Hey guys, fellow PEGymers (now biohackers)
I honestly have no where else on the internet to post and ask about this, so here goes nothing. It's the first time I have ever brought out an issue regarding basically "erection quality"
Last 2 years now, especially last 6 months or so, I have been having difficulties staying hard while having sex. I am not in a LTR but I have had a few girls. I haven't had tons of sex with them, just some times with each of them.
I can manage to get pretty hard in the beginning while kissing. But as soon as it has stayed hard for a while (during foreplay), or as soon as I am having sex, it goes to about 50-80% maximum... This goes for all of the sex positions. This is a huge problem. It does NOT represent me nor my character. I am a very flirty, high libido, almost always horny kind of guy.
If we take a break for just a minute or so, it can even just go back to a semi-erect or even pushing flaccid. It just does not make any sense anymore. I don't know what's going on. I have never been able to stay fully hard while laying on my back straight, even if I am masturbating. I always have to sit or lean back with my upper body sort of tiltet up a bit. Which is not the worst, as I can do missionary and doggy, etc.
Here are some notes regarding health:
- I am in my 20s
- I am extremely fit and exercise very frequently
- I have good cardio
- I eat very healthy
- I probably have high testosterone as I "feel" manly and i can even get random erections when I am outside or if I am flirting with a random girl outside, which is something even my friends can't get
- I have no health issues
- I take Vitamins, Zinc, Magnesium and B6
- I drink A LOT of water every day
- I don't use ANY drugs
I mean, what else is there to say? Googling this issue, I only get answers that does not fit my health remarks
I rarely masturbate, and haven't done so in a few months actually. I don't really watch much porn. Sometimes just a little bit of solo if I edge.
I am able to sit down and get 100% hard if I for example decide to masturbate to porn. I also get 100% had after doing a PE routine (jelq, stretch, Bathmate, clamp), which leads me to think...
I certainly hope PE can not have anything to do with me having these issues with sex? My penis is clearly having a problem - it won't stay fully hard even if it should be. I admit the girls I have been sleeping with aren't the hottest girls I'd want, they don't make me "that" horny, but they are still girls. We get along and I am able to get hard as soon as we touch and kiss each other in the beginning.
I don't want to try any type of viagra or such drugs. Is there any possibility PE "might" have caused me some issues with this particularly problem? Why would it, if I am able to get and stay hard a long time while edging for example? If I use a bathmate, I can even easier get harder, but I dont want to get dependent on it.
My last sex session with these failures was a few days ago. And I have not done ANY PE for the last 2-3 weeks.... I am able to have sex, but my penis just gets kind of rubbery because it can't stay hard.
I am circumcised, so my penis is unfortunately not "that" sensitive either, which does not help the case. On top of this, doing PE for so many years might have desensitized it a bit more... But I wouldn't think this necessarily would be a reason for said problem because I am able to stay hard for a long time if I edge or masturbate. I do NOT think I have the "death grip" thing because again, I don't masturbate often. And if I do, I use tons of coconut oil/lube.
I can't see how this can be a psychological issue as I don't stress very much and I am calm.
I know it's a long post, but you guys are my only "hope".
I honestly have no where else on the internet to post and ask about this, so here goes nothing. It's the first time I have ever brought out an issue regarding basically "erection quality"
Last 2 years now, especially last 6 months or so, I have been having difficulties staying hard while having sex. I am not in a LTR but I have had a few girls. I haven't had tons of sex with them, just some times with each of them.
I can manage to get pretty hard in the beginning while kissing. But as soon as it has stayed hard for a while (during foreplay), or as soon as I am having sex, it goes to about 50-80% maximum... This goes for all of the sex positions. This is a huge problem. It does NOT represent me nor my character. I am a very flirty, high libido, almost always horny kind of guy.
If we take a break for just a minute or so, it can even just go back to a semi-erect or even pushing flaccid. It just does not make any sense anymore. I don't know what's going on. I have never been able to stay fully hard while laying on my back straight, even if I am masturbating. I always have to sit or lean back with my upper body sort of tiltet up a bit. Which is not the worst, as I can do missionary and doggy, etc.
Here are some notes regarding health:
- I am in my 20s
- I am extremely fit and exercise very frequently
- I have good cardio
- I eat very healthy
- I probably have high testosterone as I "feel" manly and i can even get random erections when I am outside or if I am flirting with a random girl outside, which is something even my friends can't get
- I have no health issues
- I take Vitamins, Zinc, Magnesium and B6
- I drink A LOT of water every day
- I don't use ANY drugs
I mean, what else is there to say? Googling this issue, I only get answers that does not fit my health remarks
I rarely masturbate, and haven't done so in a few months actually. I don't really watch much porn. Sometimes just a little bit of solo if I edge.
I am able to sit down and get 100% hard if I for example decide to masturbate to porn. I also get 100% had after doing a PE routine (jelq, stretch, Bathmate, clamp), which leads me to think...
I certainly hope PE can not have anything to do with me having these issues with sex? My penis is clearly having a problem - it won't stay fully hard even if it should be. I admit the girls I have been sleeping with aren't the hottest girls I'd want, they don't make me "that" horny, but they are still girls. We get along and I am able to get hard as soon as we touch and kiss each other in the beginning.
I don't want to try any type of viagra or such drugs. Is there any possibility PE "might" have caused me some issues with this particularly problem? Why would it, if I am able to get and stay hard a long time while edging for example? If I use a bathmate, I can even easier get harder, but I dont want to get dependent on it.
My last sex session with these failures was a few days ago. And I have not done ANY PE for the last 2-3 weeks.... I am able to have sex, but my penis just gets kind of rubbery because it can't stay hard.
I am circumcised, so my penis is unfortunately not "that" sensitive either, which does not help the case. On top of this, doing PE for so many years might have desensitized it a bit more... But I wouldn't think this necessarily would be a reason for said problem because I am able to stay hard for a long time if I edge or masturbate. I do NOT think I have the "death grip" thing because again, I don't masturbate often. And if I do, I use tons of coconut oil/lube.
I can't see how this can be a psychological issue as I don't stress very much and I am calm.
I know it's a long post, but you guys are my only "hope".