i always find myself going on and off a jelqing routine because i always get horny and just want to masturbate. what do you guys think i should do? has anyone else struggled with this when they first started?
its hard being consistant
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as you jelq more and more it will become less arousing, just keep at it and you'll eventually do it without a problem
Discipline is what you lack. Like anything else in life you must sacrifice short term pleasure for long term gain.
If you want a bigger dick you have to make the necessary sacrifice.
I don't know what your motivation for a bigger dick is but when you're tempted to not do your workout think about your reasons for doing PE in the first place and then DO YOUR WORKOUT.
I am more motivated by fear of loss than gain so perhaps that would work better for you.
Example: I hate lifting weights. Once I am at the gym I hit it hard but it is easy to procrastinate. So I just think about some other guy fucking my wife who is in better physical condition and I get motivated. Thinking about having bigger muscles is nice but not enough to get me off my ass.
Pleasure and pain are powerful motivators. Long term/short term but usually not both.
Goodluck.
If you want a bigger dick you have to make the necessary sacrifice.
I don't know what your motivation for a bigger dick is but when you're tempted to not do your workout think about your reasons for doing PE in the first place and then DO YOUR WORKOUT.
I am more motivated by fear of loss than gain so perhaps that would work better for you.
Example: I hate lifting weights. Once I am at the gym I hit it hard but it is easy to procrastinate. So I just think about some other guy fucking my wife who is in better physical condition and I get motivated. Thinking about having bigger muscles is nice but not enough to get me off my ass.
Pleasure and pain are powerful motivators. Long term/short term but usually not both.
Goodluck.
Think of it as a workout routine. Obviously you are pleasuring yourself instead of concentrating on jelqing and stretching.
We've all had issues like these. You have ADHD, lol jk.
Seriously though, break up your routine into sets. Do 20 jelqs, take a break, another 20, take a break.
If time is what makes you lose your patience, then go for QUALITY not QUANTITY. Have a short but intense routine instead of a long and easy one.
Seriously though, break up your routine into sets. Do 20 jelqs, take a break, another 20, take a break.
If time is what makes you lose your patience, then go for QUALITY not QUANTITY. Have a short but intense routine instead of a long and easy one.
i just can't help but think about how good it would feel to ejaculate... then i end up busting a nut
If i masturbate before jelqing will it effect my results? i hear after jelqing, it can cause shrinkage but what about before?
If i masturbate before jelqing will it effect my results? i hear after jelqing, it can cause shrinkage but what about before?
so would you say i could masturbate as much as i want to BEFORE i start my jelqing session? then after i jelq and warm down, i dont do it? is that okay?
I struggled with this too.
IT takes discipline as Nacho said.
Also, put down the porn isn't so appealing when you think about it as an industry making money off by fucking with your brain chemistry and stealing your valuable time.
looking at porn at any time of the day before your workout is a detriment to your ability to complete a workout, that stuff sticks in your head man, it's brutal
IT takes discipline as Nacho said.
Also, put down the porn isn't so appealing when you think about it as an industry making money off by fucking with your brain chemistry and stealing your valuable time.
looking at porn at any time of the day before your workout is a detriment to your ability to complete a workout, that stuff sticks in your head man, it's brutal
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Stop being an idiot. Stop playing with yourself and get to work starting to grow. After all isn't that why you're here? Pick one of the fine starting routines and get going.
lol, just wait until you find out how helpful edging is, then realize the goal is to do all the work but NEVER get to feel ejaculation!! I'm a post-workout edger (theory behind it being you fill newly stretched tissue with blood)
