Stubble's and Beards

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I have a question for the ladies.
I am guessing its personal preference, but generally what do women like better when it comes to kissing/foreplay/oral etc..

I want to know what do girls prefer when it comes to french kissing, kissing her body and tending her gardens. I don't want to make the experience uncomfortable.

For me personally a clean shaven face is out of the question, because I don't like how I look without a stubble and I want to hide some scars. But I am getting bored of the stubble and I am wanting to experiment to see how I look with a beard. I am not talking about a crazy long beard. I am talking about something like this at most. http://a.espncdn.com/photo/2013/0823/mma_g_mcgregor_kh_300.jpg
 

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Personally I don't like beards and I find a bit of stubble can be kinda sexy. On the other hand my friend loves beards, she wants to run up to guys with beards and run her fingers through them.
 

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Personally I don't like beards and I find a bit of stubble can be kinda sexy. On the other hand my friend loves beards, she wants to run up to guys with beards and run her fingers through them.

Yes that is mostly personal preference but what I mean is still the same when kissing? Some may like it and some hate it when kissing?
 

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Yes that is mostly personal preference but what I mean is still the same when kissing? Some may like it and some hate it when kissing?

I don't like beards when kissing. I don't like the feeling of the hair against my lips or my face, and I tend to like to caress and stroke my partner's cheek from time to time when kissing and I just don't like touching the beards. So for me beards are a turn off.

Stubble is something that I'm actually just slowly coming into liking. Previously I've never really much liked the look or feel of stubble, and even still it really depends on the guy and the facial hair. Sometimes it's so rough and prickly that it's just annoying. Sometimes it's actually rather soft. I have no idea what makes the difference. But at least with the stubble I can still get a sensation of the skin underneath it for kissing or caressing.
 

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Sometimes it's actually rather soft. I have no idea what makes the difference.

I use shampoo and conditioner twice a day (during my morning shower and after training), I think it makes a huge difference, it also makes trimming it easier.

I have "stubble" that I keep short with a beard trimmer with the shortest attachment on, I like that "rough and ready" look more than the "clean shaven" look. But I also think it's generally down to the man; what he prefers and what suits him.
 

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I love hair on the face and anywhere. I also can go for no hair if they are still masculine looking without it.
I don't mind a little beard burn here and there. It's the price to pay lol

Uh oh I'll stop here lol
 

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The only thing with that kind of beard is that it gives out a poor man/hobo vibe, unless you balance it by being sharp dressed, or have a biker/"bad boy" look to match it with.
 

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I've had a full beard and mustache for years. I have always been told I look like a lumberjack.

Wife just loves it!
 

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My wife always complains when I give her oral if I have not shaved within the past 24 hours. She also akes me to shave before going out to met friends and family. I guess baby boomers have a different outlook on grooming.
 

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I have a question for the ladies.
I am guessing its personal preference, but generally what do women like better when it comes to kissing/foreplay/oral etc..

I want to know what do girls prefer when it comes to french kissing, kissing her body and tending her gardens. I don't want to make the experience uncomfortable.

For me personally a clean shaven face is out of the question, because I don't like how I look without a stubble and I want to hide some scars. But I am getting bored of the stubble and I am wanting to experiment to see how I look with a beard. I am not talking about a crazy long beard. I am talking about something like this at most. http://a.espncdn.com/photo/2013/0823/mma_g_mcgregor_kh_300.jpg

Hey Chivas,

In our time together, my hubby has sported a mustache, goatee, stubble as well as the clean-shaven look and I have loved them all. The only challenge I have with a full beard is that it hides a man's facial features which are rather lovely to look at. And although you feel the need to cover your face, you should know that many women find facial scars to be rather distinctive and sexy as hell. :eyebrows:
 
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I personally think a man shouldnt be ashamed of how he looks, or dislike his look when clean shaved, regardless of the fact if women like it or not. Its the mans face, its who he is.

YES! I AGREE! This is what I was going to say! Of course we are ALL different.

I personally do like a bit of facial hair. I do like a well trimmed goatee or some scruff. I guess I've never been with anyone with a full beard & I don't really like how just a mustache looks usually. Truth be told it makes me think of a 70's porn star. lol. But that being said I wouldn't not be with someone I was into because of facial hair. That thought is just absurd. A guy should just be himself, facial hair or not.
 

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I personally think a man shouldnt be ashamed of how he looks, or dislike his look when clean shaved, regardless of the fact if women like it or not. Its the mans face, its who he is.

For me it is the opposite. For me it is more natural to let your beard grow, so I am more ashamed to cut it lol. And I do think a stubble suits me better than clean face so i feel more comfortable with stubble.
I want to cover the scars because I already have 2 other scars that can't be covered on my face, so I want to cover the ones I can.
I do like my scars for many reasons. Like TPW said girls dig it. And other guys don't really want to mess with me, which is a bonus because I don't want to be bothered. It comes with many benefits but when you already have a few you can't hide I feel like I should try to hide the ones I can.
But I mostly want to stick with stubble/beard not to hide them but because I myself feel more comfortable and better looking with it. Clean face looks stupid one me :D
 
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If that is you in your profile pic def leave the stubble. That guy looks great!!
 

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I personally think a man shouldnt be ashamed of how he looks, or dislike his look when clean shaved, regardless of the fact if women like it or not. Its the mans face, its who he is.
But being bearded is the natural state that we remove through artificial means, therefore the beard is who he is also.
 

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But being bearded is the natural state that we remove through artificial means, therefore the beard is who he is also.

Pros and Cons to being entirely how nature wanted us:

Pros: men could have lovely beards and women would be used to it cos they wouldn't have ever seen a shaved face on a man.

Cons: Women would have hairy armpits, and moggy's that actually looked like a moggy!
 

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Hey Chivas,

In our time together, my hubby has sported a mustache, goatee, stubble as well as the clean-shaven look and I have loved them all. The only challenge I have with a full beard is that it hides a man's facial features which are rather lovely to look at. And although you feel the need to cover your face, you should know that many women find facial scars to be rather distinctive and sexy as hell. :eyebrows:

TPW......you have such a lovely way with words and sentiments. Your hubby is one lucky SOB. ;-)