Dry Orgasm Question

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Quick question, I am practicing on my dry orgasms... am I supposed to let go of my penis when I am at the POTN + kegel hold, or am I supposed to kegel hold and just continue masturbating?
 

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Do the easiest thing first, which is to reverse kegel when approaching the PONR. When you're at the plateau, and this is where a lot of practice is required, you need to kegel hard for as many seconds as necessary to allow the orgasm to be suppressed. This is just damn hard. Your kegeling strength is vital. You will fail more times then you succeed at first. This is where you need a high-tolerance for frustration, as this is the part where most guys will probably give up trying to be MMO.

This could take months however, depends how often you practice. And do remember that practicing manually verses the real thing is not the same.

The progression after this get's easier. Once you're good at clamping your prostate (image your prostate is being squeezed by a vice-grip!) you can start controlling your orgasms better. You can try partially clamping down, i.e., clamping and then letting go again right at the end of the orgasm. In other words, start clamping at the same time you normally would to interrupt the orgasm, but then stop short of holding it as long as you normally would, this will allow a partial orgasm (which could be wet or dry). From this point more and more practice will start to teach you to read your reactions very closely. You can control (to some extent) when you have an orgasm, or you can ejaculate without having a full-orgasm, or you can let it build and build, holding off by kegeling for a while then reverse kegeling for a while, and have a more intense orgasm.

For me I can't imagine not being in control of my reactions, what I experience now is a world beyond what I used to do before. I feel now that I have adult orgasms (verses the 'teenage' ones I had before where I'd just explode and it would all be over). Don't know any other way to say it really.
 

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Ok controlled partial ejaculation is probably not your goal shorty so much of the above post is not relevant.
As you closely approach the ponr at first you will have to stop stimulation to avoid ejaculation ,however many guys can dry orgasm at this point with good timing. As you become more experienced you can continue stimulation and start rolling orgasms.
 

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Ok controlled partial ejaculation is probably not your goal shorty so much of the above post is not relevant.
As you closely approach the ponr at first you will have to stop stimulation to avoid ejaculation ,however many guys can dry orgasm at this point with good timing. As you become more experienced you can continue stimulation and start rolling orgasms.

That's actually a good name for it "controlled partial ejaculation.". Sounds scientific!

But if you're serious about it I suggest to anyone to look through the literature. There is quite a bit written on this subject.
 

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I notice if i do a super hard reverse kegel ... semen or some type of fluid ( in a small amount) comes out.. Not to sound gross or anything... but it happens usually when I am squeezing out a turd LOL. I've been able to hold back most of my ejaculation when I get to my POTN , then of course a little bit comes out. Working on keeping everything inside; then I'll work on the sensation + holding back I guess.
 

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That could be seminal gland fluid (or what's called precum) but you're definitely on the right track.
 

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What is potn? And I usually reverse kegel during edging before I am about to cum but I feel like it does nothing . Is there a certain amount of time that I have to hold it for?