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So of course I am new to this forum. I stumbled across this while looking for help. Basically my girlfriend said she isn't happy with sex because I haven't hit "that spot" she says I'm much better in the shower. We do many different positions in bed and the shower is her bent over. Recently me and her began talking about this. I have always suffered from not lasting long at all (1-5 min). If I have sex then try to keep her in the mood and go again while I get hard again I can normally last about another 20 minutes. I have tried the sprays, the special condoms, the different thoughts, start and stop, squeezing, rings. All don't seem to work. Recently it seems I don't get fully hard, so I went to the dr today and they gave me a prescription for Cialis and Viagra. About a year ago I was on Zoloft for work related stress and I discovered that Zoloft was a good tool for PE. That didn't even help me. I was taking it on a regular basis until I discovered it was also used for PE. So I tried to take a second dose during dinner so if be ready, it never helped. What does seem to help is when I smoke a little pot before.

I don't know what to do to start curing this, my girlfriend says she wants a hot intense sweaty session but I can't last long at all. I explained to her I feel like less of a man because of this and she is supporting me and telling me not to think like that and that's the last thing she wants. I know this is a process to require my mind but I have no clue where to begin. I've seen edging, clothing, devil grip, etc.

I really want to do something fast so I can restore her confidence in sex will be amazing while working on the ultimate goal of giving her that session. Anybody able to point me in the right direction? Thank you
 

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Welcome redneck01 and thanks for joining us. Great links provided by one of the best members on the Gym for these questions. Remember you can also bend her over in other rooms in the house. The kitchen is my favorite;). Do your training safely, and maybe even invite her to help you. Good luck, enjoy