So as I've stated many times before I have a VERY hard time maintaining any kind of erect state when I jelq...even 30 percent. Sessions become a long ordeal to me. Most of the reason is because I quit porn so I don't have any "stimulation". I'm not going back to porn but I substituted with something else...my wife. Basically I tell her to undress and lay a foot on my thigh (I have a foot fetish) and I'm good to go. I jelq away and when I need a little "boost" I look at her foot. I'm able to completely control my erection level and easily maintain 50-80 percent...trying really for 65/70. I don't have to stop to get my erection back and sessions are FUN.
One problem though...once I'm done it's gonna be pretty impossible not to have sex right afterwards. How bad is this? Should I really try to refrain or will it not have enough effect to matter. I know the consensus is that you shouldn't ejaculate for a couple hours before/after but is it generally thought to have a huge effect on gains or just minimal?
I know there is no definite answer...just looking for opinions/criticism on what I'm doing and if anyone thinks I really should lay off the sex so soon afterwards.
One problem though...once I'm done it's gonna be pretty impossible not to have sex right afterwards. How bad is this? Should I really try to refrain or will it not have enough effect to matter. I know the consensus is that you shouldn't ejaculate for a couple hours before/after but is it generally thought to have a huge effect on gains or just minimal?
I know there is no definite answer...just looking for opinions/criticism on what I'm doing and if anyone thinks I really should lay off the sex so soon afterwards.