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Hey guys,
I've suffered from premature ejaculation for the past year or so. I have managed to minimize the problem by just powering through after I ejaculate, something which caused me little discomfort and which gave me enough time to satisfy my partner. However, I've hit a snag the past couple of days as my girlfriend has made the decision to go off birth control, which means I'll be having to use condoms, so my previous strategy is kaput. I've been trying to fix my anterior pelvic tilt, relax my pelvic floor, I've started a kegeling routine and I'm trying to develop that awareness of the pelvic floor. I do believe that I will see improvement with these methods and will stick with them for, however my current situation calls for something more immediate. I see my girlfriend once every two weeks or so, and only for a week at a time, and I don't want to leave her feeling dissatisfied (she very much enjoys penetrative sex above all else).
So the way I see it I have a couple of options:
- Try to power through once again and just switch condoms very efficiently (this can be hit or miss as sometimes I will ejaculate even more quickly the second time around with the added pressure of using the condom, or I will start to go flaccid by the time I get the damn thing on)
- Learn different methods of satisfying my partner other than penetrative sex
- Use a short acting SSRI like dapoxetine or topical creams like lidocaine to help me through until I resolve the problem naturally.
I'd really appreciate any help and wisdom you could throw my way. I really love this girl and I want to have a high quality sexual relationship as well an emotional one. Thanks in advance!
I've suffered from premature ejaculation for the past year or so. I have managed to minimize the problem by just powering through after I ejaculate, something which caused me little discomfort and which gave me enough time to satisfy my partner. However, I've hit a snag the past couple of days as my girlfriend has made the decision to go off birth control, which means I'll be having to use condoms, so my previous strategy is kaput. I've been trying to fix my anterior pelvic tilt, relax my pelvic floor, I've started a kegeling routine and I'm trying to develop that awareness of the pelvic floor. I do believe that I will see improvement with these methods and will stick with them for, however my current situation calls for something more immediate. I see my girlfriend once every two weeks or so, and only for a week at a time, and I don't want to leave her feeling dissatisfied (she very much enjoys penetrative sex above all else).
So the way I see it I have a couple of options:
- Try to power through once again and just switch condoms very efficiently (this can be hit or miss as sometimes I will ejaculate even more quickly the second time around with the added pressure of using the condom, or I will start to go flaccid by the time I get the damn thing on)
- Learn different methods of satisfying my partner other than penetrative sex
- Use a short acting SSRI like dapoxetine or topical creams like lidocaine to help me through until I resolve the problem naturally.
I'd really appreciate any help and wisdom you could throw my way. I really love this girl and I want to have a high quality sexual relationship as well an emotional one. Thanks in advance!