... sleep with you if they like you and you like her? One of my best friends and I both were recently "invovled" with these girls that also happened to be best friends (they picked up right as me and my girl ended). Both girls had a tendency to sleep around with a few guys (not overt sluts, by any means), but when it came to us they wouldn't sleep with us even after a couple months, and in the end neither of us got laid.
Before anyone calls me a pig, just know that I really cared about this girl, and when she dumped me the fact that we didn't have sex was the last thing on my mind that I was bummed about. Before we were together I hung out with her everyday for a month and didn't make a single move (she already knew I liked her). I would cuddle her, and talk on the phone for hours, I'd remember tiny insignificant things (which I know girls love), and basically did everything to let her know I cared, so I feel like she should have known I wasn't just in it for sex.
I'm just asking because I see a lot of girls do this. They''ll sleep around and then hold out on the only guys that actually care about them, or even in some cases hold out on their boyfriend and cheat on him. Its just hard to watch it happen and still want to be a "good guy" and not an asshole.
Before anyone calls me a pig, just know that I really cared about this girl, and when she dumped me the fact that we didn't have sex was the last thing on my mind that I was bummed about. Before we were together I hung out with her everyday for a month and didn't make a single move (she already knew I liked her). I would cuddle her, and talk on the phone for hours, I'd remember tiny insignificant things (which I know girls love), and basically did everything to let her know I cared, so I feel like she should have known I wasn't just in it for sex.
I'm just asking because I see a lot of girls do this. They''ll sleep around and then hold out on the only guys that actually care about them, or even in some cases hold out on their boyfriend and cheat on him. Its just hard to watch it happen and still want to be a "good guy" and not an asshole.