attachments to those states.
 

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Big Al & Jackxx you guys are legends, and your opinions are greatly appreciated. I am finding more and more that Sex, PE, & practically everything has so much about psychology. Another way to put it is state of mind. People pay thousands and undergo enhancement surgery, ultimately to feel better about themselves. Before finding this website and PE how much would I have payed to sport a proper big wang? thousands easily $$$. However through hard work and knowledge from this website I have gained just that. I really dont measure my progress in inches. Rather by reaction of women, and how i feel in bed. Crazy feeling to go from average, at best, to bonified "big" in around 2 years. In a word its "Priceless"!!
 
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Big Al & Jackxx you guys are legends, and your opinions are greatly appreciated. I am finding more and more that Sex, PE, & practically everything has so much about psychology. Another way to put it is state of mind. People pay thousands and undergo enhancement surgery, ultimately to feel better about themselves. Before finding this website and PE how much would I have payed to sport a proper big wang? thousands easily $$$. However through hard work and knowledge from this website I have gained just that. I really dont measure my progress in inches. Rather by reaction of women, and how i feel in bed. Crazy feeling to go from average, at best, to bonified "big" in around 2 years. In a word its "Priceless"!!

Thanks for this post :eek:
 

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Big Al & Jackxx you guys are legends, and your opinions are greatly appreciated. I am finding more and more that Sex, PE, & practically everything has so much about psychology. Another way to put it is state of mind. People pay thousands and undergo enhancement surgery, ultimately to feel better about themselves. Before finding this website and PE how much would I have payed to sport a proper big wang? thousands easily $$$. However through hard work and knowledge from this website I have gained just that. I really dont measure my progress in inches. Rather by reaction of women, and how i feel in bed. Crazy feeling to go from average, at best, to bonified "big" in around 2 years. In a word its "Priceless"!!


Thank you so much!! I am not the most politically correct, nor the most orthodox, diplomatic, but you will find in me pure honesty, transparency and an attempt to use pure logic and common sense.