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Fristajlo

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Hello! This is my first time posting on this forum, hope I didn't post this in the wrong place.

I'm 20, never had sex, and until now I was afraid my performance would be bad.
After all, I am 20, so it's kinda expected from me to have some experience.

But, after reading a lot and watching some videos, I am now pretty confident. This forum has also helped a lot. I have been doing kegels and now I am able to have an orgasm without ejaculating.

The problem is, I am having trouble holding my erection. Is that normal or am I doing something wrong?

Obviously I can do this only when masturbating, I'm guessing it will be harder to hold it when having sex :confused:

So I want to know what are your thoughts on this?
 

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If you stop worrying about being bad at sex you'llbe fine. Try that and go get laid and come back and tell me all about it. I really like those stories!
 

Fristajlo

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If you stop worrying about being bad at sex you'llbe fine. Try that and go get laid and come back and tell me all about it. I really like those stories!

Well sir, I'll make sure to tell you my story when it happens. Hope its gonna be a good one :D
 

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So do I! Now go out and enjoy being young and just enjoy your life.
 

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Fristajlo,

I just joined this forum and website yesterday. I have been reading quite a bit and watching a few video's. This is actually my first post. I am not going to lie, I am probably horrible in bed. I only recently got laid for the first time. This was actually the first girlfriend I ever had as well. My first time getting laid wasn't really that good I guess, but I thoroughly enjoyed it. Plus, I have a loving girlfriend who is willing to work with me and try different things. So I waited a long time and it worked out alright I'd say. I mean I'm a little younger than you, but still a lot of people I know had sex before 16. I was self conscious because I am an Asian and the stereotype of having a smaller penis, for me at least is true.

I don't know how far you have gone before sexually, but I would focus on other stuff as well. This stuff is definitely important too. Just make sure you know everything about foreplay and stuff like that. Also, if you are in a relationship with someone odds are if they truly care about you they won't judge you on your sexual performance. My first time I got off way before my girlfriend and then just finished her with oral and she didn't mind. Most women actually prefer it over actual sex. I know there is some stigma to going down on a girl, but I actually like it.

Edit: When you have a sexy naked woman in front of you touching your penis...it isn't going to be hard to hold your erection. Like I can ejaculate and put on another condom and keep going...

Anyway good luck to ya mate. Patience is a virtue.
 
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