Had best jelq session ever...but...

KungFuJoe

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So as I've stated many times before I have a VERY hard time maintaining any kind of erect state when I jelq...even 30 percent. Sessions become a long ordeal to me. Most of the reason is because I quit porn so I don't have any "stimulation". I'm not going back to porn but I substituted with something else...my wife. Basically I tell her to undress and lay a foot on my thigh (I have a foot fetish) and I'm good to go. I jelq away and when I need a little "boost" I look at her foot. I'm able to completely control my erection level and easily maintain 50-80 percent...trying really for 65/70. I don't have to stop to get my erection back and sessions are FUN.

One problem though...once I'm done it's gonna be pretty impossible not to have sex right afterwards. How bad is this? Should I really try to refrain or will it not have enough effect to matter. I know the consensus is that you shouldn't ejaculate for a couple hours before/after but is it generally thought to have a huge effect on gains or just minimal?

I know there is no definite answer...just looking for opinions/criticism on what I'm doing and if anyone thinks I really should lay off the sex so soon afterwards.
 

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You may want to test this out yourself. Try it one day have sex after two hours; be sure to monitor your unit and feelings. The Next day; have sex immediately after PE be sure to monitor your unit and feelings before and after sex.

IMO; you need to avoid having sex immediately after PE.
 
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Doing v-jelqs slow and gentle with plenty of lube feels nice for me and works well in this regard. Another idea I have is to start reading some erotica now and then, and ejaculate less.
 

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If you are not pulling our legs regarding your wife lying in front of you naked while you jelq - she better get something for doing such a wifely duty!!! You must be a big fan of the NY Jets and Rex Ryan in particular!!